GIRL, GET UP! - How To Create A NEW VERSION Of Yourself In 2024! | Sarah Jakes Roberts

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As women, many of us have lived lives with moments that bring us shame, fill our hearts with pain, bitterness, and resentment. The thing is, you don’t have to stay in that mental space with negative thoughts and beliefs that say you’re not worthy, you have no value, or that you’re unlovable. Sarah Jakes Roberts is a woman of faith that breaks the mold and dares to own her scars, be bold, and walk in the truth of all that she is, from every mistake that she no longer allows to define her. She joins me today to help you flip the toxicity of the life you may be holding onto on its head and redefine what it means to create a meal worth serving from your leftovers.


SHOW NOTES:

Self Worth | Sarah defines her self-worth and share how her flaws add to her value [2:03]
Shame | Ashamed of her truth and deciding what to create with the “leftovers” [4:38]
Leftovers | Sarah exposes the hidden power of creating from what’s left after the struggle [6:30]
Poison | Sarah on purging the insecurities, fear, false confidence, and false positivity [8:06]
Living Divided | Denying part of your truth, avoiding the ruins, and missing your strength [10:14]
Negative Thoughts | How to look at the root of negative thoughts that echo insecurities [12:11]
Relationship Work | Bring value and purpose into the relationship with yourself [17:46]
Marriage | Sarah’s 1st marriage failing was a symptom and that she could do better [20:48]
Walking Away | Sarah on how to leave bad relationships & questions to ask yourself [24:47]
Incubate Hope | Creating an environment for hope to grow and starving your fears [27:16]
Toxic People | Instead of labeling people as toxic, see that we are all broken [28:28]
Being Hostile | Sarah shares how being petty takes energy and takes away from you [30:13]
Betrayal | Understanding what betrayal communicates to you and knowing it’s about you [34:01]
Inner Circle | Sarah on the value of knowing people’s value and intention for you [38:12]
Success | How success is obedience to the urge and nudge to manifest what’s within [45:27]

QUOTES:
“Self-worth is believing in the value that I bring when I come into a room or space.” [2:31]

“I had to really come to this space where I realized I don't feel smart, I don't feel worthy, I don't feel valuable. This is my truth. And as painful as that was to say, it was also liberating, because I took the whisper that was haunting me and taunting me throughout my life and finally gave it a voice.” [5:57]

“I had my own poison that my insecurities were constantly pumping into my veins that fear was constantly pumping into my veins. And I realized that as long as I was poisoned, I could only attract poison.” [8:16]

“fall more in love with you than you do with the potential outcome that you're achieving or looking to achieve.” [10:47]

“I realized that just because a thought comes my way doesn't mean I have to accept it. To accept the thought is to say, I'm going to allow this to now become a part of my truth.” [15:06]

“We're not qualified to be in a relationship until we realize what I need a person in my life for” [18:08]

“at the end of the day, it's love that leads us out of places of fear.” [25:03]

When we know that I am betraying myself to be in relationship with someone, then I have to ask myself, what am I receiving to them that is so valuable, that I am willing to betray myself?” [25:22]

“I spend so much mental real estate thinking about what I want to go wrong with someone that I don't have time to consider what I want to go well with my own spirit and soul.” [31:09]

“Not every person in your family can feed you. Not every person in your family can help you promote growth, and to create an environment for you to incubate hope. Some people are blowing your candle out while you're trying to get the flame going.” [38:23]

“The truth is, I'm afraid, but I'm going to dare to believe anyway. The truth is, I'm not qualified, but I'm gonna dare to go after it anyway.” [41:41]

More About Sarah: In 2017, Sarah launched Woman Evolve a ministry that focuses on incubating every woman to her fullness. Since its conception Woman Evolve has been successful at reaching and guiding thousands of women to awaken healing, wholeness, and love for themselves and others.

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[LisaBilyeu]

What did you think of this inspiring guest??

[nicoleonfeels]

Never betray yourself for an external relationship. The longest relationship you will ever have is with yourself, treat it well.

[sononi]

"Some people are trying to blow out your candle while you're still trying to get the flame going"
Wow...that one hit for me!

[kylondaglaze]

A long as I am poison, I will attract poison. I needed this interview. Transformation is about authenticity and its hard to authentic when you've been holding and hiding it in for so long. This journey of purging the poison is hard, painful and full of tears but it has to be done. At 32, I am finally getting it done. - Church Girl in Recovery.

[siyandankundla-mgudlwa]

A Toxic person doesn't mean they are evil, they just need healing. WoW moment 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👌🏽

[brittanyb]

I called myself a single mom but then one day stopped saying this because although I might be raising my son without his father being present, I am a mom and I needed to stop bringing that negative connotation to it.

[dceoofficial]

For me, it was " I deserve better, I deserve the best, there's nothing wrong with me"

[Nokuthaba_M]

“I can do better than this”..that was the conviction of the Holy Spirit

[allofdestiny]

Success is Obedience. That’s powerful. Doing the inner work can get you so far in life. Sarah’s story is so beautiful and inspiring. It’s never about what they did it’s about how you respond to it to take care of yourself first. 💕

[procbarkley]

effective financial management made me rich and it is all you need if you want to build a strong financial future tomorrow. I started with 1000USD, 3 years ago I invested in a diversified stock market and fast forward to now I am worth and am currently finishing my 8 unit apartments. I'm only 35 years old. Diversified stock investments have always proven to be very profitable, especially with the help of experts.

[vius]

"The truth is I'm afraid, but I'm going to dare to believe anyway... The truth is I'm not qualified, but I'm gonna dare to go after anyway". Thank you for this <3

[YEIDIN]

I almost didn’t click on this video. So glad I did. This was an amazing video. Loved all of it.

[briannajackson]

“A toxic person doesn’t mean they’re evil. It just means they need healing.” Wow 👏👏👏 that is deep!

[nyamedosunshine]

Bruised heels still crush serpents' head

[LMBL]

Well I’m a man and your words touched my heart and I cried because your story inspired me to continue to be the good man I know I am in the darkest moments of my life path right now. Thank you so much for your story and beautiful advice. 💜🦋

[kimayaknight]

Hi Thanks for sharing this great tips that was extremely helpful. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗

[karenjones]

" Scars added to my value." Powerful ♥️

[angellarobinson]

I AM A MASTERPIECE AND A WORK-IN-PROGRESS AT THE SAME TIME. WORTHY WITH ALL MY SCARS.

[eccencevance]

Sarah Jakes is a phenomenal women. I loved this interview many hidden gems!

[Katice]

I betrayed myself and then got betrayed. Now my son is paying the price for my mistake. Most days it’s hard for me to get out of bed. I’m highly educated but I’m not where I want to be financially. This interview was so helpful. I have to face my poison.