10 types of women men no longer pursue VERSUS women they will do anything for

This will resonate with a lot of you good men! I discuss the 10 types of women that good men are no longer interested in pursuing. I dive into why men no longer want these types of women and what they are looking for INSTEAD.

[jcbaseball]

After 3 years of being together I was given the ultimatum of her or my 5 year old dog. The dog and I are doing just fine.

[kenbrown]

remember, women: if you don't add more value than you add trouble, you're not an investment, you''re an expense.

[MisterNightfish]

Almost all of these can be summed up with "makes the relationship unnecessarily difficult". The other day I heard a woman say that she genuinely believed men wanted a "challenge" in relationships and she was shocked to find out that men (generally) just want peace. There's enough crap to deal with out there that we don't need artificial hoops to jump through at home.

[KatanaKamisama]

#11 A women that only ever cares about how SHE feels, not about how he feels.
#12 A woman that refuses to apologize when she knows she's wrong.
#13 A woman that is "never wrong" because otherwise her feelings are invalid.
#14 A woman that wants to point out flaws, but can never take constructive criticism.
#15 A woman who regularly uses emotional manipulation, rather than making a moral or rational argument.
#16 A woman who considers you spending time with your friends to be "cheating", because she isn't getting all your time.
#17 A woman who tells you to leave her alone, and then gets mad when you don't text her the next morning.
#18 A woman that says she likes you, and then tells you all the things she doesn't like about you.
#19 A woman who behaves embarrassingly / is disrespectful in public.
#20 A woman that wears make-up and tight clothes, and then claims to hate male attention.

[brentjohnson]

How about the woman who expects a man to know and do everything she needs without her telling him what that is?

[jergification]

It's almost like she understands that men have feelings and should be objects of love and compassion. What a crazy concept!

[robertfermier]

I am 64 years old, been single for the last 15 or so years and haven't been in any kind of serious relationship for a long, long time. I have mostly given up on dating since mostly because I still desire my peace at this point of my life. I tend to find women who still like to play games, are two faced about just about everything, and don't give kind of sign when you show interest. I'm not going out of my way for anybody unless they can show my how appreciative they are... At this point, having peace with myself is priceless!!

[mannydcbianco]

My singly biggest turnoff in women is those whose default mental state is angry/difficult/demanding. Like generally unhappy people. I love a happy-go-lucky woman, someone who in general is happy and content with life. This is not to say she cannot ever be sad or upset - of course she will be, we all are sad or upset at times and it is unrealistic to expect anything else - but if her default mental state is to be upset, grumpy, angry and displeased and she is expecting me to constantly fight to make her happy then she can go f herself. I refuse to fight a losing battle to make a miserable person happy. And every time I fail to make her happy, she will blame me for it.

[davidbowman]

1:19 chased vs pursued
2:21 interested but will never approach
3:34 will turn intimacy down but gets upset when a man turns intimacy down
4:20 wants to be lavished but the man needs to be financially stable
4:55 plays games vs communicating concerns
5:21 the grass is always greener
5:38 won't show effort
6:02 wants unconditional love but places conditions
7:07 never wants a man to show weakness
8:01 gives ultimatums

[garybutler]

Lack of contentment is a nightmare for relationships. It calls into question loyalty, commitment, and longevity.

[NSPIREGuru]

Years ago a friend said to me. "No matter how wonderful you think she is, I guarantee you some guy somewhere is tired of her shit."

[jkbrown]

Not afraid to "approach", just not worth the risks for the man. Better to never love at all than to approach and get your life destroyed.

[WilliamWang-cm]

This is literally the most on point video of how women can get into a lifelong relationship. A lack of passion or "playing it cool" makes me flatline. Men aren't women, we aren't complicated, we want peace, loyalty, and an us against the world mentality. Playing games is transparent to guys you want to date because it happens over and over so it's transparently manipulative.

I wish this was the most popular video on YouTube and every girl watched this everyday. A reason men often go for younger women is they have the light in their eyes, they laugh, and don't try to hide how much they like you.

I appreciate your channel because the other channels making these points have an argumentative "us vs them" attitude while you clearly don't hate women. I hope your channel blows up.

[twitchbiddy]

I would say that most women don’t understand men but expect men to understand them.
I’ve been happily married for 34 years but all of my best girlfriends are divorced, 2 are widowed - they were happily married. There are way too many unrealistic expectations by a lot of women but it doesn’t go both ways.
Honestly men are not complicated - they need sex, good food, appreciation and love. I mean really, this is about it. Along with those things comes mutual respect, friendship and humour, shared interests and an appreciation of one’s individual interests, having the same values and desire to travel the roads of life together, supporting each other through good times and bad, jointly raising a family and taking care of the home, interdependence not co-dependence, trust, fidelity, open communication and more love.
It’s not hard but it does take effort and you need to feed the relationship and not be selfish but rather, selfless.
Interestingly, we both came from homes where our parents had fallen out and divorced. We both came from similar socioeconomic backgrounds, are in the same position in the family, born the same year, same religion and commitment to it, both university educated and have professional careers. It does help to have the fundamentals in common right from the get go.

[bdcochran]

I relate the following for women. If you are a good woman and you want to meet a good man, you only have to do two things.
1. go where the men are. Ditch your female friends. Don't hang with them if you want to meet men.
2. take the iniative in small ways. If you live in a dorm, look for the guy eating alone and use a ploy like "may I join you. I understand that you are a chemistry major and I wondered what is studied". Or, you are at a dance and the guy is unattached, "I'm just a beginner and I was wondering if you could teach me a few steps?" Whatever you do, make eye contact instead of acting demurely.
Men take a beating because women are taught to reject. What most women do not know is that being in the right place and making the guy feel comfortable makes the difference.

[gabrielamartiniuc]

I have no problem letting a man know I like him … entitled women expect men to jump through hoops !

[timpaulsen]

After watching several of the videos on this channel I subscribed today. I am glad to have someone who understands and fights for good men. I agree as someone who has ended up on the wrong end too many times. It's encouraging to see caring women still exist.

[Torrque]

#9: OK, so this may seem weak to some but my best little friend cat who had actually came to me as a tiny kitten during a profoundly tough period of my life, and who had been with me for 14 years, ended up getting cancer and having a disturbing final 3 months of life. I was heartbroken at his passing. A piece of my joy went with him.

My X was not only cruel and non-empathic to me through his demise but several months later, stated she was glad I hurt that bad from his passing… because that’s how she felt when we had disagreements. I told her, “that is the difference between me and you; I don’t EVER want you to hurt. I feel badly for you when you are troubled. It bothers me.”

Two years later from that relationship, I’m now detoxed… and a bit angry… but at myself. I’m not pleased with having accepted that kind of person in my life so intimately… and for as long as I did. I kept holding out hope… hoping for peace… but kept receiving a malcontented woman. I don’t see this as her fault but mine; I didn’t walk away sooner, cleaner, surely. The low-grade mental illness of so many people in this country is breathtaking. It’s not just one gender. People do this to each other. But relating to Emily’s channel here and the points she makes, so much of this is so many women of today. Dannnng!

Emily is like that friend we all wish we had in our personal lives that helps us to center ourselves to enter this crazy world of dating today. I say this with genuine appreciation for the content she creates. Thank You, Emily.

[justinbarhorst]

5 is so true. Women play so many games. We just don't have time for all of these games.

[flyingfiddlerq]

Yep. I wish more women watched your stuff.