How Much Desperation Is Necessary?

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[joelnadar]

Jordan giving life saving advices for men and also secretly roasting them😂

[katemiller]

I don’t know whether or not this might be helpful for anyone or not, but here goes:
When I was younger, I didn’t think very much about guys asking me out.

Now that I’ve seen a few more years, I understand what a gift of courage and kindness those men gave in approaching me with the offer of themselves. It really does take guts. Guys rock!

[priyeshsingh]

I wish I had Dr. Peterson when I was 16.
I would have understood myself and helped me through some really tough times.

[anaphaxeton]

I am not a young man anymore. At 43, i have to say that the pornography problem stems from the burden males want to avoid. That avoidance is what should be discussed. That is the essence.

[dodieodie]

My sister went through a long dry spell when no man was asking her out. She felt invisible and couldn't figure out why. Then she got in touch with a guy she hadn't seen since they were teens. They just wrote back and forth. Then she shared a photo. He said that if he'd seen her in person, he probably never would have spoken to her. He said it was because he would have assumed she was out of his league. She did not know how to feel about that, but I told her that it was a compliment. She said it didn't matter, because guys avoiding her, for whatever reason, still translated into loneliness.

[Crusader]

Nowadays, it's not only about rejection but destruction by slander for merely approaching a woman.

[soulthriver-oz]

My brother has been broken by girls & women. He is really interesting, intelligent, kind.. but only 5ft 5 tall. He is almost always overlooked by women due to his height. He's told me how, over the years they've openly sniggered & sneered at him as he's gone to approach them. He is 55 now & very lonely. He says he feels invisible everywhere he goes.

[tech]

Social skills should be the number one subject taught in schools.

[mrillis]

We aren't scared of rejection, we are scared of being sucked into whatever she has and our lives being spiraled into what ever she has becoming our life.

[junn]

Basically, porn erase your sexual drive, because porn "feeds" your sexual urge or biological needs, you no longer hungry enough to be desperate enough to put effort for attracting mate (relationship)

[reversatire]

We face rejection everywhere, jobs, colleges... how about we work on learning how to reject without crushing the person and how to handle rejection better

[nunyazero]

❤ Dr. Peterson! Your wisdom is saving us.

[lhodges]

This is merely a market in the process of correcting itself. If something is too expensive, cheaper alternatives will be used until prices lower.

[TexBond-czpd]

There was a joke online about a guy who was on a date with a girl who mentioned that she had an only fans site. He said "Thank you, but the date is over." and took her home. She asked him why? He said, "Why should I spend $100 taking you out dinner and a movie then maybe end up with a goodnight kiss when for $4.99 I can see you naked."

[shrky.]

It occurs to me that I might be hyper conflating my my few unattractive flaws and contributing my entire issue with girls to those when, in reality, my problem with girls has more to do with a number of other things. There's no use in assuming your problems holding someone's attraction can be reduced to a list of unchangeable flaws.

[demetriuscooksey]

I was terrified, until I wasn't. I had an appropriate degree of desperation though, because I didn't look at porn.

[Mittau]

Why try when it isn't reciprocated? Desperation is for previous generations that had a different social landscape. The solution isn't to make men desperate enough to tolerate awful women again, its to make women realise being relentlessly awful is no longer tolerable.

[leecampion]

We must understand. His words for the young male is so true!!

[basedbulgarian]

I'm not scared of rejection, I don't have an internal need to be everyone's cup of tea. What I'm scared of is getting into a relationship with a woman who will put up a facade during the dating and engagement phase, and show her true narcissistic colors after the wedding, when everything turns into her complaining that I don't do enough chores as an excuse for why she won't have intimacy with me

[springsoleiluna]

Thank you for your bravery, vulnerability and compassion! You are my mentor and I'm grateful and 🎉you. I appreciate you, Jordan and my soul loves yours