It’s okay that some people just turn into life lessons

[NCs_SSTR]

Family doesn’t mean anything when it comes to abuse
Edit thank you for everyone who liked this and everyone in the replies I hope if any of you are being abused it gets better and this comment section is a safe place to talk about it I’ll try to respond to everyone and give good advice I try my best but I haven’t had to deal with abuse before but I have some friends who have and I learn how to help and I see what happens with them

[toby_w]

my dad abused me at 5-7 i can still remember it tbh he said he would try to change but he didn't.

[Nyx-is-tired]

Family isn't just blood. Family should be people you feel safe with. They weren't your true family. I'm sorry that happened to you.

[Virtual_Melatonin]

It really cuts in deep when you don't even want to call them family anymore. When you realize that Mom isn't "Mom" anymore. She's mother. Same with Dad and father. That shit hits hard realizing alone that they are *just* biologically related...

[SkyUnknown]

Trust and love is the one thing u can do with family....
Not until
It comes with abuse....

[iheartever]

I feel you, you are an amazing person and you helped me so much. ❤

[Strawberrysquad-ldre]

I am so sorry this happened to you. I know you prob have seen so many people say the same thing but we really are truly sorry!

[artist_]

When everybody thought u were fine in happy… but they didn’t know what actually happeneds in ur life😢

[Yuriko_yumi]

The more you love them the more it hurts
-a wise person

[urmumishotsoimgonnabeyourdad]

as someone who still get abused to this day and is separated from my sister so she can be safe i understand this so much im currently getting help from child service’s

[varii_]

“it’s okay that some people just turn into life lessons.”…that hit hard…

[AbdulAzeez-upnh]

The ppl that u love the most can hurt u the most 💔

[natalieholubowicz]

Love ur vids hope u r feeling a lot better without them and ik it’s hard sometimes but I believe in u

[stuffz]

In Nov 2021 my stepmom disowned me. Under all the naviete and stuck in an endless toxic cycle I never would’ve imagined in a million years she would do something like that to me. It hurt me. It was painful, but what shattered me the most was loosing the final straw that kept the illusion in place that belief that everything was normal, just a little strict. And yes, so many people have it worse, and I fought tooth and nail to not be the entitled person who hated her parents who had done nothing but sacrifice for them.


But with the final nail in the coffin, everything fell through. The realization that she hadn’t loved me — or at least that while I’d given everything to her, the moment I didn’t meet some small requirement I was disposable. That I was traumatized by her and others treatment of me — some of which was a result of her decisions. I also lost the stepdad who I supported because I didn’t know better, the family pets who I slept next to every night, and have a sparse relationship with my sister (she’s amazing and I love her). I came to terms with the effects of not getting the opposite of a proper outlet and process for things that happened in my life when I was younger and had all those old wounds reopen. I had to grapple with my dad not being so good just because he wasn’t as bad as my stepmom. I lost all will.


But it let me become a completely different person. I still struggle, don’t know how to handle life, fall apart, fail. But I also create my own new successes for the first time, I have what resembles friends, I like meeting people, being confident and making bold choices.

[-xoxo-angel-xoxo-]

I’m so sorry that some people including you had to go through things at a young age luckily for me I never went through abuse ❤❤

[Grey_equestrian]

"My family would never hate me ☺️“

I wish I never said that

[chronically.arl]

To anyone going through abuse SPEAK OUT BEFORE ITS TOO LATE! 🐢

[Thatone_forgettfullkid]

“Not all kids deserve parents” “ not all parents deserve kids”
- wise man/women

[LuvRaisa]

I hope you guys are okay❤️I’m sorry for who ever is going through this, I’m glad I don’t deal with anything like that stay safe 🤍

[ilylucaa]

even if they show affection, love, etc. they can always turn tables… no matter how much affection, love, etc, they can always turn tables. look, ik, it’s hard to rely on that one person. if u have been through trauma. u r a soldier! there r many soldiers in the world, including me and prob u! keep going, and stay strong, soldier! i’m very proud of u! <3