The Brutal, Honest Truth About Narcissists

Saturday, February 25, 2023  2/25/23

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[michelezeug]

This abuse should be illegal... so insidious and with intent... the recovery we go through is insane.

[emmarae]

What bothers me the most is the gaslighting, especially when they blame you for everything and project onto you. You’re dealing with the end of the relationship and the trauma bond then boom they turn all the abuse around onto you like you did it and they did nothing to you.🙄Pathological liars.
I agree social media is a cesspool. I’m not on it anymore.

[cyndiutzman-griffin]

Yep, took everything he could, millions in material things and i stlll just dealth with it. Until our oldest sons death that after 20 years of abuse in the marriage and Matthew my first born, 23 year old beautiful petson now gone, I would have checked out had it not been for our younger son who i was alienated from for several years (narcissist in the making). In my search for understanding in healing my memory started to clear and recently i came to see the truth; my sons death was staged to look like a suicide, according to his father my fault). For nine years I sought treatment, understanding and lived with unbelievable guilt and shame.
There's no emotion to describe my drive to expose and put this demon where he belongs.
Thanks for telling it like it is.

Darkness doesn't like the light!

[rorywright]

Cruel and ugly! They will never change their behaviors!

[KJtheUFOchick]

JUST binge watching your channel today. I've long healed from this years ago with a lot of therapy and the grace of God! Your channel is absolutely fantastic and reconfirming to me! I hope you and yours have a blessed weekend! ❤ I hope everyone going through this or have gone through this understand their value, find themselves again, and learn to trust and enjoy the good in life again.

[whatever]

This is certainly how I see my ex-wife.

[jammetmalibu]

USA, One admitted it to me, "So I'm an @sshole, so what?" This video hit me hard, we allow it, enablers help them and society turns their heads. Authorities buy in and try to profit from the chaos and confusion. It's sick, I thought villains were only in stories and most people are well intentioned. That there is good in everyone. But once you see the cruelty and that they laugh at someone in pain, we have a lot of work to do. Thank you for this.

[Anita-bjnv]

Thank you. This was a very god video. Im thinking of sharing. They ruined peoples lives. They take the good quality of lives from you. I have cptsd, ptsd and all my life has been a strugle. But averness and edication will help me to heal. It is a process.

[debbiegalica]

13 days no contact. I'm not going back. I have gone back a few times, my choice but no more. He's a covert narcissist I'm a super empath. I learned to depend more on God. He alone will help me through this.

[thequeenofselfcare]

Ive been in no contact for a few days. Never felt so good. Too bad we have kids and eventually will have to speak again. I always get sucked back in

[victoriamuniz]

A narcissist sounds like a Disney character

[rossmarlin]

Great message
They only care about themselves

[earomc]

So that's the reason my grandma took in all of her grandchildren one after the other, for months, to live with her even though she's already 81 now. She's nothing without them. She needs the narcissistic supply... I've been abused and gaslighted by her. Your videos help me getting my head clear again. Thank you and I mean it.

[honorx]

David, every word you said was related to memories to 1 1/2 year with a beautiful and posessive killer chick. 5 months no contact, then 3 months in my house again, she tried to kill me.
Never take them back!
Go in silence with a plan you keep to yourself!
My «best» friend I knew for 5 years in Germany visited me in South América where I live for 5 years for the first time.
He told me how he abuses his girl friend. I felt so guilty, I brought them together.Then I remembered how she handled him with a smirk to me, she is a psychotherapist. At that time I didn't understand, now I do. I remember him rageing at his parents, I gave him an ultimátum to say to them he is sorry.
All I built here, my properties, my friendships, my conections my fluid spanish and indian language was a narcessistic injury to him.
People here are very kind, open hearted, they smile, but around him they shut down, I never saw them that way, even he couldn't speak a word.
I felt guilty on more time, I translated his shit word by word, I had the drive, I had to, and I even called him a narcissit in addition to my translation.
I hadn't translated it back to him if he hadn't insisted to.
But he did insist and I translated truthfully and completly back to him what I said to my indian friends.
He raged at me, I listen for a while. Then I heared me surprisedly loud validating his truth and explaining quite short my truth is different.
He went for a silent treatment in his hotel. It was the last time he saw me for good.
Your video was important to me, it showed me what attracted me to narcs.
It is their weakness I was able to see clear all my life. I was weak as a kid without parents too, now I am strong. I wanted to help them, like people helped me when I was in need.
I was weak and good, now I am strong and good for the most part.
They are weak and evil.
I am not happy with it, but I can't help it after healing I am more and more repelled by losers and weakness.
To like myself more I intend to help street kids like I was, not adults. I am looking for kids who have the same fire I had.

[Lyrielonwind]

You might find compassion from others when the narcissist is your couple but not when is one of your parents and especially if is your mother.
Everyone sees you like the mean son or daughter who left them, no matter if they have plenty of enablers and money to don't ever have to worry about their financial security. No matter if you are sick and broke or you are the most vulnerable member of the family because you have been predated to your marrow.
Sons and daughters of narcissistic mothers can't tell our stories with our real names, only behind a nickname or a pseudonym because we will be pointed at and re-traumatized again and again because society believes that mothers can't do no wrongs ever but if they do, you are forced to forgive or you are excluded from society. You become no one good for everyone. You better say you didn't know her or you were adopted, whatever but the truth.

The scapegoats keep getting scapegoated by society after we go no contact. It's a label 🏷️ you can't get rid of.

[JR_M_]

Well that's the first time my comment didn't stick. I'll just say I agree and good video bruh. Thumbs up from me 👍

[barb]

I constantly have the conversation in my head where he listens to me say all the things he refused to listen to for years. They will be stuck in my head until Im able to speak them.

[terra_t]

If I look at Steve this way then I'm not admitting sh*t about another guy. If this is the real him he can s*ck it. It's not like I had sex with the other guy anyway and I didn't end up with him because it would've been a rebound and most likely not worked out anyway. I'm glad you aren't trying to be positive anymore about narcs. I'm unstable about Steve so you're my guide about him and I need you to be brutally honest like you are here. I really needed to hear this, you don't even want to know what I've been going through this past week and thinking of doing but this smashed it all down and brought me back into the reality of what I would be getting myself back into. I was slipping out of reality fast. Thank you, David. You're the best.

[Ravid]

Hey David, David in Kanata (Can-A-Ta) Canada. That was pretty honest and very true, they are week sad people. I am glad I keep them out of my life as well! Great video

[weronikanijs]

No, they don't deserve it
I am still healing, but not a victim anymore!