Trust issues? Here could be why. | #shorts

Do you struggle when it comes to trusting others? ⁣
In the 1950s, Erikson’s work looked at how as children, one of the earliest conclusions we reach relates to whether others can be trusted. ⁣
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And the conclusion we drew was largely based on the relationship we formed with our parents or primary caregivers. ⁣
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If you didn’t feel you could trust the people who you needed for safety and security, you might not have learned what this looks like, and may still struggle when it comes to trusting others later in life - whether in romantic relationships, friendships or at work. ⁣
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It can be a complicated space, as is anything involving human psychology and early childhood experiences (including trauma), but there are ways you can start to slowly exercise your trust muscle.⁣
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[robin.legend]

I see the goodness in people and approach them and they just backstab me. It's painful and they leave scars on your back

[annastone]

Trust yourself!!
Most people’s biggest problem is being too trusting ..

[zenarodriguez]

Trust muscles, as I call them, are needed. Trusting ourselves to discern, establish boundaries, and disengage when needed is the first step. It is healthy to trust, but at different levels.
I took quite some time to learn this, but I'm glad I did. I met people who didn't trust anybody, somehow they were always in some type of drama. Learning how to trust is more effective.

[MXRiderFiftyTwo]

Such wise words. I will try and tune into people's good traits

[b.o.t]

That's me, I don't even trust my parents

[bycofficial]

"Neither in this world nor elsewhere is there any happiness in store for him who always doubts"
~Bhagavad Gita

[Uazootauntujntoo]

A wise man once told me that I should believe facts out of people, but I should never trust anyone for angels are spirits and monsters are human beings. 😊

[yishmiraibenisrael]

A wise man once said that human behavior is unreliable until anchored in the divine. So if I wish others to be trustworthy, I must be what I want others to be by gradually, more and more, making a genuine effort to do those things which make me rooted in He who is worthy of all our trust, and thereby becoming more
and more able, as a result, to discern who is trustworthy and who is not.❤

[thomastom]

Not all are good no matter how positive you are about them

[triplet]

I don't trust, and my parents doesn't have anything to do with it. My parents were the reason I trust to much.

I don't trust because I trusted to much, and I got betrayed.

[yogendarsharan]

We are getting entangled in mind game, mind will take you everywhere up down left right , but you have a superior brain who can control your intellectual brain, just focus on your superior brain which is given by the nature to everyone, that will guide you throughout your life, you just need to tune in and listen, that's all you need to live tension and problem free life . Thanks

[ValentinNielsen]

It might sound absurd but I am focused in assuring that I can be trusted and disregard if I can trust people

[faisaladris]

I like how explain things also your positive attitude

[SillyEwe]

My trust issues stemmed from being bullied and betrayed. A few months ago, I suffered from a huge betrayal with a false accusation of something horrible on top. My trust issues are worse than before because of it.

[kami_duuuh]

I opened up for people but they backstabbed me, and i, blindly, gave them another chance, even thought it was hard. And... no one is trustable for me because all people i opened myself to them, backstabbed me as i mentioned earlier.

[susanflowers]

You open yourself up to trust those around you <3

[Aesthetic_leen]

Sometimes I think I have some problem
1. People have their own group but never want to friends with me

2. I'm usually ignored by strangers to whom I go for help. Like what bad have I done to u man . U can't even know me without talking to me. So the judgement for what? I was there to seek help not to kill you.

3. Some of my so called friends showed their real colours. That was exasperating. I still stayed with them because I cared for them . Then had to let go . The toxicity was too much

4. I gave my everything to the people I Loved and cared about. My love, care, blessings and prayers, I gave everything. In return demanded nothing. And what do I get in return instead, judgements, betrayal, back b*tching .

5. Men want s*x and don't think about parents when they are f*cking but their love for their parent emerges when it comes to commitment. And then they can't marry you.

6.. I have seen couples treating each other like shit . How do these people stay their whole life with each other.

7. People lie and win trust of people and the destroy them and never regret.

8. People are breaking up with their 10-20 friends/ gf/ bf

9. They are cheating in their 30 year old marriage
I mean where the
F uck are your emotions

10. And OH MY GOD . The amount of narcissistic persons are there in this world is unbelievable.


11. Bullying someone online or offline has become cool to and to an extent that people end their own like due to the hatred they recieve
I always say -" people are scarier than ghosts"

I don't know whom to believe whom not to believe.I don't understand, are people difficult now a days or is there a problem with me that I can't make connections? I really feel lonely and unloved and it really hurts 😭. I feel scared of people being one of the people

[thecrabpulsar]

I can absolutely relate to this... I struggle to trust people easily which I think comes from a tricky childhood

[thetippytoe]

I appreciate and respect your efforts. Keep going! You're almost there! 😘

[erroldcruz]

It varies from case to case, including the extent of trust. Always watch your back