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00:00 - Intro
1:25 - Activity 1: Meditate
2:03 - Activity 2: Eroticism
2:53 - Activity 3: Nourish
3:55 - Activity 5: Overcome modern torture practices
7:17 - Activity 6: Spicey
9:26 - Activity 7: Can I live
10:44 - Activity 8: Lies
12:00 - Activity 9: Complimenting myself
15:17 - Activity 10: Romance
16:10 - Activity 11: Teaser
17:12 - Activity 12: Confession
19:30 - Activity 13: Resist Online Shopping
21:10 - Activity 14: Wet or Hot?
22:10 - Activity 15: Night Thoughts

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[ibew]

36 year old male electrician who found your content with the decluttering video. I don’t relate with about 70% of what you are talking about, but watching how you vibe with everyday life has an antidepressant effect, and I know I’m not the only one.

[Cooldridge]

My late husband was my safe person. He also was the funniest human on the planet and the hardest I ever laughed was usually at my expense. His teasing was never mean, loaded, veiled… it was pure and silly and sarcastic and witty. He was the greatest human I have ever known and he made the best fun of me. It has do with your heart, where the teasing comes from. I knew without question that my husband thought the best of me- adored me and was unequivocally my safe person, 17 years since he died and I still can feel it. I will miss him forever.

[stewartschuster]

"The only thing better than talking to people, is not talking to people." ❤

[Miliregretz]

As a medium white female, who also lives alone in a foodless apartment, I watched this yesterday and went for solo dinner today ❤

[kassandrafurtado]

Man can we normalize doing things by ourselves? I fkn love it. I feel like I can fully indulge without feeling like I’m inconveniencing people when I do shit solo.

[NitaJain]

Psychological safety is drastically underrated. Many of my closest friendships ended because of jokes revolving around my illness, so it’s really refreshing to hear someone think so deeply about the consequences of teasing.

[BillPeschel]

Nothing wrong with telling the waiter you were planning on taking the rest home.

Speaking as a happily married male, your partner should be your safe space. I've learned not to tease my wife, because she takes it very hard. She has learned to let me talk about something and try to work it out verbally (I'm not good at thinking quietly, which she can come up with an answer really quick).

In other words, when we came together, we were speaking two languages, and we had to learn how to talk to each other safely. And that's why we've been together for 30 years next month.

[neuIyn]

The teasing thing is actually so important. I got out of a relationship that teased me all the time. It was always “just a joke” but when I left and found a man who treated me every second with respect and grace it made a huge difference in my life. It’s not that we don’t have fun with each other, it’s just only about the things that we have fully communicated about.

[kisikisikisi]

Caroline I'm very obsessed with this video. It's relatable and cozy and intimate. I feel like a weirdo for feeling this (one-sided) connection with you. But I guess that that's just you being good at your job? Regardless, keep being you.

[dorothysmith]

At 69, I relate to you in every way. How is that possible? It just is. I live alone, am divorced with a cat named David. I'm retired from FT work but I consult to friends in their businesses and nonprofits. I only do fun work that helps people enjoy their jobs. (Positive psychology) I am in a new relationship too. I waited a l o n g time to meet this man and don't want to screw it up. So I talk to him about my concerns and vice versa. So far this works. At 70 he constantly surprises me. It's good. Loved this vlog. I will watch it again. ❤ ps. Love Paige too!

[kristawoods]

My fiancé told me he fell in love with me because I’ve always made him feel safe, which blew my mind because I always try to be accepting and safe for everyone in my life. So what you said at the end about wanting to be your boyfriend’s safe person is probably one of the sweetest things I’ve ever heard someone say because I’ve realized how important being that person for someone else (romantic relationship or otherwise) can be. Wishing you all the happiness in this relationship and in life 🩷

[partydogg]

"I want to be his safe person" is one of the sweetest and cutest things I have ever heard. I'm single now, but this knowledge is something I will keep forever. Thanks again Caroline <3

[madeleinepelton]

A Paige and Caroline collab will literally send me over the edge. I need it now

[emiliemaierhofer]

You killed me with the end monologue, my heart was broken and mended simultaneously. I think you can do it Caroline. I had the same issue with sarcasm in my family. At some point I said no, actually fun at someone else's expense is not funny. I may be sensitive about it, but I'm also at peace so, I win.

[pamby]

My fiance and i have been through some tough times together. Now whenever things around us gets tense we say to each other, 'I'm on your side.' Best relationship ever because we consciously take care of each other.

[claire]

evening/night time is my FAVORITE time of day and nobody ever films videos in the nighttime so this feels so cozy and warm and like a comfy friend. big fan of “bad lighting” and filming in the night

[hare]

My life is a smelly pile of dog shit right now and that is okay because I do my silly little tasks and then I watch your videos and your videos make me feel happy to be alive so thank you for carrying some of my therapist's weight

[AlexandraKoken]

Never seen anything in the whole of my life more relatable than the urgency with witch you expressed the need for sweatpants upon returning home.

[minou]

I so loved what you said at the end. My ex-husband was really funny, and teasing was his favorite thing. Living with him was a nonstop barrage of microaggressions disguised as jokes. I feel such calm and comfort these days to be free of that. So I super applaud your idea of being your boyfriend's ally and safe harbor instead.

[larkmus]

Loved your thought at the end. And, having run the course of "head-over-heels in love" to "annoyed-as-shit that I'm reminding you for the 87th time that plastic bags don't go in the recycling bin, " I've been humbled by my marriage repeatedly revealing how short I fall of the loving partner I imagined myself to be. It is a challenge to choose to be unselfish in perpetuity for another person...especially x number of years down the line, when the freshness of new love has faded. I guess what I'm saying is I agree with your goal of being the "safe person" for your partner, and at the same time, what a lifelong challenge to one's nature!! A good challenge.