My Honest Advice For Those Who Feel Lost & Confused

Nobody is coming to save you. Not your parents. Not your friends. Not the government. They can give you advice and tools, but at the end of the day, it's up to you to change your mind, view your situation from a new perspective, and act regardless of how you feel.

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0:00 Take back control of your life
5:08 Don't tell people your goals (dopamine)
8:09 Create your own goals
11:17 Unfollow everyone
13:18 Play infinite games
16:08 F*ck your feelings

#Mindset #LifestyleDesign #TheArtOfFocus

[adsoscar]

"Most people ask for advice as a procrastination method to hide from the problems that they need to solve themselves". That really hit me. I'll definitely work on that, Dan 👊🏻 Appreciate it.

[KirkStephensCAN]

As a man in his 50's I find myself in awe of your wisdom and insights into the human experience. You provide a lot of value and framework for life. It's appreciated more than you know, Dan.

[tigsik]

I adopted this mindset last year. In the span of a few months i started working out i started to learn to code. I got a second job I started fasting and improve my savings. I even have my wallpaper in my phone saying. No one is going ro save you are are your own back up.

[cledosliop]

I went through this process when I was 27 and decided to change my career path. It was then that I began to understand that if I truly wanted something, I didn't need to persuade others to support me or seek approval. Instead, I learned to go quiet and focus on my plans, then JUST DO IT.

[gundy]

“Remember, the light at the end of the tunnel may be you.”
― Aerosmith

[francisbaranski]

A few years ago, when I was in high school, I wanted to start a rock band.

I was eagerly waiting for the day when my band would come together and I could join. But as time went by, nobody approached me, and eventually, my younger friends formed their own rock band. I was too afraid to ask if I could join them.

This experience taught me a valuable lesson - sometimes you have to take matters into your own hands, whether it's pursuing your passion for music, advancing in your career, or starting a business.

Ultimately, you are 100% responsible for making things happen.
Nobody will do it for you.

[TheFeralFarmgirl]

Everybody wants to dissuade me and discourage me because what I want to do is unconventional. So I don't want to tell anyone my goals anyway. Keeping my thoughts to myself is a very lonely road. But I am just chugging along.

[pranjal]

100% true. I learned through heartbreaks and being cheated on by people that "No one's to be trusted. No one's going to save me and I came alone in this life and will die alone."

[Cupjive]

I suffer from "telling people that I'm doing something instead of actually achieving the goal" that was for me.

[CarolynForney]

I’m a 56 year old
Massage Therapist former homeschool mom with a son your age.

You have mentored me into
my own solo practice .

Next step is to move away from this level of client work as it’s only slightly more lucrative than being an employee .

[ying]

nah, better not tell anyone what you're doing, especially close friends and family. idk about most people but in my case, friends don't really like me being "ahead" of them and family just doubts my ability to accomplish the goal unless i can do it in a short time. so nah, i'm on my own here

[themije]

Thank for this🙏 No one is coming to save me is a reminder I needed.

[C]

I am three weeks into retirement and the second week had a crippling arthritis flare. It is maddening. My health coach says it is the stress of retirement. I agree. But I joined a gym, I am downsizing my stuff even if it is just one box a day. I am reading your book in small snippets because that is all I can digest at a time. I truly enjoy your newsletter, insta feed and videos. Thank you!

[xanderpersonal]

The fact that this video popped up right after reading: "Psycho Cybernetics" and "Courage to be Disliked" is the best thing that happened in my life, thank you Dan <3

[destinysambula]

‘‘If you don’t have a goal, that means someone assigned you a goal” Love it 🔥

[nirmalpanna]

To take back the control I bought your MENTAL MONETISATION course. And yes, when someone ask me - 'What you do these days", i answer them that - 'If I'll tell you it won't happen😁'. Can't wait for JUNE 3

[nowisthetime]

“When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things” 1 Corinthians 13:11, (KJV).

[Uncommony]

I love how open, honest and straight to the point you are. Thank you, Dare to be Exceptional, Dare to be Uncommon!

[ishitaswarupp]

Man, your video popped up at such a good time! Like, life was again starting to feel shitty again and i was losing my vision.
But you reminded me, again.
Thank you. But these 2 words can never describe my gratitude so I'll make sure my actions do! ❤❤

[voicevamp]

I had an epiphany yesterday & you just expressed it in its entirety!
I'm seeing how the algorithm works & though it's tedious & slow hoing for me right now, I KNOW I will reach my goal.
Thank you for all the lightbulb moments!