WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER TELL A MAN WHAT YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH

Have you ever opened up about your past relationships to a man, only for them to use it against you or do you the same way your ex did you? Here's a breakdown on why that happens, how to prevent it and what to do if this is happening in the relationship.
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[ladyl]

My dad always told me the more you keep your mouth close about yourself then the less he knows about you stopped telling your business to every new guy you are talking to in a relationship because most of them will turn around and do the exact same thing your exes did

[thinkpink]

Even if you have to lie. Tell them you’ve only been treated well by men and never been done dirty and treated with respect

[daejtwist]

Yes! I learned an extremely hard lesson doing this! Men will treat you according on what you've allowed in your past!

[aliciawoods]

Women need to know that the man that they are dating is not a therapist... even some of your friends. People will judge you and see you differently, that’s how humans are. It takes a special person not to judge you and treat you differently because of what you’ve gone through.

[yellowfeline]

I use the same repeat lines, *We aren't together because what I wanted in a partner changed. We weren't compatible in the long run so we parted ways peacefully.*

[Justteejayy]

I made this mistake after my ex literally spilled his guts to me on our second date. In the end we both used the others past to hurt them. Not healthy at all. Even in a marriage, a women’s past doesn’t need to be 100% exposed.

[thinkpink]

MEN VALUE WHAT THEY THINK OTHER MEN VALUE SO IF YOU SHOW THEM THAT YOU WERENT VALUED IN THE PAST THEY WILL NEVER VALUE AND RESPECT YOU. Stop being so overly honest with these men and learn to shut up . They don’t have to know EVERYTHING. They don’t tell us everything. Only tell them what will BENEFIT you.

[CinemaDoll]

They'll come to you with "I'm not like the rest, baby. I won't hurt you like that." Boom, guard's down. I'm learning on not even letting my close guy friend know what happened to me in past relationships and with current romantic interests.

[positivelybev]

"A woman's heart is a deep ocean of secrets." - Gloria Stuart

[deandreasmith]

Atp even with male friends I’m guarded. A lot of guys even “friends” will see you as vulnerable after a break up and try to play on your emotions to get what they REALLY want.

[ylarrymore]

I feel the same applies to new friends too.

[elizabethrodriguez]

You hit the nail right on the head!! The man I was dealing with did that and would talk down to me!! He definitely is a NARCISSIST!!

[jordynmartin]

A couple of days ago, I just realized how manipulative a guy I was talking to is. And then I watched this video and it’s just crazy how God works. I wish I saw this video sooner but Gods timing is always perfect. Thank you so much sis for always helping us out 🙏🏽

[kathleen]

OMG!!! Ladies please listen to this! Wow I did this as the beginning of my current relationship and shared WAY too much. And yes he used it against me over and over again in our arguments. Never have I ever heard this explained to me. I had to live through it and I REGRET telling him all of that!

[britshanesmom]

My grandmom Always said a man will be quick to use things against you.

[wykitawest]

I agree with you 100% My mom always told me never tell a man your business. Keep it to yourself.

[tammerry]

I think that we open up to these men childs because we want them to heal us but its better to heal yourself from your past trauma before getting into a relationship.

[stopaskingme]

I literally thought I was the only one that was experiencing my past being used against me. As soon as I get comfortable with someone, I open my big mouth, and next you know statements like "You're F**ked up just like you sister" or similar ones relating to things I've shared are being thrown at me. It breaks my heart.

[ScorpQueen]

I learned this lesson much later than I’d like to.. but since then, never again👌🏾

[Rere_x]

Wish I knew this before I met my ex but now I know better. Thank you for sharing this❤️