15 undeniable signs of chemistry between a man and a woman

Chemistry is the mysterious X factor.

You either feel it or you don’t. And sometimes it’s a bit hot and cold. Big chemistry followed by a cooling off period.

Sometimes it’s also hard to know if the other person is feeling it too.

Chemistry is hard to describe:

You feel alive and full of desire just being around them.

It’s kind of like a sparkling electricity traveling from you to another person.

Searing heat when you kiss, a feeling of calm and connection when you hold hands.

Bliss when you make love.

But before you get to that stage you need to know if they’re feeling it the way you are.

That’s why I’ve written up these 15 can’t-miss signs on how to tell if there’s a genuine spark between two people.

[dianneciresi]

What if one has a secure attachment style & the other one has an anxious preoccupied or Fearful avoidment. Won't work. Hard to find 2 secure attachment styles. It's usually the opposite in most cases..

[peetaphanimanasapeetaphani]

U drawn to eachother.Observe eachother body language.Maintain eachother.Pay attention.Smile, fun., laugh.Shared interests.Similar sense of humour.Jokes.Compliment with each other.Feeling free to make mistakes.

[icysnowcold]

I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other.

Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.

Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.

Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men. Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends. Females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why women tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than men do.

[dianneciresi]

I'm not humorous & don't know how to be. I'm trauma bonded..lol

[dianneciresi]

What if he's the talker & ur not, moreso just a listener

[dianneciresi]

There's no chemistry with the one I go out with once a week. I appeal more to brunettes than blonde men. Guess I should tell him to go find someone else & stay by myself since there's no one that appeals to me..oh well. He thinks there's chemistry but it's unrequited on my end sorry to say

[rynfloa]

Yeah ....this sounds like perfection doesn't exist. Let me tell you the real love . A full wallet and a bank account with a few million dollars on it ....and forget everything else and all the signs here