THIS Is Why SHE NEVER INITIATES CONTACT!

In this video, I talk about why she never initiates contact first. It can be problematic when you are interested in a girl and you keep wondering why she doesn't text you first or how to get her to text you first. If you want her to reach out to you first, you need to focus on giving her a strong enough motive to do so, and I cover exactly that in this video.

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[chrisgranillo]

If she's not initiating she does not think about you, she does not like you, she thinks she can get you back at any time, she found someone better, or she isn't in her right mind and or has various episodes of instability in her life.

[guntertorfs]

Although i believe you're generally right, it's not always that straightforward with a lot of women : a lot of them are very inconsistent at best. Even the ones that show clear signs of interest ( repeated eye contact, blushing, looking at you when she thinks you don't notice etc. ) can be very vague and indirect or even a little or right out dismissive when eventually approached.

[Elemenohpea]

I’m a 40 year old woman, who frequently counsels younger women who are seeking marriage. Many of the younger women I talk to firmly believe that they shouldn’t pursue men. These are very religious women. I’ve tried to convince them to initiate conversations to men they like, but they are strangely reticent about it. So, I guess, don’t assume she isn’t interested

[styx]

This very much depend on how she behaves around you in general, not reaching out first could have several reasons behind it. Maybe she is a more traditional type of woman and expect the man to initiate or maybe she have been fed lies by female dating coaches saying "never pursue" etc. If she responds to you in a timely manner, she is flirty around you (maintaining good eye contact and proximity) when you see each other in real life and she seems geniunely interested in whatever conversation you are having. It is very likely her just no reaching out to you first have little to do with whatever she feels about you, she is obviously into you if she display all of those things, despite not reaching out first.

[Introvertedalpha]

Thank you for sharing this video! We agree that a woman needs to be motivated to initiate contact first. Great tips!

[tracey]

Thank you!! You hit it on the spot. We women watch leadership qualities and confident levels in men bc we want to feel safe and secure.

[sblackfox]

Ok your right I once did what you and it worked out well the issue I have is after hooking up with her a few months later she told me she no longer felt emotionally connected with me any longer and left so this leaves me to think 🤔 maybe she never really cared i think most women act on their emotions which honestly sucks I’m better now being alone

[AD-hhdd]

I don’t initiate even when I really like him because I hear a bunch of dating coaches say I’ll look clingy and scare him off. Also, I fear it makes me feel like I’m chasing and that puts me in the masculine role. And I’m not at all religious btw.

[chrissmith]

If you’re starting the conversation with her most of the time and she doesn’t always try to spark one with you as well. Then she’s not interested/attracted to you. I’m finding this out the hard way lol

[rik-keymusic]

Wel i liked a woman’s pic. On her Facebook profile so she got back at me and liked a video ij which i played piano. She liked it… so I asked her if she would like to get to know me and she said sure why not. So I added her on Facebook to which she agreed. So I texted a few times to set up a date but she couldn’t. Eventually it took time before she got back to me but I didn’t over perused her. I text and wait until she responds …. But now I question if I should always start a conversation? Today i just didn’t send anything just to give her the space to reach out to me first but I didn’t received anything yet… what now? Should i keep reaching out or should i just let it pass by me and look for other woman?

[osmanmohamud]

Hey bro...I am in a situation with this girl who I am/was in a LDR with. Need your advise

[JohanAnders-fmfk]

Don’t listen to this simps advice. He wants you to be a try hard. This will absolutely not work. Best way to make her initiate contact is by completely ignoring her

[scentedgamer]

How does one Connect?Are there any good books?

[pheap]

Man I “F up said something wrong to a girl I like.. saw this video too late

[LATOYA]

😂😂😂 Why she won’t text me ?? A lot of things have happened. I don’t really know who to trust? Don’t know, who MAD at me? WHO HATE ME KNOW? R u trying to stay in contact for REVENGE

[apple_cider]

nigga I do all those things and still .. I didn't even say the L word too quick to not freak her out and still .. not a returning customer .

she was visiting from overseas for three days. I wined and dined her on the first. helped her with her travel plans. and got her a memorable gift.

and then on the second she said her friend will tag along and if you do not mind and I said no a problem. took them out had lunch and a movie and a kick ass time.

then ... she just left the third day and said there's really no need for you to come to drop me to the airport .. the roads are too congested.

like أحا

[ezkempinkemp]

When her ex comes around, she get very distant.

[utdpreshmilk]

What kind of value are you talking about please?

[DS-lktx]

They do initiate first if all 3 of your triceps are visible from every angle. 😆