This is why You KEEP MISSING YOUR EX | CANT MOVE ON

Shwetabh gangwar, author of the Rudest Book ever, talks about why a lot of people can't move on from their ex partners -- boyfriends or girlfriends -- and live under the belief that their break up was a mistake, and their exes was the best partner they had had. The truth is once the pain and misery of being in that relationship dissipates, what remains in memory are only the good times and the current loneliness. When these are mixed, the brain concocts a whole new story about your past relationship that isn't true at all.

[PookieNarc]

I found out that, a man who don't have a strong purpose in life starts seeking for women to fill that void.
When I had purpose, I knew I was doing good academically, I wasn't affected that much from whether the girl I like, like me back or not, or she's going to commit to someone or not.
But when I lost my pace in academics, I became far more sensitive towards such things.

Solution lies here.

[ankur.singhs]

Just a reminder - "Love is not found, Love is built"

[sohailshaikh]

Weed Alcohol Cigarettes Drugs etc etc.. But the Worst addiction in this World is Humans addiction towards another Human..

[biruly]

It's same like when people remember old days. They talk about how beautiful were those days when life was simple without social media, internet and webseries. They completely neglecte those problems which existed in olden days like lack of medical facilities, slow transportation and other things, just because they currently don't have to face those problems.

[subhadeepjasu]

I recently had a break up. I can say that my brain is currently being my biggest enemy. Like every week or two I have a dream of her and the following morning I am depressed. Swetabh's videos are the only thing keeping me sane at this point.

[jeetu]

Always remember :-
Love isn't blind
Love blinds you

[ubermensch_male]

*Based on personal experience* : If you two already know that you won't be able to live together due to any factor, it's better to call your relationship off at an early stage rather than waiting for something disastrous to happen because at that time there will only be regret and regret is a wasted emotion.

It is a complete hell to watch someone you loved getting married to someone else in front of your own eyes.

The biggest mistake that you can make is to go back to the person with whom you have broken up due to a plausible reason because once you do, after a week you will again start feeling suffocation because of the factor that you had left them for.

It takes a lot of will and time to move on but once you do, you are free a spirit again. Suck up on your emotions. Work on yourself.

Remember that to win a war, you must lose a few battles in your life.

I have personally known people who waited for life to slap them and wake them up and when it did they went into depression. Don't be that person ever ever.

I was fortunately lucky enough to call my relationship off at an early stage and I saved myself from all the trauma and depression.

[ManeeshKumar-yfjc]

He’s the big brother we all need during our tough times

[MrSujan]

I was studying but this seemed more important

[AaRTiSharma-qsem]

This selective retention is accurate! Too good. Thanks :)

[tauhidtodo]

I was thinking about my EX … i just saw this video on Recommendations… Maine Facewash kiya .. Zomato se order kiya.. Khaya piya aur sogaya.. i stopped missing my Ex now … thanks !

2yrs ago she cheated me ...then I decide I'll work hard untill I become a successful person in my life.love is the thing that we can find anytime but shaping and carving our own self leads to your own character development nd helps to achieve everything in your life imagine a happy life when you reach to your goals nd you realise you are the reason for which there is a smile on your parents face....I swear that feeling is utmost of everything....so at the end brothers..just make a resolution, talk to yourself sit in front of a mirror be your own bestfriend nd be a better you than you were in your past❤️
Swetabh bhai sab aapse hi seekha h...my whole ideology changed when i accidently clicked on your video.... trust me i have no regrets at all. Love you big brother 🔥🕊️

[psychicareena]

I was just missing my ex like hell just what i was looking for love you man

[samuellyngdoh]

Exactly . Memories are not reliable to be a factor of judgement in any relationship . They'll end up clouding the truth .

[manirouses]

I was in depression at a time bc of her:-\

[Streetfoodtrekker]

Thanks bro it's me. The topic is 100℅ relatable to me.

[rupeshg]

I'm too happy after breakup
It was toxic except the s*x
Moving on is our choice our power 💪

[arealist]

This logic can easily be applied to your past friendship that you used to have.
I just realized I was missing those moments and I just played this video and then thought ki Selective retention toh mere case pe bhi apply ho sakta hai!

Hats off to you Shwetabh bhai. I was feeling a little upset but now, I've gained a new perspective.

[subhamchowdhury]

Nostalgia is truly man's greatest weakness, second only to the neck- Dwight Schrute

[navneetwillrockagain]

My gf left me saying I can't marry you because my father wants me to get Married to someone else.
I asked her that we both knew that this is the obstacle that we will face at some point but you were always ready to fight against everyone but now you are saying you can't go against your father.
It's been three days we haven't talked to each other.
And in our one year relationship there was not a single day that we didn't talk to each other .
So yeah it's pretty depressing that she is not gonna call.
But then I recall things when I was with her.
I used to always think that we are not compatible and we have not so many things in common, and I always wanted her to go away and when she is gone I am feeling sad, Bollywood songs start playing, food doesn't taste good it's all so sad without her.
But from inside I always knew that this is gonna happen and it will not last long.
And I know no matter how much I want to hear her voice and talk to her when she will come back I will start feeling same things again.
So whatever happened, happened for a reason.
Maybe that was god's plan.
And I m not going to interfere in the God's plan at all.
I have decided I will not call her.
I always pray to god that whatever he hs decided must be best for me.
I never ask god to bring her back in my life I just ask god to give me strength to bear all the trauma that I m facing right now or will face in upcoming days. Because I know once this phase is over there will be a bright and new morning .