ONLINE DATING vs COLD APPROACH (The Brutal Truth)

There are more methods than ever before to meet and attract women. In this video, I show you how online dating and cold approach can help you have the dating life of your dreams.

📑Outline
00:00 - Time to settle this.
00:20 - The best experiences you’ll ever have.
03:00 - Building character AND getting girls?!
06:20 - Text game…
09:45 - What are girls looking for?
12:00 - What’s the downside?

#ToddVDating #Dates #OnlineGame

[marioottaiano]

I agree on everything except one thing, at the end Todd says that online has no downside, this is wrong, online has a huge downside: you fall in an extreme comfort zone and you lose yourself, anyway to me:

Online: a bunch of fake profiles, low quality girls who are not willing to step outside of their comfort zone, hot girls who put their own personal Instagram profile address just to have another follower

Offline: you deal with true pain, discomfort and you face your own fears, you literally chose the girl you want so you have the possibility to get higher quality girls, you have more fun and it is more challenging.

Most of the girls who are online are low quality. Why a high quality girl who has a very active social life, full of friends, hobbys and a full workweek schedule goes online? She has no time to go online, she has her own social circle and things to do.

Cold approach wins hands down

[atheistcory]

No matter how you sell it, online dating is appalling for men. I have always found younger, more attractive women in the real world than online. Also there is no control online. In real life you can " force" a reaction from the woman in front of you by presenting yourself. Online, women can just ignore you.

[Mmksen]

I agree with Todd 💯 the stories from cold approach are epic. Online is more convenient and once you get it down probably more consistent. Always do both! Cold approach is almost more of a life skill learning thing.

[redpillbrotherhood]

Daygame and online are becoming increasingly different, both have benefits. Here's what I notice as someone with good experience with women:

Online:
-most efficient(can talk to girls anywhere and with little effort)
-easiest way to get laid
-you need a top 5% SMV/profile to do really well
-can meet some good girls but most are either sluts or have been around the block
-dating apps for the most part(as I said, some good girls can be found) are the 2-3% of girls in a given city, and it's basically a slut sample of a given city

Daygame:
-more genuine, quality interactions
-better way to find LTR material girls
-better way to get prettier girls
-not as easy to get laid or as efficient as online
-girls aren't hiding behind filters or as angled mirror photos, etc
-good because most guys don't daygame

[MrBoxofplastic]

I saw a woman at trader Joe's with amazing abs, I did first day game approach ever, and I'm 40 and divorced. She was so friendly but said she had a girlfriend, lol. Todd, you've inspired me to do what I never did in my 20s which is to learn and have great experiences with hot women.

[litedawg]

I disagree, there are tons of rejections online. I’ve had plenty of good fun conversations going and then next thing you know it’s gone. Ghosted or just no response at all. It’s definitely rejection.

[Fitness_Lorenzo]

I’ve met all my serious dates and girl friends through cold approach. I’m 5’4, so online dating doesn’t work with me.

[georgeblair]

I’ve found the best way to approach girls is just by simply having insane confidence /cockiness.. i would consider my self a somewhat good looking guy but I have a lot of confidence and just say what comes to mind.

[Mysteryboy]

Cold approach is harder but also better. You can figure out a girl within minutes or go talk to a different girl at the bar.

[kweshinz]

I've always had more luck with cold approach. To the point I've had two women tell me I wasn't their type...but I still got with them. One even stalked me at work and home. Online is a waste of time....maybe just use it as a fishing line in the water...set it and forget it. I'm 5'7 BTW. No doubt the chics see that on my profile and just keep it moving. But in person I have a better chance.

[Argon]

Cold approach will always stay the king. You just dodge the waiting list of other men and get a wild card entry in her life. Learn that shit its very useful

[DivineLogos]

Cold approach is an investment into your personal growth.
Online Dating much less.

[mattk]

I love cold approach! I suck at at online dating but I’ve had a great experience of cold approach.

[ChrisVincelli]

Welcome to Brickell, Todd. Hope you enjoyed it!

[lukasraw]

COLD APPROACH ONLY

It builds your social skills, wit, courage, humor etc.

All these online kids look with their jaws on the floor when I approach “how is he doing it?”

I need to be a coach also

[rajdeepchamaria]

Massive respect for you Todd. Youre saving guys from the excruciating dating crisis in real time, and the new content just keeps getting better. One thing that could be said in addition to this video is, and please confirm if I am right about this cause this will probably determine how I go about each, is that relationship, or even wife material girls are found much less through OD than through cold approach. In my personal experience, I have found that women who are clear in their mind about wanting a commited relationship are much less likely to tolerate the largely hookup seeking user base of OD, at least not for any extended time period. They usually make a profile and get fed up very soon by guys acting very forward/creepy/uncalibrated and delete it soon after. Also, in a country like India, the gender ratio on OD is MASSIVELY skewed (I had seen a survey) so that doesn't help either. Not complaining, just that I will be focusing more on CA if I am right as I am looking for a relationship as well.

[rudeboyjim]

Todd is the best. Love how genuine and not douchey he is.

[nickk]

He said that with online dating it is already assumed that an person date is set, but this has NOT been mu experience with online dating, from what I can tell is that most females on dating apps have absolutely zero interest in actually dating in person..

[jimmiefowler]

I’m 6^3 and online is trash and not easy like Todd is saying. Most of these women are on online now for IG followers and that’s it. I literally make great money and have a good career. Plus I’m fit. I just want to learn about approach.

[aldorodriguez]

I have been following you for years. I know you are the OG hybrid PUA in both fields.