Namjoon's Thoughts About Marriage | Encyclopedia of Useless Facts on Unbelievable Human Beings | Viu

[tallysworld]

So nice to see a man who is single, sitting with others who are married on a table and talking about marriage. His point of not getting married is a good choice, nowadays do people come and go and if you felt in love with someone and you thought the person loves you back, turn often into they don't love you as much as you loved them. Or if you have friends you liked and they go forever out of your life, it hurts as well

[BELIEVER]

As a 90s born person I so relate with Namjoon, I know as a woman marriage and kids are expected of me in this society but these things never appealed to me, the thought of being trapped in a marriage scares me to death, I rather stay single forever and focus on my job and family and my life goals than getting married🤷‍♀️

[patriciacrowley]

Why can't I find a boyfriend like Namjoon, he'd be the best boyfriend and husband for sure. He's very talented and awesome human being and he's very humble and genuine too. He doesn't want to be seen as artist but as another common person of society and that's one of the things I find more appealing about him. I really love everything about him already, he is very unique and special in every way and at everything he does.

[Anny-meny]

I’m happy that namjoon doesn’t feel the need to lead a traditional life. I think he is wise beyond his years

[hohoho]

honest and intelligible - Namjoon

He has blended himself into this professors like group and he matched so well ... thats impressive for an idol ... jezzzz

[yokshiichicago]

There isn't anything wrong in staying single in your life its your choice

[MM-etjr]

Namjoon is such a delight. Also appreciate to hear what he has to say.

[a_k_u_]

I can relate to everything that Namjoon said, I am scared of marriage, relationships etc 😅

[mizmlyn]

When i met the man i eventually married, i was astounded by the lack of posturing both of us experienced. I didn't feel i had to walk on eggshells to please him. We talked about our histories without judgment. We accepted each other's "idiosyncracies" with humor or negotiation. We wamted to make the marriage work. We gave permission for loving criticism. We didn't expect perfection, particularly in a dog-eat-dog environment of cruel capitalism and age-ist society. But we were happy until he passed prematurely.

[shockofthenew]

I very much relate to Namjoon in this. I'm not interested in marriage, and I'm well past the age when it would be normal to think about it. I like the idea of having really close important friends moreso than romance. Maybe with one or more of them I would find a different kind of love over time, and naturally form something like a 'life partnership', or maybe not... but I don't see it as a goal to marry and have a traditional life. I have too many other dreams and interests, and I'm happy by myself. I need far too much personal space to enjoy a traditional marriage!

[Edit:] I'm glad this made sense to some people! Just to expand on my thoughts a bit, I don't think there's anything wrong with romance or marriage for people who want it. I know some people who have always longed for a partner, and I know some couples who are genuinely happy together. But... we're not all the same right? We don't all need to walk on the same path. I just want to take my own route and have an open mind with no particular expectations.

Maybe someday someone will appear who inspires me to change my mind, but I'm not really wishing for that. I've seen various friends find partners and I haven't felt envious of them even if they seemed happy. I just don't feel driven to find one person to fulfil all my needs and permanently join as a 2-in-1 unit. I would prefer to have a variety of different kinds of connection with people, be part of a community, and organically develop a few close friendships which become something like 'family' over time. That would be my ideal. And for myself I just want to focus on doing interesting things and hopefully making a positive impact on the world, rather than structuring my life according to some set plan!

[Hijibijiiiii]

Rm is coming with his new album " right place, wrong person" on may

[nafeesaislam]

It is because some people don't understand what a relationship is about and what it means. They are just after superficial and a fairy tale. A relationship takes two people to work together and understand each other and to be there for one another and their family and friends. It honestly isn't that hard. Look for a good soul - a person with good principals that they follow and are willing to grow as time goes on.
Mr Namjoon, you will be fine when you find a person whose principals align with yours. You will just know that this person is the one. So don't stress. 😊

[CoolDudete-dozt]

Obviously marrying the right person is key . Like a twin flames someone on spiritual level I believe can make a wonderful marriage

[BTSNepalifanArmy]

It's a good thing about Namjoon, because he understands what life is all about

[lisabelw]

That's why friendship within love & marriage is so important. Marry your best friend. Someone who makes you smile, laugh and most importantly feel safe. Love might fade over the years but the friendship will last.

[dawnkrueger]

I genuinely believe that Namjoon will find that other half. SHE WILL BE THAT by herself. Perfect, sweet, honest and good.

[malefuelizabethramatelile]

I am a 90s woman and I used to feel exactly like Namjoon but God had other plans for me, I have been married for 3 years now with 2 kids and I must say, this is the happiest I have ever been. Marriage TO ME came with such freedom and responsibilities that helped me really articulate who I am and my purpose in life. I'm happy and content and it has made me feel like I should have done it a long time ago, maybe certain things in my life that I had never prioritized would have been a success. But overall I'm happy in this street of marriage and I believe it's easy to contemplate on marriage when you haven't found the one and are still working on your self.

[gerricamus]

When he meets the right person, everything will become clearer to him. He's spent the last 10 years working insane schedules and now he's got to serve in the military for almost 2 years. Kpop fans also make enormous unrealistic demands on their idols, which is not conducive to developing normal relationships.

[bangbangkoo]

I totally agree with Joon. I’m in that same age range and I don’t know if I wanna get married.

[tseriesofficial]

Namjoonie words of wisdom, don't wanna marry but don't know why😂