I told my mom..#shorts

[mrstargate]

I always appreciated that when my mom dated she made it very clear that they were not my father and I had no more power than a babysitter.

[ro-hoe]

I hate how people are so entitled that they think just because you are with a parent that that automatically means they are the boss of the kids, even if you marry that parent you aren't in charge of the kid unless the child wants that or if they are too young to be able to make that decision (under 8) especially if the other parent is still in the picture

[michellealjunaidi]

She needs to get her father involved. Also her mom's boyfriend over stepped going into her daughter's bedroom what if she had been changing her clothes.

[Vex-Pegasus]

My stepdad asked ME to take my mom out on a date. Then later asked me himself again to ask if it was okay to marry her. This was 6 1/2 years ago and he adopted me on my graduation day from highschool. Yea he had ups and downs but he is the best dad I could ever ask for. Yea he struggles with learning how to parent and even we have our disagreements but he is always the person I go too if I need help and he is so patient with me and he knows I struggle a lot with learning and understanding things. He truly is the best dad.

Honestly if anyone is gonna be in a relationship with someone with kids- make sure the kids are okay with you being with their parent first. And if they say they don’t want you to be a parent but is fine with you dating their parent then respect their boundaries. If they say no then talk it out with the parent on what to do in that situation.

If you try to force yourself onto the kids of the person you are trying to date, that will cause so many problems, and will not end well in the future. And parents of kids who want a partner…please respect your kids boundaries and talk it out with them. Don’t brush them off cuz this would be a life changer for them too. If you brush off their concerns that will lead to more resentment in the future because you make it clear that you don’t respect their boundaries or concerns as a person but also as your own child. Please talk to them and have an honest conversation and discussions and take their concerns to heart.

[otakelblanchemanor]

Not sure how involved her dad is in her life but if her mom won't step up and tell boyfriend to stop, she needs to talk with her dad and see if they both can 'discuss' this matter with boyfriend and mom.
Mom is putting daughter in difficult situation. 6 months is not a longtime and as a divorced woman who raised 2 children, I would have stepped in and shut it down in a heartbeat if this had arisen.

[crazycrystaljuggalo]

Move when ur 18 cause your mom ain't looking out for you only herself.dont be surprised when she mad you told him off, she not a true mother

[Authenticallyathena]

I didn't hear ages, but this is clearly not a child. This is a teen or possibly even close to adulthood. This boyfriend is way out of line, but the mother is the real problem. The kid shouldn't even know this person yet, let alone him be comfortable enough to think he has some type of authority. Mom sounds desperate and will most likely drop her kid for what seems like a very weak man to me...

[forevertai]

Mom is so wrong for this. He's not respectful of boundaries. Mom needs to parent instead of letting him do it.

[biancafriesen]

I'm so sorry this happened, hoping and praying that things go better! God bless 🥰

[einatblackrose]

It's on your mom to set boundaries! She needs to put him in place about him not being your father and respecting your privacy.

[masonluv]

This happened to a friend of mine she was having a sleepover with another girl she knew with her sister and cousins. The only thing is it was her mom’s ex who still sometimes came over. She doesn’t like him because he doesn’t know boundaries with her mom so she’d always be in her mom’s room when he was and say on the floor until he left. One night he came over with we was with her friend, sister and cousin having fun but her mom told her to open the door for him so she did but he wasn’t at the door yet so she waited then he knocked on the door and when she did open the door he started yelling at her saying she saw him at the door even when he wasn’t there yet and he’d always boss her around. Now the thing is she’s pretty chill but at that moment she was furious because he acted like her dad and told her to go to her room and she was tired of him yelling and telling her what to do she snapped and even cursed saying something like you’re not my fcking dad leave me alone. He was still yelling so her mom asked her to come here after hearing her yelling she did and she her mom asked what happened she told her and him to stop bu he didn’t and my friend got so mad she was crying and literally almost hit him but her mom held her back. When she is like that you know it’s serious because she’s usually chill and nonchalant if it weren’t for her mom holding her who knows what she would’ve done.

[rhythmtaylor]

I've read this one. She's in her early 20s, I think. While I completely agree that he shouldn't be bossing her around, she hasn't spoken to him about it at all, and that's a fault of her own. Mom should step in, boyfriend should back off, and she should stand up.

[SavanahMiller-fk]

if you're old enough to chose who to live with you can live with your dad or you can tell your moms boyfriend "you aren't my dad and you never will be so back off"

[moradoemoji]

Turns out the OP in the story is 20 years old. She needs to shut him down herself

[bwoman]

I listen to people talking about boyfriends and girlfriends I guess I was lucky after my dad was gone my mom never had a companion until we were all gone from home.

[strxwberrymoki]

Give him the ole "YOU'RE NOT MY DAD" treatment.

[TheShannie]

Him barging in was totally trying to catch her in a state of undress..

[michellesmith]

A grown man not related to op barged into her bedroom. A GROWN MAN BARGED INTO A TEENAGE GIRLS BEDROOM. No matter what specific intent it was, all are different types of malicious.

[vniacitis]

Incase anyone wants to know, OP is 20

[MalinaGarbulet]

Missing info : the girl in the post is 20...

Shes definitely old enough to tell him herself