SHOULD HUSBANDS COOK & CLEAN? - EP 5 || BITTER TRUTH SHOW

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[AliDawah]

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[Diamond-Essence]

I used to sound like these guys when I was a little boy before i was married with children. Before I've seen my wife breast feed 3 babies, seen cesareans, plus cooks, cleans, teaches my babies and gives her body to me. Sometimes we are truly selfish and disgusting and I'm truly ashamed of who I used to be. Me building my business and making money is nothing compared to what she does.

[Mohamed-ucmb]

Married 5+ years with three kids, I think I am entitled to have opinions. My wife is main cook. However, when I am off from work I do house work and cook and look after the kids when she goes to university. It’s all about corporation and understanding and communicating. She makes my life easier and I try to make her life easier. There is no competition rather corporation. Don’t listen to outside noises rather solve your problems and make each other life easier. I love my wife. Stop this fake red bill and feminist ideology and treat with each other with respect and kindness and selflessness because the end of the day it’s about the kids.

[btsarmy]

It’s not unreasonable to help your wife with house chores. It’s kindness and there’s reward in it🙏🏾

[aliajed]

Hamdulah my husband is not like YOU guys ! I had 2 complicated pregnancies, cesarean section, postpartum, 2 tornado children, 2 years of breastfeeding, 2 years of lack of sleep. Fortunately my husband was there for the household chores, he does it himself when he sees that I am overwhelmed, I cook, but sometimes a pizza in the oven will be enough. so it has to be fluid and natural and don’t dare ask for help. We are not superhumans. later when the children are at school it’s easier to organize.

[adamgazi]

I'm not married but there is nothing wrong with a man helping his wife to cook, clean, look after kids. Helping her is part of the relationship, this is love.

[zakielmi]

Instead of viewing your relationship with your wife as a boss-employee dynamic based solely on a contractual agreement, it's better to consider yourselves as a team, with a strong sense of empathy towards each other.

[johnnyjoestar]

I grew up in a traditional household but I still saw my dad cook, clean, iron clothes, paint the house etc… not all the time but especially if my mother was doing a lot. Having a wife doesn’t equal becoming disabled and not being able to do basic life skills.
We also had a timetable of chores both girls and boys had to help out. He literally told us that he doesn’t like how our culture only makes mothers and girls contribute to the house, my brothers have hands too

[noorahr]

This is exactly why we need to take our knowledge from scholars! La hawla wala quwwata illah billah. It's scary how confidently some people espouse such ignorance. May Allah subhanahu wa taala guide us all, ameen.

[imme]

This is so sad treating marriage like a business, value here, value there. When you love each other you’ll do what it take to make the other happy and find compromise instead of fighting and forcing each other!

I am not married yet, but I will not be against doing the houseworks as much as I can, even if I am working, and it will be really nice to see my husband imply himself in them too.

[haml]

Aisha, the wife of the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), was asked, “What did the Prophet (ﷺ) use to do in his house?” She replied, “He used to keep himself busy serving his family (كَانَ يَكُونُ فِي مِهْنَةِ أَهْلِهِ) and when it was the time for prayer he would go for it.” (Bukhari)

The word used in the hadith is mihnah (مِهْنَة), which is translated as ‘busy serving’ here, also means in the Arabic language ‘work’, ‘job’, ‘profession’, etc. This implies helping your wife in the house is a full time job as well. Whether it’s helping wash the dishes, cooking, cleaning, raising the kids, etc., is all part and parcel of being the ‘man’ of the house. The notion that it is somehow degrading for men to help and work with the wife around the house is foreign to Islam.

In another report Aisha is reported to have said, “He did what one of you would do in his house. He mended sandals and patched garments and sewed.” (Adab Al-Mufrad graded sahih by Al-Albani)

In yet another report it is said that she said, “He milked his goat.” (Ahmad)

Hence, he did not find such things too ‘womanish’ for him to do. It is no wonder that he said, “The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives.” (Tirmidhi; Ibn Majah)

[jalilkhan]

As a muslim man, I'm ashamed of what they are stating here. My mom raised me such that she never let me cook, I never ever polished my shoes till I started going to college. We are three brothers and have no sisters. We were good at school so she made sure that we don't get distracted. Then I went out for higher education and had to leave my city. I was alone then because my mom wasn't there for me and I learnt many things on my own. From youtube etc sometimes asking my mom why some things I made were not tasting good. Even now when I go back to my city my mom does everything for me. I have a huge respect for my mom and all the women out there. Especially, our Muslim women take so much care of us. Nikah is like getting into one team as our great teacher Prophet (S.A.W) showed us and set a good example for us. There are no hard boundaries in team. Everyone has each other's back whenever its needed. I don't see anything wrong in helping your partner.

[klee-skbr]

As a single woman this video makes me cry, I'm already traumatize all my life serving the man in the house including my dad, brothers and uncles, to the point they could never know how to do the dishes. And when all of these man failed at work all the burden of providing for the house all end up to the woman, and I feel terified by these notion that a woman value is being a maid in the house with no voice what so ever 😢

[amirabendjemaa]

People seem to underestimate how hard it is to watch after children especially those with special needs. A regular job seems like a holiday next to it let’s be honest.

[lunadee]

In all my life I have never felt so ashamed and embarrassed of Muslim men like this video has made me feel.

[briannaalbrecht]

Watching this made me internally rage. I do not think I could ever get married because I have next to no respect for men at all anymore. They actually disgust me as a woman and I think I might be single forever because of it. I can work and provide for myself and maintain a house on my own without waiting on anyone. I am so tired of toxic masculinity and catering to men's ego's and pride that I want nothing to do with them.

[Jasminek]

Guys trust me i swear, helping your Wife, Sister or your mother in the kitchen or anything, dont be ashamed to help them, just asking if they need help or trying to help them, makes them Respect you even more, Help your wife, Sister or mother guys there is nothing to be ashamed of.

[surraya]

I felt really sad watching this video, because our Muslim men have come to the point of making going to work such a big thing. All I heard was "if I go to work...blah blah blah". When I was growing up, men of my father's generation went to work and didn't make a big issue about it. I never once heard them say "i go to work" because they knew that's what they did as men, provide for their families. And they worked very very hard! What has society come to? So sad!

[alaweeezy]

This video is so damaging to the Muslim community. As a Muslim, I am so embarrassed that non-Muslims now have a peak into this lowly and degenerate problem that we have: men who are unable to look at their wives as human beings who deserve compassion and empathy. Here we are, calling our wives as “maids”, inviting a man who has restraining orders from his ex-wives and children due to abuse to give advice about marriage. And we wonder why people say Islam oppresses women. You heard it here from their own mouth. Wal iyathoobillah

[LovesofJBNeet]

This is extremely heartbreaking 💔 why is it so hard for the man to help the woman out? It baffles me. We both work...I work 50 hours a week, cook, clean and handle all duties while he sits around doing no household chores. I'm exhausted and he still doesn't care when I shut down. I'm completely unattracted to him because of his laziness