(JLO inspired) 'She can't keep a man' gaslighting of women

Hello my wild and free goddesses!

in this video, I break down some frequent comments about Jennifer Lopez and women in general. "She can't keep a man!" many say, and sadly many women judge other women this way. I talk about how how these comments are related to patriarchy, what patriarchy is, how women are being gaslighted with this ridiculous goal of getting and keeping a man, and what we can do to change these narrow-minded beliefs. I hope it will give you food for thought! If you've said or thought this about Jennifer Lopez or any other women, it's time to stop!

There's of course much more to say about this subject! This quick discussion is just scratching the surface. I highly recommend you share this video with as many women as you can, and create your own content on the subject.

TABLE OF CONTENTS / TIME STAMPS:

0:00 Introduction
0:18 An interesting pattern in comments about JLO
0:35 Have you ever heard the same things said about men?
1:04 What is patriarchy? How does this relate to women needing men?
2:16 We're moving away from patriarchy
2:50 Why having a man in your life is not a beneficial goal?
3:02 Romantic relationships are just a side salad, not the main course
3:33 Why keeping a man is a moving target, especially for women
4:04 Women were gaslighted with this goal of getting and keeping a man (different goals for men vs. women)
5:14 We need to stop the double standards and free up women
5:21 Your only job is to self-actualize and what that means for romantic relationships
6:19 A very dangerous consequence of telling women they need to keep a man
6:46 Many women in long-term relationships are very unhappy
7:00 "Keeping a man" means absolutely nothing!
7:32 We should be applauding women who leave dissatisfying relationships
7:41 A woman who prioritizes her own happiness - patriarchy doesn't want this!
8:16 Women are passionate wild creatures
9:09 Get rid of any relationships that's not serving you
9:52 Please stop judging women and telling them they need to find or keep a man
10:13 How men have ben served by society telling women they must keep a man - it's ugly!
10:44 I'm all about female empowerment
11:06 If you've said these things about women, stop!
11:17 Invitation to get coaching with me for those interested

{Songs credit: [intro] "Mind Games' by Stingers; [closing] "She's Got the Power" by Jem}

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[sunkissedlen]

Hello goddesses! I hope you are all having a wonderful day! Let me know what you think of my video. Do you think I'm correct in saying that these kinds of comments about women stem from patriarchy? Has anyone ever said these things about you, or have you perhaps said them about someone else? How has the belief system that you must have a man in your life impacted you? It's surprising how often we think something never impacted us, but the more we think about it, the more we see it all around us. What other ways do you see women being gaslighted? I look forward to reading your comment! xoxo, LEN. \\ PS. Sign up for my complimentary video series on MovieBasedCounseling.com

TABLE OF CONTENTS / TIME STAMPS:

0:00 Introduction
0:18 An interesting pattern in comments about JLO
0:35 Have you ever heard the same things said about men?
1:04 What is patriarchy? How does this relate to women needing men?
2:16 We're moving away from patriarchy
2:50 Why having a man in your life is not a beneficial goal?
3:02 Romantic relationships are just a side salad, not the main course
3:33 Why keeping a man is a moving target, especially for women
4:04 Women were gaslighted with this goal of getting and keeping a man (different goals for men vs. women)
5:14 We need to stop the double standards and free up women
5:21 Your only job is to self-actualize and what that means for romantic relationships
6:19 A very dangerous consequence of telling women they need to keep a man
6:46 Many women in long-term relationships are very unhappy
7:00 "Keeping a man" means absolutely nothing!
7:32 We should be applauding women who leave dissatisfying relationships
7:41 A woman who prioritizes her own happiness - patriarchy doesn't want this!
8:16 Women are passionate wild creatures
9:09 Get rid of any relationships that's not serving you
9:52 Please stop judging women and telling them they need to find or keep a man
10:13 How men have ben served by society telling women they must keep a man - it's ugly!
10:44 I'm all about female empowerment
11:06 If you've said these things about women, stop!
11:17 Invitation to get coaching with me for those interested