3 Things to Master BEFORE You Meet Someone | Matthew Hussey

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[jadegreen]

How to communicate your needs, value, standards and expectations without feeling scared to but also without sounding controlling

[hajyrose]

You are not looking for someone to create a life for you, you have an amazing life to share with another person.

[taniaswain-williams]

I walked away from an amazing guy who wasn't treating me as well as he should. Previously I would not gave done that because my self worth wasn't high enough. I watched your video on "it's not how you feel about him it's how he makes you feel " the same day and was blown away. He made me feel less secure. But I liked him. Thank you Mathew.

[becky]

Well said! We need to be happy in the other areas of our lives so that we are not relying on a relationship to be the main source of our happiness! ☺️

[alannahshelton]

This may be the the clearest formula for personal harmony that I have seen. The simplicity of the 3 components is “enough” to understand and apply, and yet individually the depth each component opens up so much self awareness, self evaluation, and opportunity for healing any old traumas. Thank you Matthew. When you said Communication, I rolled my eyes a little until you said “…how you communicate YOUR value, your needs, your standards and expectations?” Wow. Honest review: I don’t know. I’ve never been asked that; I’ve never thought about it. If I can’t give you an answer, then how can I expect to attract a partner based on those things I know I deserve and desire? It’s like there’s a disconnect between those things in me and this is the first time I am finally seeing the link. Bravo Matthew! Simple. Effective. Transformative. BRILLIANT.

[treeeasywayne]

I liked when you hit on Confidence, "how you treat yourself and how you allow others to treat you." That was huge!

[sharonbeers]

I do have a nice life but when I meet a guy I think my people pleasing gets in the way and I become over accommodating! Thanks for sharing, working on staying centred in these 3 things

[lyfesaquarium]

1. Your communication is up to par.2.Confidence. 3. Your life is already amazing

[natashadickson]

Happy enough to walk away from any relationship. Thank you. ❤️

[jodyfitzpatrick]

I'm laughing, because I'm 55 yrs old and this is all so true...the younger generation is lucky to have your advice ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[brokenwideopen]

The secret is to love and accept yourself as you are and know that you are worth it and are deserving of love just as you are. Everything doesn’t have to be perfect. If you are too caught up with your circumstances being perfect, you may be waiting for love forever. The only thing you need to believe is that you are good enough and you are valuable as you are. ❤️

[sukhinderkaur]

‘You have an amazing life’, I barely have a life 😒😂

[castrinecubique]

Thanks to your videos, instead of being sad and worried it didn't work again, after finally taking the risk to let someone in (was single for years following a break-up with an abusive partner that required a restraining order).
He was flirty for months, smart, caring, funny... but as soon as I showed interest, he started breadcrumbing me.
Instead of thinking "wow, I really am incapable/unworthy of having a healthy relationship" I am now thinking "wow, well I'm not wasting my time with that bs!".

So yeah, thanks again!

[leopardsnlions]

This is so true and important. I have stayed with guys who I knew weren't good for me or treating me right because the positive moments outweighed the loneliness and emptiness :(

[yeshayadank]

Thank you for making me see that I’m “happy enough” & that I no longer need to change anything aside from appreciating where I’m at in life! 💡

What a video! 🏅

[danelleDNP]

This beautiful masculine is destined to raise strong daughters. God bless 💛

[divadeb]

These three things apply to your work situation some of us stay in jobs because we don't communicate what we want, we don't share our standards, and we lack

[gem]

I get this totally that you must make sure that you are doing and working your own plan to make yourself happy in life so that somebody else would be happy to join you. So the mantra would go this is where I'm going who wants to come with me. Not that I want to follow somebody else.

[qorin]

many things taught on what so called "shorts". i'm thankful, matthew.

[diezuckerbackerin]

That's the problem, I'm not happy with my life and I'm treating myself badly at the moment.