7 Disturbing Traits Of An INFJ Dark Side

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Did you know that in addition to MBTI type, you have other key personality functions? These functions are crucial to understanding how you function in society, and they're useful to know as a tool to help you learn more about yourself and others. Today we’re going to look at the shadow functions and how they create the dark side of an INFJ personality type. This dark side represents the unconscious parts of our psyche that you have less awareness of and control over. It hosts repressed, unwanted and overlooked elements of your personality.

If you are an INFJ (advocate/counselor) personality type chances are that you have already experienced some dark side traits at least once in your lifetime. You should undoubtedly be aware of your dark side since it will help in the integration of your unconscious and conscious selves, allowing you to better design your life and achieve personal growth. Here are 7 Disturbing Traits Of An INFJ Dark Side

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0:00 Intro
1:12 - 1. Bottling up emotions, then exploding
2:06 - 2. Door slam
3:09 - 3. Manipulation
4:20 - 4. Uncompromising
5:22 - 5. Self-doubt
6:36 - 6. Defensiveness
7:18 - 7. Ruthlessness

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[BlessedBaeLLC]

Bro called me a Demon like 5 different times, chill fam, its hard out here for INFJs😭😭😂

[cstay]

the "door slam" is not to punish anyone, I think it is more of a way to avoid further hurt.

[Ravyne]

A lot of these are defense mechanisms that we INFJs have had to implement in order to survive in a world that misunderstands us the majority of the time. We are good at these defense mechanisms because we are so observant. Sad to say, I have displayed many of these throughout my life, but now that I am in my mid-50s, I am no longer so defensive and don't need to rely on any of these. Especially the first one. I no longer bottle up my emotions and explode.

[jolesliewhitten]

I don’t slam doors or manipulate. I just disappear (after planning quietly.)

[Stanlos]

I continue to be absolutely ASTONISHED by how accurate these vids are. It's like a complete stranger just walking to your mind and perusing like one does at a Library. I honestly never believed in this "science" or discipline nor things like astrology. But I can't deny the accuracy of these profiles. It's like they KNOW me

[AggieAze]

Manipulating can be used for many good things. Manipulation in general is not a bad thing, many people need guidance and manipulation is the way of providing this guidance in an understandable language.

Remember that, INFJs intentions are almost always good. Except when they want to punish someone for lies, disgusting motives and etc..

[FlockofAngels]

Life is a circle not a square, so go with it, don't expect walls but turns, hills and valleys.

[GT]

Dont piss us off, and you’ll be good.😂 We do bottle it up, but the issue is usually at least mentioned. Usually only manipulate after being manipulated. A lot clears up as you mature too. I can only speak for myself though.

[rickyconstancio]

Many years ago before I knew I was an INFJ or even heard of the MBTI, I did the "door slam" on someone who wouldn't hear me. Wouldn't allow me to speak to clear my name. So I told him to always stay mad at me even when he learns the truth because he didn't want to listen to me in that moment I told him he doesn't exist to me anymore. YEARS later he tried to apologize and I told him if that immature person he was in the past is the person he IS then he never should have been my friend in the first place. Told him he made his call. And I said what I said about him not existing to me still holds. I don't hate him, but I don't need him in my life.

[GarLick]

Dude the manipulative part is the exciting and terrifying part for me, like dude its fun but it's feels wrong so i only use it if necessary and in a goodway . It feels like playing a chess but the people around you is the chess piece

[bladeguru]

The manipulation trait can be used for good too. I find myself using it in coaching sports.

[MargShares]

Jordan Peterson said that you have to be a monster, capable to inflict pain to others ( paraphrasing here) so they will know not to cross the line or there will be a hell to pay.

So, having these dark sides are not totally bad in my opinion so I embrace them as part of me.

[tanja]

I always end up hating or disliking people in the end. Always. It happens after a long series of them doing me wrong.

[sonnvaglitch]

For the first point tho, we INFJs are usually perfectionists. This is why we tend to hold back our criticisms towards other people becuz we know they might not be as strict towards themselves as we do.

[cyronmastriano]

I don’t do the “door slam” thing. It’s more like a “thanos snap gone in existence” for me when pushed to the final edge.

[yqsjhui]

people think im heartless because i can forget everything i had with someone and remove them from my life! but i guess infjs become this way AFTER giving many chances to the point where its like we get to a point where we want peace and 0 problmes even if it means cutting off loved ones!

[_p_]

This is fueled by high empathy. An unforgivable assault against an INFJ will receive an extreme response, either by indifference or ruthlessness.

[wiredz]

These habits are accurate, but I'm aware I've done them and I'm not scared of being honest about them to my friends and family. If anything I'd like them to know how I think and act and that includes most of these bad traits. I'm especially aware of my unconscious use of manipulation and I deal with it by not involving those around me in my problems.

[fermillepeligrino]

It's funny that I relate to everything, especially the door slap... I stop to talk to people if I feel they don't want me in their life anymore