I Can't Accept That He Wants a Second Wife #HUDATV

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[beany]

Girls nowdays will just leave u if u get married to a second as they can now provide for themselves. And the guys that want to marry more than one usually do not live in the way of the sunnah and do it purely out of lust.

[louphoenix]

I converted to Islam 27 years ago, and after 23 years of marriage my husband was unfaithful to me for several years, and did not end the affair until I found out about it. He, now has another women back home which I didn’t know about until a few weeks ago, and now wants to marry her and is asking for my consent. I’m deeply hurt and just want a divorce. I’m self sufficient and I would rather be alone than to share my husband with other woman. He for sure would have left me if I had been the unfaithful one.

[rodam]

As a Muslim woman, I do not object to Allah rule and conditions.

Not wanting my husband to have a second wife is only because I want him to myself. I want to be the one he comes home to and he runs to and feels a sense of security and belonging too.

May lord is the all knowing and most merciful

[glitterglamerous]

In other words, WOMEN..please study hard..work, ..make your own income and do NOT rely on men. It's amazing how men use the excuse of religion to have more women to sleep with when he could've been faithful to one..just because something is halal doesnt mean u HAVE to do it..There are weekly fasting, sunnah prayers, sunnah duaas, sunah practices..do men to them? NO. They cherry pick a sunnah that makes them feel good and use that as a holy pillar. To my dear women, before marrying someone, make them write a prenup that u do not accept a second wife. If he does it anyways, then LEAVE. Don't cry over someone who cannot love you.Remember that a man who cannot be fair mentally and financially (and take advantage of women ) will go TO HELL. Islam values women and your justice WILL BE GIVEN TO U ..

[spacecoffee]

She can add the condition on her nikah contract about her husband taking permission in order to marry again. Even Fatima rz did not let Ali rz marry another woman during her lifetime. Prophet sw said "Fatima is a part of me. Whoever hurts her hurts me".

[ramsistube]

WALLAHI, it's so unfair that we have to feel the pain of seeing our husband in someone else's arms. Falling for someone else while we are still here. Even if they treat us equally (which they don't btw) it's so unfair to see him with another woman. If he want to help out the other widow, he can make a charity. He can help her in different ways. But I can't change Allah's rules. He knows better

[manalmorsi]

Ladies it is very simple..if you have no problem then stay...if you don't want to wait your turn to spend time with your husband then please leave..yes leave.. most women can now provide for themselves. Please dont stay and be unhappy and resentful . Let him practice this halal lifestyle and you can move on.

[TheBlackHijabi]

I'm sorry but this wasn't very comforting.

[mariibabyy]

and now i don’t want to get married. problem solved 💕

[asmaaziz]

These people will never say anything which can hinder a man from having many wives.Even Allah warned men to marry only one if they cant fulfil the conditions which in theory seem easy but in reality are quite hard, but these people will not warn or discourage a man in any manner.

[ramsistube]

Honestly, not only getting a second wife, but him asking for it is just hurting so much. How does he feel like to share his wife? That's exactly how we feel. I feel bad for the sister wallahi. I'm not telling her to do this but I would divorce him straight away, the second his asked for a second wife. If I'm not enough, then why marry me in the first place.

[omarkhan]

A wise Man said " If you dont love peace and tranquility and a sense of calmness then get a second wife"

[kamrulislam-zzvu]

I see a lot of negative comments from my fellow muslim sisters which is against the sunnah of our beloved Nabi saw

[adammohamed..]

She asked for comfort and not a lecture about the weaknesses of men. What a insensitive man.

[jeonnadia]

nah it's instant divorce. better alone than disrespected like that

[nor]

A women cannot stop him from marrying another but she has the right to divorce. If you cannot except it then leave. Personally i would. And women plz dont feel obligated to stay just bcz its halal doesnt mean u have to accept it. And men while its halal think about the pros and cons and if you are able to fufill ur duty. Allah warned you to stick to one bcz he knows most cannot fufill their duty and this may lead u down a path of sins. Allah Knows best and may he bless us with the best.

[N.haya_]

There are more hadiths, i'd like to hear more of them. Also, its not right to be negligent of the first wife's feelings and opress her. Multiple marriages should be something discussed before marriage. Not all women would agree to marry a man under that condition.

[ang]

Where is the comfort in saying "hey, others cheat too, but this cheating is legal so that's good" it still breaks a heart that was supposed to be protected by the husband!

[Jojo]

He basically told her that shes lacking and her husband can cheat in a halal way. How is thay comforting? This is why we need female scholars and speakers. Men cant seem to empathise

[TheeHusseins]

Why is it that women have to accept a man for his flaws but if we lack anything a man can go and marry a second wife to fulfill what it is his wife lacks! that’s not fair and times have changed . What if your husband is infertile and we ( women ) want kids why can’t we leave him and marry another man just like a man does to us. And in this generation that we live in today women have rights and can provide for themselves without a man.