How to FLIRT! Easy, Basic, Flirting 101 // amy young

Putting yourself out there probably isn't as scary as you think it is. Harness the power of the friendly flirt and make it work for you! Being friendly is FUN, so get out there and have a good old time.

[Octavio]

Girl, you are such a great actress. I mean it.

[MelissaSimply]

Uh ohh... I've been flirting with my local barista without knowing it... And other people...  #Yikes

[bludluva]

Never heard anyone break it down like that before, that the main difference is a lot more smiling, friendliness, and eye contact. Impossible to misunderstand, Thanks :)

[AudreyGaffneybph]

I don't smile and laugh to flirt, I do that to come across as nice. Hope everyone doesn't think I'm flirting with them! lol

[egoleech]

tbh....I don't see no difference.  All I see is a pretty grumpy/sleepy person and a person who's in a good mood. 

No flirting there.

[YusufAhmed]

I wouldn't say either of those scenarios you were flirting. One just seems more friendlier than the other. It's better to be straight up with guys.

[stephaniek]

Honestly drove home today thinking about how I suck at flirting and came home to this video posted. Maybe the universe agreed with me and wanted to help out haha

[CharlesLe-thephotographer]

Wow, I I would not have know she was flirting in the second example. She just seems upbeat and friendly. The hint didn't occur until she gave the compliment. Girls, and please be more direct! We love it when you are direct.

[plebiansociety]

Compliments are a must with a guy, it pulls us out "is she just being nice, or is she flirting?", especially if we're at work.

[perdybirdie]

I think you are flirting i you can feel sexual tension with that person. I look people in the eye and smile and touch my hair all the time but when I'm flirting I notice I get more awkward and look down and back up and feel sexual tension with that person. So yea, theres my response

[KCallia]

I'm still quite shy and awkward at times, especially when talking to a guy I just met because of school or whatever, so eye contact and looking down right after is normal for me. Yay?

[rolfmeyermusic]

Damn... I've been flirted with more than I realized.... :/

[allied]

"The word 'flirt' is like the least serious word in the english language." So true!

[saritacheeks]

I'd like to know what your opinion is about the difference between flirting with someone and just being a nice person. I feel as though many times people mistake being nice for flirting. It's like, are we supposed to be dicks to people or something? What's wrong with being nice to someone? Personally, usually when talking to a stranger in public, I try to be as nice as I can because most times there's no good reason to be rude. It's nice when people are nice. When people are nice to me, it makes me want to be nice to others and I think being nice can be a good contagious thing. Anywho, great vid as usual. See ya next week!

[velvet]

I used to be that girl though, like so cold and still am sometimes. Had trouble smiling, it was because of having social anxiety so the way I would hide it was to have a barrier. So people could probably tell by my body language. Slowly, I'm starting to turn that around. Becoming more confident, practicing on my body language and also changing my look were I feel confident instead of looking dull but more bright which helps. Thanks for the reminder and for giving examples which helps alot.

[mac]

I consider myself decently attractive, some might even find me handsome. I take care of my appearance to the usual extent, and I'm pretty sure I dress okay, heck sometimes I'm even well-dressed.
No woman has ever flirted with me, at least in my perception. I'm 35. Online dating works, though, but that's probably the only reason I'm not a virgin.

[emzym]

Your sarcasm and direct tone is hilarious! (Yes I said tone...SCHOOL GET OUT OF MY WEEKEND)

[greciaalvarez]

I was watching this with my mom and she thinks you're hilarious
And as always i'm loving your videos! Xx

[teachetica]

It's a wonder I'm married. I have NO flirting skills...like none at all. Great video as always!

[christinelee]

The flirting one is literally me just always, because ordering food is nerve ranking af.