How Time Will Expose The Narcissist Parent In A Custody Case #childcustody #divorce #narcissism

[edgehaven]

I saw a great clip by Mel Robbins where she says, “Let them.” Narcs do themselves in.

[justinslife]

Iv been watching, listening and learning alot for over 3years now. Thanks for the motivation,

[freespirit]

Exactly!!!! I just allow him to be the glorious toxic person he is, he illuminates himself, he will always blame me and thats fine, hes too delicate to take responsible for himself. I always tell him, the kids will never forget what you do to us....

[Violet-jpcd]

Ty dealing with this now yr in 7 court hearing not seeing speaking too our child he stole from us getting our son to lie and say untruths I’m worried about my child dealing alone with just messed up controlling bully I’m worried cuz I know the damage he doing

[jsims]

I feel like you have studied my whole case. Ever. Single. Thing. As soon as I’ve got the funds, I’m scheduling a call. Chat soon, brother.

[debbiemckenna]

My X narc took me to court for full custody. He didn’t want them he just wanted to hurt me. I had full and then 50/50. When he did this I cried and he stood there like father of the year when he never did anything. The judge gave him full custody. He really tried to turn my kids against me but I just kept treating them like I always did with love. They are 21 and twins 19 they still don’t really get it. That was the worst day of my life. I still cry and worry about them and all of this. He is still trying to control my relationship with them. I hope that the kids see some day the toxic way he treats them.

[netgainz-musclemoneyassets]

Bro you are are fucking AWESOME! I love you dude!!

[javachip]

I cant wait for this moment my daughters dad is a narcissist and he's everything that was said im this video

[kkpatino]

this is exactly what happened to my brother and i

[Torsdagskvallsmys]

I only talk about my ex If my child brings her up, wich usually are questions like "when am I going back to mommy, I miss mommy" or like "why isnt you and mommy living together anymore" and questions like that I usually respond with an open question like how mutch do you miss her and usually show with my hands/arms is it this mutch or this muuutch oooor this And she always stretch her arms as wide as possible, so she can express how she feels better, after that I can also ask her if you where with her now what do you think you would do? And she always has atleast one good idea, and in her bedroom ive put up a luminous star in the ceeling and ive said to her that those nights when she miss her alot, look up at the star and imagine that mommy is that also are looking up at the same star, wich makes her, and it gives her comfort..

But she can also bring up negative subjects like mommy does this or this, wich I know isnt a good thing, but I never tell my daughter that, but I dont ignore it either, insted of talking sh*it about her i ask open questions like what do you think about when mommy does that, how does it make you feel or do you think its right or wrong, and usually she can give an answer like "mommy says its okey and If mommy says so then it must be true. Becuse she belives that mommy would never lie to her and thinks the same about me. Im her hero and mommy to ofcourse...
But then after a few seconds after she processed it, she will usually say somethink like, "but I actually thinks she is wrong for doing do"
And If its appropriate i follow up with asking her "how does it make you feel?"
And voila, she camed with the conclusion her self and I never spoke ill of her once...
My goal is to make our child feel as safe as possible and she needs to know that she is loved by both of us.
But I cant just ignore how her mother is acting sometimes, that would only make the trauma worse....

[buttermonkey]

The kids will see the truth on their own anyway

[elliecampbell]

God I hope so because my daughter treats me like shit because of her dad making her feel like she dont have to respect me! And acts like how dare I call my daughter out if she lied about something. She blocks me and wont talk to me. My mom caught me lying a million times i would never treat her the way my daughter treats me.

[KamJ]

Truth! Once I won custody of my kids (3 daughters) I always told them the absolute truth, kept the door open 24/7/365 for the bio-mom to call, come by, visit...I fought to get her to speak to them, I had to hire two private investigators to track her down just so wshe would call her stayed away for over 10 years and had the balls to be mad at me because the children had a hard time relating to her.

[kingsagenda]

True but the shorter primary years are foundational.

[lunababy]

My husband new gf influencing him and he has never taking care of my daughter now he fighting for more custody

[tyrel]

🫂 Anthony you’re a huge help, thnks bud! ❤