Are Cancer & Aquarius Compatible? | Zodiac Love Guide

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Cancer and Aquarius are very different. Their energies don't necessarily blend well together. They do find each other interesting at first. Aquarius has a mental approach to life. Very curious, very open, loves ideas. Aquarius is fixed in astrology, which means that it's stable and stubborn, and fixed in its opinions. So, this may or may not work well with the Cancerian who is not a mental sign, it's a feeling sign. Cancer is a water sign, so they live through their emotions even if they think that they are thinking, they're actually feeling. What Aquarius has is a lone wolf quality, a quality of being apart, of not wanting to be terribly tied down to emotional demands, Aquarius will stay in a situation, but not if there's too much emotion, too much sturm und drang, too much drama. Aquarius flees from that, and this is what Cancer provides, in a sense, because Cancer is very emotional, and therefore, in a relationship, talks about its feelings, if it comes up against somebody like an Aquarian, doesn't really want to explore feelings, then the Cancer feels abandoned and rejected and withdraws, and Aquarius is off doing its mental thing, and experiencing, and trying something new in life, to learn, and Cancer, it broods, and sulks, and withdraws into a painful shell. As you can see, the energies don't work terribly well over the long term. Short term, they might find each other's minds interesting, but that isn't going to last long.

[harsimranjitkaur]

All over the internet it's written that aquarius and Cancerian relationship can't work but the comments section made my day .. ❣️

[uts]

I'm an Aquarius with a Cancerian girlfriend; I'd like to argue that the relationship does work out in a sense that we have the utmost respect for each other. Aquarians are not emotionless people who don't care about love, and Cancerians are not desperate emotional seekers who thrive on love; to say that would be absurd.

As an Aquarius, I love my Cancerian girlfriend very much and I would put my life on the line for her. She is just as important to me as my family, and I put my priorities to her first before anything else in this world. Also I may be humanitarian in a sense that I do care about the world, but I'm also rational to understand that some things cannot be changed, so I enjoy my life with my loved ones and forget about the daily struggles.

Update: We have been together for 4 and a half years and everything is working out amazingly as we are now engaged! Although there have been some ups and downs (as there should be in all relationships), we talk things through during our arguments to better understand each other and to get through our problems (I think this is extremely important to keep the relationship alive). I have even become friends with other Cancerians and there is something they all have in common... high emotional intelligence and good at analyzing body language. There is no other sign out there that is able to read other people like a book just by looking at them, and this is a very respectable quality. I have learned much from Cancerians.

[Mawde]

My dad is a cancer and my mom is an Aquarius they've been married for 40 years

[IanRob]

My husband is a Cancer and I’m an Aquarian. We celebrated our 55 year anniversary in September 2022. Both to stubborn and lazy to split and try again. No arguing, just helping each other. I’m 74 and he is 81. Good quiet life. We are blessed

[princess_sonianevermind]

Video: y’all ain’t Finna make it
Comments: we’vE beeN marRied fOr 30 years

[AngelicSquid]

Cancer here! Been with my Aquarius boyfriend for 10+ years and we have a very healthy and happy relationship. Personality wise on this video is pretty spot on. But what makes things work is learning patience and communication. It helps our relationship and with our different personalities helps us be more better people too.

[vanessacastillo]

Im Aquarius and been with a cancer for 9 years and still counting and let me tell we have had our ups and downs but we are very much still in love.

[taecie]

Shows how much she knows... I'm an Aquarius & have been with my Cancer husband for 25 years!

[hamamboudjemai]

You Know what, in my opinion aquarius and cancer are soulmates

[RaineSky]

I'm married to a Aquarius man and we get along great and love each other deeply. He writes me poetry and sends me songs. He is not emotionless and I'm not a fragile little whine baby lol.

[rachelbirdy]

I'm a typical Aquarius quirky kinda nuts. Have been with my cancer husband for 23 years now. Yes we are very different, he's kinda moody and not much of a deep thinker or talker lol. But he's so caring would do anything for me, so romantic. Very clingy always has to touch me and if he's not in work he's by my side. Have always suffered jealousy because of our relationship. But I read some where if it works between and Aquarius and cancer it's the kind of love angels are jealous of...so true .

[JesusWithAllMyHeart]

I’m a cancer and my boyfriend is an Aquarius and we have been together since the day I was born. Him being so stable makes it so that I always have someone to rant to or ask questions about things. I bring out the emotional parts of him and he know he can come to me to talk to when he’s upset. We are the best match god could have put on this planet. ❤️

[msfuqua]

I'm a Cancer and I tend to love Aquarius people.. I don't really know why, they just intrigue me so much. They're minds are just different in a sense. Like they think outside the box, desire is never satisfied for them.. Atleast for me its like this with the Aquarius male

[MattieMacaya]

This person seems biased toward cancer, cancer explores internal realms the same way an aquarius likes to explore external.

[sifabuhle]

why do they exaggerate so much when it comes to Aquarius and cancer? like woow, I've been with mine for 6 years already, he is very emotional so am i in a different way, we understand and love each other, we are both dramatic yet cant even walk away from this...it works for us anuway.

[Jamieisastar]

I'm an aquarius and I would say that Cancer is emotional but not in a drama sense. They are very passionate and they want to give everyone love and attention. As an aquarius I see that as a good quality though at times I can't understand why my Cancer guy is getting overwhelmed with everyone's needs, I'll ask him why he feels everyone needs his attention and he'll say because they just do. So Cancer is very willing to give alot of themselves to others and they are SUPER sensitive to everyone's mood and energy. While Aquarius is too much in its own head and thinking about everything to be THAT sensitive to what's going on. While aquarius is dreaming and exploring in their mind, Cancer is radiating the very same dreamy passion outwardly.

[dawncooperman-matias]

My Husband is an Aquarius and Im a Cancer and we've been together over 7 years. We dated as kids as well until he moved away. I completely disagree with this all the way. We are definitely soulmates.

[Beeyourself]

My mum is an aquarius married to a cancer. So I guess your predictions weren't too accurate...

[mzphattypatty]

I’m an Aquarius and some how feels extremely connected to this guy who is a cancer. We both can’t seem to get enough of each other! And I have never ever dated or been so attracted to another Cancer other than him! So I’m willing to give “THIS” chance if he is!

[rxxsxhux]

Aquarians and cancerians would be amazing to be a parent. One is adventures soul, one is caring soul. Kids will have both amazing world.