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"Glad we had this conversation thanks this was fun"

riven

Ah since Matt looks at the comments… love the vulnerability and reflection. Totally get the avoidant struggle and the attached book was really eye opening in my relationship too. My husband said the exact same things as you (“I thought it was just me how can this be the exact same as the book”). We also found YT videos from Gabor Mate on childhood trauma helpful and easy to watch… and the book Complex PTSD: Surviving to Thriving was really eye opening as well. For context, though you probably already know, childhood trauma can occur from things like not having unconditional love, parents not appropriately dealing with your emotions, etc. as a kid - basically the things that those of us with avoidant and anxious attachment styles struggle with. Thanks for sharing you two ❤

DIYDalia

That alright was the most passive aggressive I’ve ever heard a Canadian lmao

Zubstep

I was hoping and waiting for "Its gunna be a no from me dawg." So close. Lol

cassidycoll

Lmao!! I’m a chef at a country club and it blows my mind how many men are there 7 days a week, rain or shine🤯🤦🏽‍♀️ Most are married family men. Smh

blackcarbon

1 golf day for dad = 1 spa day for mom

PsychicRenegadeTarot

They can fit a baby seat to a golf buggy, right? Daddy/baby day!

reneeduvoisin

This situation sucks, I know cause I’ve been there. The only thing worse than not having a partner around to help is having a partner that doesn’t want to be there. It’s a lose lose situation

MeganTyler-dbzq

My exes going out habits is what caused my divorce. He didn’t like being told no so he left 🤣 now that he has another woman in his life, he wants to participate in parenting aka make her do the work 🤦🏻‍♀️

screenqueen

Omg I WISH I would have known this technique way earlier!!

jacindablair

It’s about balance. If one parent is taking advantage of the other, something’s got to give. Both parents deserve a break. Even little things like waking up with the baby in the morning while you let the other parent sleep in. It’s also very important for both parents to spend time together away from the baby. I’d aim for at least one night a month. Maybe a night to the movies and/or go to dinner together while you get a sitter for a few hours. It’s inevitable to feel like you need a break and healthy to get one. I’m not talking about work either. Work does not count as a break from taking care of your kids. So if one parent stays home with the baby and the other works, it’s not fair to hold a grudge on the parent that gets to leave. I know sometimes that can make the stay at home parent feel like they never ever get a break. Again, it’s all about balance. And trust me, the ‘little’ things make a HUGE difference. 💞💞💞

mothermakeup

😂😂😂 gotta check the schedule and you are definitely on it stop it sir

Simply__Simone

I don’t have children but I’ve always thought that would make me so upset. Like moms and dads each deserve their own “me time” of course, but what if one partner seems to be taking advantage of their time off more than the other and spending time away from home while the other is spending THEIR free time taking care of the kid(s). I could see where that would be SO frustrating and maybe even infuriating. I feel like I know couples exactly like this.

Juliamh