Horrors of Rishta App | Ask Ganjiswag #194

The views and opinions expressed in this video are not professional advice but opinions based on my personal experience and limited knowledge. Recognizing a problem is the first step towards solving it; hence, I'm making sure I'm available to hear people out. Thank you.

Time Stamp:

00:00 - Intro
2:30 - Comments
17:05 - Fighter Jets in Pakistan
28:43 - Tharki Father In Law: Husband Not Understanding
41:19 - Another Pakistani Making Us Proud In Australia Scam
52:07 - Digital Subscriptions Holding Me Hostage
01:07:45 - Too Many Female Friends Hampring My Marriage
01:15:21 - Curves Are A Curse: Wearing Double Cloths to Hide Body in Summer
01:23:11 - Career In Slum & Life in Dubai
01:35:36 - The Rishta App Trend
01:49:03 - A Girl From KPK Making Her Way Abroad
02:01:18 - Outro

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[saji]

Hello Junaid Bhai, I recently lost my mom and I was in a bad space and quit my job to take a break. I started driving uber in India just to keep my mind fresh and also to earn a bit of my expenses. I never cancelled a ride or ask people for extra fare. Instead, I kept small water bottles for the passengers, kept a second phone for music so they can choose what they wanted to listen to and always made sure everyone riding with me was comfortable. Just going that extra step used to get me good tips from a lot of people and also got a lot of private bookings where I could earn a bit more.

I learnt that instead of cheating the system, Just going the extra mile actually gets you better business and also built good relations. I wish service industry workers in India and Pak could understand that.

[shrawins]

To the lady behind the Rishta app trend your email was exceptionally well-crafted. The clever puns, sharp references, witty comebacks, and overall brilliance made it an absolute delight to hear. I genuinely hope you encounter someone equally competent and deserving of your intellect soon.

[syedmeershah]

This is for the sister who's pregnant and her susar is misbehaving. She should move to her parents house until the delivery. So that the health of the baby doesn't get affected and after a healthy delivery she can take stand for herself and her baby i guess.

[asadullahijaz]

Ganji Bhai, serious rant incoming. I'm a visually impaired student studying Shariah & Law at International Islamic University Islamabad—yes, that IIUI, the one that combines Islamic law with modern LLB. Sounds noble, right? But sometimes, the very people teaching us act like logic is haram.

Recently, during a lecture, a professor dropped a bombshell. He said: if a cat drinks dirty water, that water becomes purified. Not just that the leftover is clean—as mentioned in the hadith—but that the cat has some magical water-purifying tongue? Bro, this isn’t Hogwarts. This is fiqh.

I immediately raised my hand and said, “This is not what the hadith says.” I quoted the actual hadith about the purity of a cat's leftover water—yes. But nowhere does it say that a cat can purify najasat by drinking it. That’s stretching the text into fantasy.

Then he tried to shift topics, saying: any water valid for ghusl is automatically drinkable. Again, I called it out. I told him: sea water is valid for ghusl, yes—but if you drink it, the salt and oil content can make you sick—or kill you. Use it for bathing? Sure. Drink it? Only if you're looking to end your semester permanently.

That wasn’t even the worst part. The moment I stood my ground, he lashed out. Looked at me and said: “You, boy with one eye, sit down!” Nearly came at me physically—but my friend stood between us. What kind of academic culture is this? When a student questions respectfully, you threaten him? What kind of fuqaha tradition is this where we shut down ijtihad and cling to hand-me-down logic?

This is what happens when people stop reading and start worshipping hearsay from their scholarly “babas.” Blind following over open reasoning. Reverence without relevance.

Anyway, I’m not staying silent. Ganji Bhai, you speak truth to power, and I’m learning to do the same. Keep exposing hypocrisy. We’ve got real battles to fight—and blind obedience in the name of deen isn’t the hill we’re dying on.

[ashitmallick]

18:46 As an aviation and defense enthusiast I would say every countries military procurement strategy is different and many like to keep it confidential . Open bids and competitions are organized only when we have a lot of options in the current case of Pakistan only Chinese fighters are there on the table which PAF can get in minimal time if PAF tries to buy European or US options it will take at least 5+ years on finalizing terms of the deal than another 3 - 5 years before the first delivery ( if PAF gets lucky) and total 3 - 5 years before the last fighter joins the fleet hence direct G2G deals are most effective when there is an urgent need of fighters . IAF 36 Rafale deal + 26 Rafale M deal are G2G deals only

[gotabeadsbazaar]

Thank you for uploading this. I am listening to this while I pack my clients' orders.

[ChaudhryShahwaiz-goro]

the 1st case in which father in law is tharki, litelly i am 17 my father is also extremely tharki and told affairs stories to everyone like its a thing to proud, he also watches porn videos, i caught him multiple time, and at once i started fearing that what happened when i will get married i cant live with him, and now Alhamdulillah, i left him and living with my whole family at a rent house he was rich but at the same time extremly toxic and extremely narcist, so i prefer peace instead of money, and now i am with my mother and sister living in a rented house no dought there are issues which we are facing bcz of 7low ages and much more but atleast sukoon hai.

[drwaleejanaeem]

Immense respect for you Junaid bhai. I've never seen a guy talk about how a woman gut feeling is always accurate. And the thing that you pointed out that if you're staring at a woman's back, she'll know. She'll just know. That happens every time. That's how strong a woman's gut feeling or sixth sense is. I thought that people following you are sane enough to at least call this behavior out, but sadly the comment box is also full of sh*t. It's sad how South Asian people think! Forget Islam, they don't even honor that a woman left her entire world, left or put a hold on her career just to be with you and bear/raise your children, and the way we treat wives! They don't even get as basic as trust from the husband. It's just so sad.

[Rabign]

The lady with Rishta App....please do standup comedy. Your humor is on point 👌

[blazingtutor]

13:16 junaid bhai please get that guy on the podcasts cause he and your audience both deserves to see him there, His endowment of how he got so disciplined will help this scroll-doomed generation. Love from your new subscriber

[shaziasaund]

13:16 so rare for people to give credit to others without holding back… Junaid bhai continue to show and inspire high emotional intelligence. 👏🏻♥️😊

[zeeshanlari]

So happy and proud of the 19 yr old who break the shackles just ignore ppl who have negative mindset … those who have negativity they restrict and restrain themselves

[OslavaDrive]

Regarding the curvy body, you need a good wardrobe designer. What I feel is the closest solution, there are a lot of specialised designers working in this regard.

[hamzarashid]

Hello I'm a regular listener and really appreciate the insights shared in each episode! I had a little suggestion—maybe you could share or read out success stories from listeners who’ve actually applied your advice and seen results. You could invite people to comment or email their stories in. I know it might sound a bit ambitious or even a stretch, but it could really help the regular audience see how practical and impactful the advice can be in real life. Plus, it'd be super motivating to hear real examples of people turning things around or making progress thanks to the podcast. Keep up the amazing work!

[Talkwithtalal]

1:42:25 now i know the difference between loosing and losing

[Itsmw.k]

1:21:45 First of all, Leave that stupid guy. Don't change your body for someone else, only do it when you are already happy with yourself. Also cut ties with toxic people even your family if they're being a bother to your personal life and mental health. Go to therapy, get educated and get a job so you don't have to be controlled sm. I love you, I hope you do great in life. you are more than just your body!!

[britishshorthaircatsfirstd]

01:49:03

Aap background noice nahi hai, aapse bohat kuch seekhno milta hai mujhe. Mei aapko apne kaam pe sunti hoon while working in medical billing company in Wisconsin. Please continue making these videos(ofcourse jabtak aap kar sakte hai, i dont want u to burn out), you spread knowledge and awareness on many things. Huge fan of yours. Ek bar tou meine aapko apne khwab mei dekha tha that I am taking your autograph and i told my husband about this dream and he got mad that meine apko apna idol banaya hai hahaha. Meine idol tou nahi banaya lekin bohat kuch seekhne ko milta hai aapse :).

[saulgoodman]

Arre maza aa gya, abhi bs room ki dusting karne hi laga tha, hostel mein hu sir khud karna padta hai ab maze mein karunga!! 😂 Jokes aside, love your askganjiswag series sir

[shurooqrana]

1:42:06 hahahah, the loosing losing explination was the highlight of the episode.😂😂😂

[WaleedHasan-fbhf]

Junaid bhai, we really appreciate the effort you put in for the podcast and the video and lights. Appreciate your effort. Support and love from Germany