The Real Reason He Won't Commit #shorts

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𝐀𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐓 𝐌𝐄!
I’m Mark Rosenfeld – Australia’s dating and relationship coach for women. This channel is all about helping you find, attract and keep the man you want through the values of personal growth, authenticity and high self-esteem. So, if you’re interested in dating advice and relationship advice that is focused on core confidence that makes you a better human, rather than games or tactics to ‘play’, start now by subscribing (link below) and getting your FREE download (link above)

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[dianathemyscira]

Your advice is honestly helping me. I just think it's a shame that one has to have money to get any personalized help. I know everyone needs to make a living, so I understand. Although I'm practically broke, but I'd still like to have a "real" relationship again.

[pixieazul]

Keep preaching bc I need to hear it!! Seriously, thank you for the insights into the male mind❤🙌🏼🫶🏼

[antlove]

Hi there Mark, this is Carla from Munich :) I hope you still do #askmark, here comes my problem /question: It seems that I have lost my spark!
At this point I am 31 years old and I had several quite long relationships with men throughout my 20s. Ever since I can recall, problems in my relationships only started to arise after quite some time. Relationships failed, but getting into them in the first place was never an issue. Men always seemed to chase me like crazy in the first stages of dating, I never had any trouble getting with the guys I wanted to get with and I never question my desirablility (I know, that might sound cocky but believe me, I have loads of other areas where I struggle with my self esteem to make up for it haha)
By this day, I have been single for almost three years now and the wind seems to have changed: I have gone out with plenty of guys during that time and I got rejected over and over and over again...even by men who might not fall into the category of guys who drown in female attention. Something is completely off. I do not think it has anything to do with my visuals since I still get invited on first dates and usually guys seem to really dig me and give me lots of compliments when going out for the first time. But some weird vibe seems to be creeping in on the 2nd, 3rd, 4th or 5th date with a guy... during these early stages of dating I can feel them pulling away more and more with their interest in me slowly dying. The only difference I can identify for myself compared to dating in my 20s is a shift in my mindset, I feel like I start obsessing over guys more than I used to and with each man who seems moderately attractive I feel the urge to lock him down since I just want to get it done, not be disappointed again, not get my hopes up and have them die down again. I want to start a life with a man and maybe I am becoming impatient - I am trying to hide the desperate label well but my suspicion is that guys sense it like dogs smell sausage and run for the hills without even being sure why themselves. Also I feel like leaning back into my feminine, just chilling out and being receiving does not seem to be my natural state any more these days. For example: On dates, when the waiter comes and it is time to pay, I feel the urge to jump the gun and scream: "We'll split the bill!", before the guy can even offer to pay for the both of us. When a guy offers to walk me home, I refuse the offer. It is almost as if I would feel that I do not deserve to be taken care of and I want to lower the effort for the guy, hoping he'll buy at a lower price (which I know, is exactly the wrong approach)
So how do I get into the position of perceiving myself as the price again? Especially after being rejected so many times in a row, 4 to be precise? My self esteem is somewhere below room temperature and I am stuck in an unhealthy pattern of feeling and thinking. Please, help!!!

Thank you so much for your great work, keep it up! What you do is of so much value to so many people and you seem extra kind. X, Carla