7 Undeniable Sign That It's Time To Leave The Narcissist | NPD | Danish Bashir

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction
00:28 When you are exhausted Justifying yourself
02:13 Your physical health has been destroyed
03:44 You feel you are going crazy
05:08 When they are nice to everyone except you
07:13 They use fear and intimidation to dominate you
09:31 You feel like you are talking to a brick wall
11:34 It’s time to leave the narcissist

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[narcabusecoach]

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[barkingtree]

It seems like one of the worst parts about narcissistic abuse is that you do not even realize that it is happening to you until a significant amount of damage has already been done!

[dyoung]

It’s been 35 years and I didn’t know that I was with a narcissist until a few years ago. The stress led me to have a stroke. Currently waiting on him to stop fighting this divorce. Never planned to be alone at this stage in my life but being alone and at peace is better than being unhappy with a demon. I truly believe that even at almost 60 years old, the Lord will lead a non toxic person to me.

[nurseprac.nikki]

It’s crazy, I was an independent, educated woman with a fulfilled life. Then this man swept me off my feet then for 20 years molded me into what he wanted. A shell of the person I was. No real friends, rarely talk to my family, not working (I’m a licensed nurse practitioner). What happened to me? These videos have opened my eyes. It’s like I feel heard for the first time. I feel so stupid. It’s my time to take action and to take my life back! Thank you!

[epccounsellingservice]

“It is time to leave the narcissist when you recognise that they are narcissist”
So true

[faymoosa]

Lies.. secrets..controlling..silent treatment

[mararamitchpeace]

"It's time to leave the Narcissist when you realize they are a narcissist!" Nough Said! 🤣

[caelreed]

"The pain of staying will never get better"

[mapleleaf]

I am 66 yrs old and planning my escape. I am so exhausted. I just want peace after 35 yrs of married misery.

[newyorke]

I stayed for years hoping things would get better- they got worse. The biggest regret of my life is not leaving years sooner. I took him to 7 marriage counselors, 6 of them didn’t see it or were abusive toward me and the one that called him out on his behavior, he refused to see. I had migraines, body aches, increasing anxiety and lived in fear.

[theguynextdoor]

Blame-shifting and projection is also a form of control. I was hospitalized, and sure I had ulcerative colitis, or crohns disease. They did a colonoscopy, found nothing physically wrong with me. The Indian doctor took me to his office and asked me: Is your wife nice to you? and I almost broke down.. and he told me to get out of the marriage. He saw many times in his profession that abused people get a lot of physical problems because of stress. My ex always complained that it was ME who was making her physically ill.

[tickety-bootoyou]

These were the symptoms I suffered during our exhausting two year relationship:
weight loss
hair loss
extreme fatigue
skin issues (blotchy rashes)
chronic sore throat
joint pain
weepy/tearful
sleep disturbance
erratic blood pressure.
But now the longer he's out of the picture the better I feel. As a matter of fact I haven't felt this good in a long time.

[shahadah]

1. *When you are exhausted apologizing. It is IMPOSSIBLE that everything is your fault. 2. *Your physical health has been destroyed. 3. *You feel like you are going crazy. You have been brainwashed that you are the crazy one. You feel that it is all your fault. 4. *When they are nice to everyone else and a monster to you. 5. *They use fear and intimidation to control you. You have zero space and you fear them. 6. *The only point that matters to them is their point. You are hitting your head against a wall. 7. *When you clearly see that they are a IS TIME TO LEAVE!

Thank you---This video was very helpful today! It reminds me of why I left, and why I need to stay away. The pain of staying is greater than the pain of leaving!

[activechaos]

I dealt with the "talking to a brick wall" for years. You're right when you say that "the wall is too thick". If this goes on for more than 6 months leave, because this person will wait until you are in a bad situation and they will abandon you when you need their help. No matter how long you stood by that person, no matter how much you've helped them when they were weak or down, they will not return the favor. If you constantly find yourself having to explain what it means to be a team player just pack your shit and leave. You will be much better off alone.

[TheNarcissistSurvivorGuide]

I had high blood pressure, felt nauseous all the time, my thyroid and adrenal glands were shot and I developed type 1 diabetes. My hair was falling out, I had major anxiety and was completely drained and lost. It’s awful being around these vampires. I share my story on my channel.

[supercoffeebean]

Stress will physically and psychologically slowly destroy you. Save yourself. Run.

[aprillewis]

Anxiety!!! My heart would race whenever I knew he was upset or mad about something. Heart palpitations, it was awful. Like walking around on eggshells.

[faymoosa]

I am married to a covert narcissist for 40yrs. Never realized it was abuse. I hv educated myself. Yes my health has deteriorated. I am just an object to him.

[Ola-fxeb]

YES DANISH, EVERYONE remeber whatever bad happened to you in that abusive fake relationship "It is not because you are weak"!
You are people of high, beautiful values and someone took advantage of that.
May God bless you all with a happy, fulfilling relationship.

[PeggyHarperLee]

The hardest thing for me to get past was the pure evil and my willingness to overlook it. The realization that I was raised by a narc father groomed me for 2 narc husbands. I'm now with a fantastic husband and love and trust myself. It took a lot of work, but so worth it!