im 27 and ive never been in a relationship #vlog

[masonbrw]

I'm 38 and never been in relationship, never even kissed a girl

[BenZen]

There's nothing to worry about. You seem caring and genuine. It will come. I appreciate you being so forthcoming and vulnerable.

[axa]

I was just watching a TikTok of a girl that just got into her very first relationship at 31. There were a bunch of comments of women saying that they also had never been in a relationship. It's not the end all be all and I've learned not to let the fact that "everyone" else is in a relationship bother me. I was surprised learning about the statistics of people who are in relationships only because they don't want to be alone. The goal is to be in a happy, healthy relationship. It'll happen at the right time, when you're ready, open and intentional :)

[MariaKrueger]

Finally more people are talking about this... I'm 29, same story

[ladyintheradiator]

I’m in the exact same boat as you. There really isn’t anything like so badly wanting to be in a relationship and not being able to. I feel you. B’ezrat HaShem, our time will come.

[evangeliatounas]

Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you. I'm 36, and I just found my soulmate. Finding the right one can take a lifetime.

[nitramja]

Just wanted to say that if I met a woman who for whatever the reason hadn't been with somebody their whole life, Id say that I'd found someone with something so special! I'd feel honoured, humbled and so privileged.
When that happens for you, that man will be so lucky and will probably feel special that you saved yourself for him!

[ShaniaFan]

First off. I love your channel. I’m 28 and am still a virgin and have only had one serious relationship with someone who I was not in love with.
I too, felt influenced by my religion at a young age to remain pure until marriage. I was raised Catholic and subscribed to the belief that if I was pure and was a good follower of my religion who attended worship services and did “everything right” that God would reward me with a soulmate. And honestly that is all just a fallacy of organized religion.
I too, have been on a million dates with guys who were great but I felt no solid connection with. I feel your pain.
The sad part is, there really is nothing wrong with us yet the expectations of society make us feel like there is, like we are inferior or strange when in reality we should be praised for not simply settling for convenience and convention over true, honest love and connection.
I wish that instead of being shamed, society could look to women like us as examples. For we are the ones who truly know what we are worthy of and won’t settle until we find it, no matter how much society or our religions might expect us to.
But I understand how hard it is to live in a society that doesn’t. Sending you love and positive thoughts❤

[a.a.s.]

Keep living your life to the fullest. Live the life you’ve always pictured for yourself and you’ll eventually run into someone who’s on your same path, who shares your interests and likes the same things as you. Sending positive vibes ❤

[jhcjamstar]

There's more people than you think who are single in their 20s and 30s they just don't go about broadcasting it.

[G_Keepingitreal]

I'm 30 and I've never been in a relationship. no one had ever shown any form of affection to me. i am extremely lonely. no family, dead mother, no friends. i didn't know that i was such a bad person. and makes me believe that something is wrong with me. but i must keep it together because i am a man and I'm not expected to be weak.

[dreamy_clouds_]

I am also Jewish and I have never dated a guy. I recently turned 24 and was feeling lonely but this video made me feel less alone.

[abigailb]

you're so strong for saying that, I feel like so many people go through this but nobody has the courage to actually say it so props to you

[Thisplanetissad]

I'm about to be 38. I have CPTSD. It makes relationships very difficult. I've had my heart ripped out in every relationship I've ever been in. Narcissistic people tend to gravitate towards the wounded. Take time to heal before getting into a relationship. It'll make things much easier in the long run.

[slavicpower]

You are not missing out on anything girl. Live your best life and find yourself a quality man!

[jujubilee]

you deserve someone as wonderful as you 🖤

[Reporterreporter]

Sweetest authentic self, may we hear good news soon

[TheAverageJoe]

You are not alone by the way. I just turned 27 a few months ago and lost my virginity at 26 earlier this year. Had 2 sexual partners since then but still no girlfriend my entire life. My reasons were family obligations growing up, poor socialization and video game and weed addiction. I was comfortable being asocial and it was making me into a hermit who would just work and cope with depression with weed and video games. Thankfully I made lots of changes, I am being more social and I am addicted to the gym now instead of video games (lost 50 pounds) so my body is looking athletic and fit. You aren’t alone out there, us late bloomers are fairly common. Now I just gotta get my mind right and forgive myself for all the time I wasted in my adult life thus far.

[krisp]

TAKE YOUR TIME there is no rush. U can’t miss out on something that is meant for u. Ur person will come love

[michaelfairwinds]

It’s hard out there, and I can’t imagine how bad these dates have been — that’s really a bummer. I know 27 feels old, especially in the yeshivsh world, but take it from me, at 42, you have plenty of time, even if it doesn’t seem like it. I think your vulnerability in this video speaks well to your character, and I am confident you will meet someone who makes you happy. Sending you good wishes and a Shabbat shalom from Israel!