HOW THE MATRIX PROGRAMS YOUNG BOYS TO ACT LIKE WOMEN!

[igga]

“It’s okay to be weak” “it’s not okay to stay weak” -gigachad

[AleMaia]

No girl, we all teach them (to every kid, not only to boys) not to let that competitiveness drive their emotions. That means that you should always be true to yourself and have great values, even when you desperately want to “win”. That’s how you raise a decent human being.
Plus, psychologically speaking, the only one you should compete with is yourself. And being aggressive is not a great option.
You should teach your children how to use violence for self defense (maybe with martial arts) but also that violence is not the answer!

[kiiyoyachii]

Not every man want to become an entrepreneur... They just want a normal life to live

[snorrisveinnorrason]

What's wrong with men showing emotion ? we are not robots.

[raven]

I want a man that could give me what i give him, a man that let me do anything i want but not letting me do things he knew i would regret, i want a man that could make me free but at the same time shackled, free in a sense that i can do anything that makes me happy, and shackled in a sense where he will always come and stop me when i am fighting with my sister, my dad, my aunt, my grandparents, my friends, because i knew i have a very sharp tongue, when i am angry to the point of furiousness, i lose control of my self and i could tell very hurtful words that i knew I'll regret. Most of all, i want a man who can understand my inner self, my personality, a man that won't leave me when i hurt him but instead will let me make it up for him until he forgive me.

[thefallen]

Don't be aggressive is normal. Don't be competitive is incorrect, nobody says that.

[arzoo_singh]

Balance, please .
We need to be competitive but competitive in fair and non destructive way .
We don't need to be wild aggression but controlled agression .
We are streching too much on either this or that ..

[viktoravarkonyi]

As a girl i was super competitive and agressive as a child. I dont think its a manly thing. Its just a thing that happens to some kids. Like i would beat up anyone who beat me at a game and i think its good that i grew out of that, because my parents told me to not get so dissappointed after losing and to control my anger. And we shouldnt teach men to be like that either. Its not feminine to not be overcompetitive and agressive. Real men dont hurt, they protect. Same for real women. Its childish.

[sparklez]

Men. Just do what you want. If you want to be competitive; then be that way. If you don’t want to; then don’t. It’s just that simple. You don’t have to do what society tells you too, and that goes for both sides of society. The side that says “be super strong masculine” and the side that says “be super girly boy or whatever.” (I think you get it) Just do what fits you and is you. It’s the 20th century; people don’t have to be or act a certain way to fit into anyone’s standards.

[MCshadr]

We don't lose our competitive edge, we put it somewhere that isn't exactly leading us anywhere, such as video games.

[petrosmixides]

Comments saying soy boy and stuff are L Comments. Men can sometimes be vunerable and show emotions, no one is perfect or emotionless those who thinks like this are just delusional. But I agree that in the end the only one who can help you get up is you and you have to understand that you are the one who has full control of his life. Sometimes even us men need help or support from others and it's okay, they key is not to become dependaple and let our happiness and life be controlled by external factors.

[LadyLowe]

This is absurd. Have you not heard of athletics? Hundreds of millions of boys all around the world, including liberal western countries, are indeed being taught competitiveness and healthy levels of aggression…

[graceinyourface]

ITS OK FOR MEN TO BE EMOTIONAL!! THEY ARE HUMANS!!!

[zanchi_anas]

Girl nah…y’all think men are these robots that never feel emotional lol. Yes, the extent that girls feel emotions compared to guys is different. But both of us are still humans man. Men aren’t these God like figures who are just perfect and don’t feel shit xD u guys got it all wrong.

[babachan]

So here is where I’m at for the masculinity thing. Woman and female mean the same thing right? So that would mean that men and masculine (masculinity) mean the same thing right? So, what does it mean to be masculine or have masculinity? Does society decide “op because your a male you have to do this and that? No, because we are all different in our own ways whether it’s crying a lot to not crying at all. It doesn’t matter and if you ever shame someone, I don’t care if your male or female, all because “your not masculine enough” then you are in the wrong.

It’s also important to realize that although it’s ok to show emotion whether your man or woman you should pick yourself up and move on.

[WinniesWonderWoman]

This same woman has also said she doesn't want some man who is emotional because that is her role, she wants a "traditional" man who provides and leads her in all her decisions. She is also pushing men into a harm box

[zebakhan]

Hun in South Asian society both men and women need to be competitive. My boys are told they need to be at the top, constantly compete with the person they were yesterday work harder and stronger but also smarter

[junzo-jg]

I remember my father used to tell me that I needed to be one of the top students or else he'd beat the sht out of me, and I did become one of the highest.. but now he's gone, taken by the holy lord, and I lost my discipline overtime, raised by a single mother, my grades lowered, and became a very average student. Sure, my father was strict and terrifying but HE was the reason I was one of the best students. I am very weak and forgetful now, not doing my assignments or homeworks unless reminded, I don't put much effort to them now, but I am trying my best to change. Be grateful that you have strict parents because they're maybe the reason why you're at that level.

[maryjanebledsoe]

Who gives a fuck if a real man cries a real man can cry and not be a 🐱 at the same time he’s human there’s nothing wrong with a man that cries it doesn’t make him into a soy boy

[fehrenbachluisa]

Embrace ppl being themselves without feeling preasure to be sth they are not!