3 Ways To Get Invited To Group Activities | Dr. Aziz - Confidence Coach

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DO YOU WANT TO BE INCLUDED, INVOLVED, AND PEOPLE ASKING YOU TO JOIN THEM?
TAKE THE ACTION NECESSARY TO GET NOTICED AND STAY INVOLVED, STARTING NOW.
Do you ever feel as though you’re missing out on social activities? Would you like to get invited to more dinners, parties, and other social gatherings? Do you wish people would want to reach out to you to get involved in activities?
Today, we’re going to be discussing a solution to a problem I personally dealt with for years: feeling unincluded in social activities.
When it comes to group activities and social gatherings, we all want to feel included. If you are particularly closed off and socially anxious, then many suggestions aimed at helping you achieve this goal may seem a bit challenging to you. If you want to massively increase your level of social fitness, however, then you may need to start by building your social skills overall.
Fact: everyone experiences at least some degree of shyness and/or nervousness.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, though, from my work with clients from across the globe over the years, it’s that anyone can develop the confidence necessary to combat social anxiety—including you!
In the meantime, though, let’s take a look at this slightly more advanced issue!
The first—and probably most obvious—way to increase your social inclusion is to become the initiator. What better, more powerful way is there to boost your involvement than to become the host, organizer, or inviter?
But what if no one comes?!
This is the exact risk that kept me from creating my own live events for years. But then I finally realized that fewer attendees would actually create an amazingly intimate atmosphere in which each participant would get a very personal experience.
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[noelleharris]

who else here is introverted but just wants a social life?

[apun]

My friends are at a party rn and I’m sitting alone at home. I’ve known most of them for over 13 years and I feel like I’m not important enough for them. People who they barely know or have just met were invited, but not me. I’m watching these kind of videos so I can hopefully get invited to stuff in the future.

Edit 2021: Started college and met new people. These people are nice and I’m having a good time with them. Been invited to almost every party and hangouts. Life looks a little brighter.

[subsfornoreason]

Also a tip for hosting events: Don’t make a group on snap with everyone and tell them to join. if a person sees that their friend is not coming, they would say no. Instead ask each individual for them to come. Then they don’t know if their friend is coming or not. And they will say yes. I actually tested this once with only 2 people. I told them Individually that the other person is invited as well. Note that these 2 people where best friends. When both heard the other is coming, they both said yes and came. Before that, I had tried to make a group with both of them and tell them to join. It ended up with them saying no. In reality they might have time. It works for me at least.

[theariadna]

1. be the initiator (invite, organize and host ur own events) 2:04

2. make your presence knows (ask people questions, be more social, talk to anyone, be confident, don’t believe your insecurities and start conversations.) 4:46

3. eliminate weirdness 7:33

[benfisher]

This is a introvert space. Come here to hang out. since we don’t have friends, let’s hang out together

[santiagoosorio]

I loved this. I really need to get more friends since I barely keep in touch with my old ones

[lstewo]

This made me cry that I had to look this up for my friends to talk to me

[uhsgafdhysgf]

Man, I used to be antisocial and have really bad confidence and I'm finally starting to change. I'm just having this big feeling of missing out and not living my life to the fullest. It's just hard when I don't have the same things as other people and cant do the things they do.

[keirasanner]

i used to invite my friends to a lot of things and they’d always say no. So i stopped.

[squirrelsupmycrack]

I'm an extrovert and have lots of friends, but I somehow never get invited to parties and it makes me sad. I want to have one of those cool and funny stories of someone doing something dumb or at least just be invited to go to someone's house and have a good time. I've known them since elementary, but I've never been to their houses before. Honestly I just want someone to ask "Hey, do you want to do so and so?" :-(

[shailvibang]

The thing with my group is that around 2 years back when I was involved in academics, they used to ask me and I always said no because of studies. And now they don’t bother to invite me and even don’t response to the plans I make

[kimransingh]

I relate so much to this. I've always grown up with just 1 or 2 friends. I always wanted to be invited to group gatherings but never was. I became bitter and wondered why no one wanted to invite me. But I realised that I never talked to them, I never put myself out there. Now I view making friends like diving into water. I can't be slow and just dip my foot in because I'll probably talk myself out of it. Instead, I have to dive in head first and just go with it.😊

[anita]

Hey Aziz I hear your podcast And because of your advices I enjoyed a chrismas party I Even danced!!! For the first time in my life.

[ReillyStCroix-whgx]

My friends don’t really like to do stuff but their kinda the only friends I have and I don’t really know how to make new friends to do stuff with

[sophiaschiener]

I currently struggle a lot at finding a friendgroup with which I can hang out with or party at weekends because I don’t want to invite myself.

[justmeandmydogs]

I've definitely done the hover thing and when that fails, I escape to my office. I love your videos!

[blackqweenmars]

This dude really spoke to me and confronted my fears part of the reason why I have nothing to do on the weekend is because I’m too afraid of rejection I’m to afraid to hear no. Do you know what I’m going to listen to you I’m not going to be afraid of what people say i’m going to get out of my comfort zone

[naseemanadir]

Hey Dr. Aziz I read your book "social anxiety" I really liked that and learned a lot thanks 😊

[blackham]

Dr Aziz how do you stop feeling insecure about your looks and appearance ?

[magu]

It’s the first video I watch from you and I LOVE how you express yourself. You make it feel really comfortable, thank you so much! New follower 😍