Does My Ex Not Care About Me Or Just Pretending?

Does My Ex Not Care About Me Or Just Pretending?

I often get asked in coaching sessions does ex not care about me or are they just pretending to have moved on. It’s a great question, and I know that you must have asked yourself the same question after your breakup.

The truth is that more often than not, an ex still does care about you long after a relationship ends. But a separation is a selfish decision and so your ex is now operating in an egotistical way. They want to show you and the rest of the world that they are serious and that they won’t change their mind. Other times it’s just their way of asserting their independence.

But in the end, it doesn’t really matter! If you do the right things and evolve you can make an ex miss you.. and that’s what this video is all about.

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[isaacsmith]

They don’t now. but they will.
Yes they care, but they are blocking it out, and will for months.

I’ve experienced it after a long term relationship. takes months, but the time apart is so important! everyone needs space from eachother, some people go to the extreme to get it, but those are the ones it hits harder.

See, while you are surpassing the suffering of being dumped, they haven’t even experienced it yet. even after months, it’ll hit them like it was yesterday. believe it. accept it. Live your life, stay away from them and you have greater chance of getting in contact again. I deactivated social media. Their own mind is your greatest weapon. Don’t jeopardise it by attempting jealousy. stay strong, peace.

[nandinaee]

If they show no concern, shouldn't we walk away? ...why to change yourself for a person who doesn't care that you cry yourself to bed everynight.. if they ever cared, they can atleast be polite.

[mikefr]

Totally agree. Focus on yourself as you can't control the other person. Been there done that.

[Alexevii]

they do care, especially guys. Guys just don’t open up. How do I know? My ex cracked, called me crying, and did as much to admit that the breakup was hard for him three weeks after the breakup. (This is after all his friends said he didn’t talk about me and didn’t love me anymore) I jeprodised my chances though because I didn’t back off last week after his meltdown, I bombarded him with messages and then he said I was harassing him. Girls, have faith that you’re worth it. Please. My ex lad is in the military, and he’s as stubborn as they come, and even he cracked. Don’t make my mistakes or you’ll jeprodise your chances. Have faith in the withmyexagain process. Please.

[tdjohns]

1. You need to completely forgive yourself for the wrongs you've done in the relationship. Then you can stop feeling as though "you deserve" the outburst of anger and/or other physical resentment against you.

2. Set boundaries. Boundaries are things that you will absolutely not tolerate or allow, and you have to uphold these! It may hurt because you "might lose her", but if you can't set boundaries then you don't respect yourself and neither will she or any future woman respect you.

3. Forgive her. This is for you, not just her. Forgiveness = Freedom because you finally can release the guilt, hurt, shame etc. This does not mean reconciliation. You two shouldn't get back together until there has been significant and consistent changes in the way you respect, treat, and communicate with each other.

4. Find the strength to accept the truth of the matter: you two need to separate because you are destructive to each other. You may get back together in the future, but much change needs to take place first and time will tell if it is consistent. In the meantime, do not lose hope in love! It will hurt, but you are strong enough to get through it... and...You WILL find love again! Don't let yourself sink into a depressed state of mind. Surround yourself with positive& supportive people. Go out with your [male] friends. Invest in yourself by reading books or going to classes. Focus on healing, and learning from your mistakes so you don't repeat the past in the future. When you change (the way you think as well), your relationships will too.

[sushprajapat]

My ex is ignoring me and pretending me like he doesn't care anymore...but I live my life ...thank u guys

[Mariambb]

I just think its mean, and it makes me sick that he doesnt even ask me how I am after idk almost 3 months of no contact. Did he even care? Did he even love me?

[catalinarodriguez]

Can you do more videos on long distance breakups? Like what if he said that the break up is not due to lack of love and that love wasn't enough?

[midnight]

Can we just acknowledge this mans fly ass jacket he got on!?

[kingjohnson]

Just have time for yourself work on yourself I know that’s easy said then done but trust me they will come back they always do put your self in a better position to not give a fuck.

[collongoluba]

I've been watching your YouTube Channel weeks after my Ex broke up with me, the advice you give is so powerful and inspiring!
My relationship was short term only 4 months, we met on a dating app and she was long distance, about an hour and 30 minutes away. I know we went too fast and rushed into it, so we didn't really get the time to get to know each other before hand. But anyways here's the story. I went to her 1 year old sons birthday party, and a lot of family that haven't met yet was there, i felt overwhelmed and I was stressed out because of personal issues so I sat on my phone and didn't really interact with anyone. The next day after she dropped me off I got a text from her later that night, she wanted to talk, she felt upset because of my actions and wanted to end it, I apologized and we ended up arguing for 2 days straight. But then she reached out to me the next day wanting to talk and be friends and saying We should give each other space, so I respected her decision. We still called and texted each other but not everyday. 2 weeks ago was the last time I heard from her so yesterday I called to see what was up and she just wanted to text and she seems to be losing interest. I had her on Snapchat and I noticed that she deleted me out of the blue, so when I texted her yesterday she lied and said she deleted Snapchat but my friend saw that she's still active on it. I still however have her on Facebook and obviously her phone number. It also didn't help to see she's back on the same dating app we met on. What should I do with a situation like this?

[EdwardCullenCutie]

My ex broke up with me the end of February and it’s almost been 30 days no contacts. He broke up with me because he felt like his feelings for me weren’t progressing. But he acted into me and acted like he cared about me when we were together. But I think he does feel something for me. I think he is just confused on how he’s suppose to feel because I was his first official girlfriend. I love this guy and want to get him back. Can you please help me?

[TheAestheticsofPhilosophy]

After my ex broke up three years ago.

She has said currently seeing someone, they been hanging out a lot lately, but they are exploring options to see if go somewhere, but she said we r both happy.


Is this a rebound relationship, or do even have a chance at all. I told her this.

U know I care about u, I love you always, I Fine With You Texting me or Calling Me, But I not going to text you or Call You anymore, I Move On and You should move on too.

She text agree with smiling face.

Any feed back great.

I think she still opened minded and dating someone is just bs smoke screen.

[ethanperez]

If you see this, remember Jesus loves you and is close to the broken hearted

[carlatolentino]

This sounds like my marriage. Says he doesn’t care and have no feelings but sometimes he acts like if he does want to stay married. So confusing. Maybe a video on that

[megschultze]

Thank you for your help through a tough break up!

[qlg]

Thanks Coach Adrian, I really appreciate this video. My ex has moved and has a live in girlfriend. We have had conversations recently that really should not take place when both parties have truly moved on. I wondering in part if his recent conversations were what he needed to finally close the chapter. We were both broken and really did not treat each other well. I have apologized and taking ownership of my behavior because being bitter and blaming the other person just makes you stay in a negative place and not heal to move. He did tell he was torn but his current relationship is more stable than what we have. Also, he is stuck on being the victim right now. It was hard to hear. At this point, I am not hopeful we will reconcile. I do know I am not the only one to blame but I am the one who openly took ownership. I have gone into no contact indefinitely. It was for me but I know in talking to him and the mixed messages he was giving, we could both benefit from no contact.

[ΜαρίλιαΔημητρίου-τδ]

He broke up with me 3 months ago, we had been together for about 2, 5 years..
Im doing the no contact for only 20 days..
But im losing hope..we broke up because he said that he doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore, not only with me but with anyone..
He told me that he loves me, cares about me and misses me but he cannot be with me..
I start to think that he is never coming back for something serious..
Should i move on?

[jasminevenegas]

My boyfriend of 2 years left me 2 weeks ago. We have constantly been arguing for the past month and one day we’re going to argument and he blew up and said he was done with the relationship. The night before we went out to eat I asked him if everything was OK on how he was feeling and he said he was fine. He doesn’t talk about his feelings that much and he always tries to avoid arguments. So he left me when we got into an argument he said he didn’t care about me anymore and he didn’t care about the two years we were together and he would rather be alone than be with me because he isn’t happy. I don’t understand I tried to talk to him about the situation like we always do when we argue but he moved out of our house. He only texts me about bills. He deleted all her pictures on social media and adding girls and liking their pictures. He acts like he does not care A week and a half later of the break up he texted me asking if you wanted to have sex which I did not reply to him. I don’t understand how someone can be in a two year relationship and plan ahead in our future. And the next day he say he never cared and doesn’t want to be with me

[madss]

Your videos have been quite helpful... will try the tools u mention! Thanks Coach Adrian..