Behind The Veil E9 with Zainab - How to attract a high value muslim man

My guest: Zainab from Heal Grow Glow Coaching

[RSADYNAMICS]

A high Value muslim man does not approach muslim woman in an unislamic way . And a high value muslim woman does not cheapen herself or allow herself to be approached by random casual men . In islam we have mechanism and Procedures and protocols for Introductions .If you start off by doing things the haram way dont expect Allahs blessings and a successful marriage .

[olegnurmagomedov]

"high value Muslim man" ??

Sis you are using the redpill terms. Please avoid it. Use what Islam prescribes:

Here's a wonderful Hadith for your understanding:

Sahl bin Sa`d As-Sa`idi (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: A man passed by the Prophet (PBUH), so he asked a man who was sitting near him, "What is your opinion about this man?'' That man replied: "He is one of the noblest men. By Allah he is certainly a proper person for (a girl) being given in marriage if he seeks to marry, and his recommendation is fit to be accepted if he recommends". Messenger of Allah (PBUH) remained silent. Then another man passed. Messenger of Allah (PBUH) enquired, "What is your opinion about this man?'' He replied: "O Messenger of Allah, he is one of the poor Muslims. He is not a proper person (for a girl) to be given in marriage to, and his recommendation would not be accepted if he makes one; if he speaks, he is not to be listened to.'' Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, "He is better than the former by earthfuls".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Commentary: This Hadith contains the following two important points:

1. The distinction and greatness of such poor Muslims who are neither known in society because due to their poverty nor are they respected by people. But due to their Faith and piety, each of them is better in the sight of Allah than others. This Hadith makes it abundantly clear that what really matters with Allah is Faith and piety not lineage nor pomp and show.

2. For marriage purposes, men and women of noble character should be selected even if they are poor because at the level of religion they are on par with other Muslims. Thus, the principle underlined here is that the preference should be given to the equality in respect of religion rather than worldly wealth and richness.

[sahrishmansoor]

Please bring her more over here! MashaAllah, two amazing women!

[Kaixvc]

This episode is gold. I love how the sister used examples, of what to say when you want them to fulfil certain duties, Allahumma barik laha. I wouldn’t call myself a masculine or defensive woman but I’ve been struggling to meet a masculine man because I don’t really put myself out there. How does one meet someone esp when trying to avoid free mixing and when most of the men in my particular culture (or their mums) expect an established career woman 😭

[getclosertoallah]

Hi somaya Sister,
Can you please put the link of her channel or the name of her channel I really need her podcasts. Thanks may Allah give you reward both in this world and here after. ❤

[JMMin-Kahan]

Most of us autistics can see Elle from legally blonde is autistic coded, even if it wasnt intentional by the creators, while i fully appreciate why it triggered you, and it not being autistism thats the trigger, Subhan Allah, she was representation for alot of undiagnosed young women in college/uni. Im glad it helped you! Im so glad you got to that understanding of why you were triggered, at some point in life i had the same icks. May Allah forgive us all for our blunders. MaShaAllah im so glad it helped you.

[Sheen_Ain]

Sister plz turn your face here hide your face or cover your face properly .... it's annoying and representing our values differently so many non muslim also watch this. .if u don't want to come on camera then stop the camera or close the camera. ..but it is too annoying doing the back towards listener m unable to focus 🥺

[shahanashaikh]

Bring her back, she spoke to me in a way no other.

[majdoumajdou]

Amazing really!!!! that's crazy to what extent I can relate to your story!!! thanks a lot for sharing this with you! May Allah reward you !

[sahrishmansoor]

Please do another episode with Zainab specifically about the latter part of this video, details on these tips ans tricks.

[priusa]

Is it just me and my adhd or can we not see the guest, like is she on opposite way? Thanks

[sadieharris]

But what if you are in feminine energy- are a nice person but keep meeting the wrong people and in that pursuit now in late 30s …… and totally depressed, always wanted children . I believe In allah swt and I know it’s always for our best - but depression is a real

[miracle]

Really needed this! Thank you so much sisters! ❤
I had a question by the way. I have been brought up in a way to be fully independent, not depending on my parents financially. On the other hand, I also like to meet a provider husband. Regarding the Quantum technique that you mentioned, should I use it for my spouse only? Cause financially wise, my own family is having a hard time and I'm the one who lends them money often. So I do not know how should I behave or react in front of possible candidates... considering my own family, I also do not know how much should I expect from him. Is it ok to pretend as if I have never had any struggle in life (Quantum technique) even though I had?

[shahanashaikh]

How to heal from the past experience so that you don't bring it in the current talking stage

[dunyatrvlr]

One of my fav podcasts so far, Barakallahu feek. Jazakallahu khair Soumaya and Zainab for discussing this topic ❤

[aminah]

Insha Allah I can have this kind life where I don’t have to constantly worry about bills n food n shelter

[gypsynurse]

My sister's are very well spoken 👏. Mashallah tabarakAllah

[priusa]

Salams sumaya can u please upload the recording of yesterday s webinar on feminine energy? Jaz Khairan ❤

[priusa]

Does sister Zainab have a YouTube channel or IG?! Thanks ❤

[hodan]

But what’s wrong with putting your mother first before your desires. Our deen teaches us not to follow our desires, most of the time it will make us become misguided. If you mean positive desires ( going swimming, taking break, saying no and travelling) than you would have the right to fulfil it.