All the difficult things I had to re-learn this year

Chapters:

00:00 - Introduction
00:55 - Consequences
01:39 - Friendship
02:49 - Quotes & writing
04:05 - Community
05:54 - Time heals
06:25 - The now
07:00 - Planning life

What I use to make my videos:

What I use for my daily journaling:

Books that shaped me:



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[electroquests]

While watching this quote came to mind “I am very interested and fascinated by how everyone loves each other, but no one really likes each other" - from the Perks of Being a Wallflower

[ChrisGaultHealthyLiving]

Very thought provoking, Lana! Love your videos. I'm 62 now and still learning new things. Sometimes from young, intelligent people like you, Lana. Keep being your awesome self!

[babachakakati]

I'm 17 and lately I was thinking about most of these things you talked about. Thank you for making this video because the answers are clearer now.

[AwesomeRando]

I view nostalgia as a bit of a "comfort zone." A place we all go to when we are discontent with our current life. The interesting part, however, is that nostalgia makes the past more glorious than it actually was. The past, present and future are all filled with hardships. But what makes the past unique are the little things that helped us get through the tough times. The songs we used to listen to. The shows and movies we used to watch. The memories we had in school. That grocery store we used to go to but is no longer there because it got demolished and replaced by another business and every time we past by the place I say, "man do you remember there used to be a Kmart here? Those were some good times!" Even the transition from summer to fall where the sky turns grey and the leaves turn brown usually puts me in a nostalgic mood. Anyways, I'm rambling. It's just the part in the video where Lana mentioned nostalgia got me excited.

[sandbagger]

Thought-provoking video. Kind of reminds me of the saying about life being like a river. You can swim and keep your head above water, but over time, the river will carry you downstream. Life will take you to your future whether you want it to or not.

[natemarx]

I have almost died twice and I am in my 30's. It is natural for me to think about my mortality.

[annaspeaks]

yeah, I am an adult now and can’t believe in it. I convinced that there is no adult exist in the world, all are children who plays role of adults.

[inspiringmorning]

Life is more than eyes can comprehend. But most people “know” too much to understand this ….When you understand this simple thing, life becomes wonderful, full of joy and love .

[yashikakumari]

I can't begin to tell you, how much I love your content. Thank you for creating these videos, they've helped me a a lot during the days when felt lost or stressed out. I have learnt to understand a lot of things about life and also about myself. A big thanks to you!

[Sanjana-kwui]

I found this channel just after promising myself to start loving myself and start to care about little things that make me what I am. You share the content and lessons that I exactly need right now. Thanks Lana❤

[Uae_beauty]

Now when i become 38 ..the biggest lesson i learn don't look for friendship or relation .. The good ppls come to you in right time when you love yourself first.. So learn how to love yourself

[Frozki]

Thank you for sharing, really thought provoking. The question like 'where do you see yourself in 5 years' just annoy me, sure I can say I want to become this or that but then again life rarely goes as planned. So now I just embrace curiosity and willingness to learn new, exciting things.

[theintentionalist]

I quite like your existential monologues. Being a human moving through time is such a beautiful experience. Embrace the suck and memento mori.❤

[LofiDreaming]

Lana, your videos are always so insightful and thought-provoking! 🌟 This year has indeed been a time of learning and growth for many of us, and your wisdom is greatly appreciated. 💖📚

[Champingcom]

I appreciated your videos.
I also learn along the way as you do.
Thanks Lana!

[michaelvandenheuvel]

I love that we share the same world.
I like the little things I remember about you.

[SmilingDesertCreature-brvg]

I've struggled with mental wellness for 15+ years, and I must say this video is eye opening. It's not always easy to maintain a happy mood or an uplifting vibe all day, everyday. As I've grown older the more I've realized I'm only human, and that I need to stop beating myself up for not being chipper 24/7. I'm a bit of a perfectionist and I've decided to work on loving myself more this year.

[howtobehim]

Wow, your honesty is refreshing. Re-learning difficult things can be a humbling experience, but your positive perspective is a testament to your strength. Wishing you continued success on your journey of growth!

[anjalirajpurohit]

Discovering this channel has been the greatest thing that has happened to me 💜

[markkut]

This is spot on. Definitely a lot of the things I've learned over the last decade or so.