He didn't love me...| Oc Animatic #oc #art #angst

True friends let you vent about your shitty ex and don't point out how forced your smile is 😎👌

Dallas has been through a lot, but in the end, he got out 🖤

Everyone say "thank you Yariel for being a real one" 😭👏

[lorilynne]

"I got out, " but you never get out unscathed. Please remember that before you are a couple, you are an individual. Do not allow yourself to tolerate mistreatment.

[KingBear]

My mom passed, about a year ago. Ive called my dad a sociopath for years. Told my mom that he didnt love her but he gaslight her so much that she couldnt live without him. 'He was the only person who loved her, ' her words, never. Ever, EVER, mine.

The day before her funeral, my dad turned to me and said, you know... i think youre right. Im a sociopath. I didnt love your mother. She gave me what i needed and i didnt care. Im not crying because she was everything to me; im crying because im alone and i have no one to do things for me anymore.

Dont be my mom; if youre in an abusive, verbal, mental, physical relationship or they dont love you. Leave. Please. It seems hopeless but its not. My mom had 4 kids, 2 in laws, and 2 grandkids who loved her. But she was so tunnel visioned; she couldnt see that. She thought his love was more important, that it was all she had.

Mama Ru says: If you cant love yourself. How in the heck you gonna love someone else? Can i get a Amen up in here?!

[thehistoryandbooknerd]

This is a powerful, sad, true thing for so many.. thank you for posting this

[stylerxo]

The other guy wrapping his arm around his shoulder. Such a small detail that expresses so much.

[voidmxne_]

This hit too close to home. Had an ex that used me for bad reasons too. Took me forever to realize even after we broke up that he was using me.

[JJopenheimer]

DUDE TOUR ACTUALLY UNDERRATED AS HELL HOLY

[tiawolf]

I had this exact conversation with my boyfriend

I love that I can talk to him... even about other people from my past - he'll listen and hold me for however long I need - he understands and knows he doesnt need to say anything

He truly loves me - he raised the bar for ALL my relationships - not just romantically but with family and friends too

Dating him REALLY drove in that last screw I needed to start thinking "I dont deserve this" in some many aspects of my life

It hits different to have a person who's there 😂 friend or partner - just SOMEONE and finding them takes a long time - but its so worth waiting for

[jossyroldan]

It's hard sometimes to accept that you were being used for bad reasons. Knowing that what you had was now gone forever for a person who wasn't worth it...

Edit: It won't always be there. I promise. You will heal, and it will become a scar, but just remember there are people who love you even if it's not what you want. The day will come when you find the right one who loves you for you.

Edit: There will be points in life where everything seems so dark and empty, but there will be a light, whether it's a person, animal, or anything that makes you feel a alive again or just happy. Never give up on happiness.

[teracoleyent]

fun fact: Every seven years, all the cells in your body are replaced by new ones. So, one day, you will have a body that *they* haven't touched.

Edit: I just discovered that your skin basically is replaced every four months! No more waiting for 7 years!! 🎉🙌

[Strawebbie]

Finding out that’s all someone valued you for hurts so bad. It’s dehumanizing. It’s disappointing, expecting love, them knowing that, and using it against you.

[ruri]

Realizing someone doesn't share your feelings, be it romantic or platonic, is a hard thing to go through. Realizing you don't mean to them a fraction of what they mean to you hurts so damn bad. And moving on from that is so much worse, since leaving a powerful feeling lile that behind feels like leaving a part of yourself behind. But getting out is the best thing you can do for yourself.

[malayka]

I just found this channel and I binge-watched all your shorts. Your art style is beautiful and I see your growth. Knowing this OC as the "tough guy" and then seeing _this_ broke my heart 😭 You're very talented!

[coolsaige]

unrelated, but the audio is from The Prom. it’s a stage musical turned Netflix film (the movie is accurate and where the audio is from exactly). Such an underrated musical, definitely recommend.

[SillyGamer]

It hurts more then anything for that to happen being used without even having your heart considered and they pretend its normal or like you dont exist

[thatguyblu]

Felt this, was strung along in a one sided relationship for 4 years. When i was in high school, so that stuff makes an impression.

[sullyoon__iscute.]

this is so sad :(( i am proud of anyone who got out!

[raelasagna]

Man… I just saw this video after crying over my boyfriend who I just realized might be using me this exact way without realizing. Thanks for this. After watching it on repeat it actually helped me decide that I am going breakup with him. <3

[bhwaaaHannah]

Why am I still sad over someone like this. It's been over half a year and I still think about him daily, not in a romantic way but it just intrusively pops into my mind. I try to be mindful and patient about it when I catch my brain going through that loop again, but the emotions I feel are so intense. I know it wasn't good for me and I'm proud I stepped away. I will never 100% know if he just played with me or respected and cared for me, but i felt so much for him. So much.

I try not to hate myself for it because it truly feels like something out of my control, but I figured it would have died down by now. I have an amazing bf who I feel is the best person I have ever known and I feel seen and loved by him and he makes me so happy. And at the same time there that old hurt keeps popping up and it scares me that I felt so much for someone who has probably forgotten me already, while I feel little attraction towards my awesome bf. I feel so lost in this, I hope the universe can guide me a little. But reading other comments and experiences has helped a little as well, thank you :)

[Faerytech]

Hits hard. For years I would be insecure asking him if he even liked me because it seemed all he liked about me was sex. After all those years, the first time I put boundaries up around sex "I won't have sex until I feel like it, and don't pester me about it." And immediately he dumped me and tried to tell me it was unrelated, even while making it clear that he still was going to try and talk me into having sex with him as much as possible.

[IvoryArts]

I remember my ex mistreated me so bad, I ended up calling a hotline a few times. One person said that I can still love someone and still leave them (for my own safety and wellbeing.) sometime love isn’t enough! I learned over the years that being completely alone isn’t the worst thing in the world, it’s being with the wrong person and keep hoping they will change….