Long Distance Relationship Is f ***ing Hard

Hi ChosenFamily,

Saying Goodbye is never easy, and it only gets harder as we move forward. Any tips on making long distance relationship work ?

Love,
Vikki

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[jennyjenny]

I was in a long distance relationship for several years, and our hearts broke every time we left each other. But, now we have been living together for 5 years. Don’t give up on each other! I’m living proof it can work!
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[Heather-kxtt]

It is definitely not easy! I used to take my husband to the airport or to where they were meeting up (he was military) and say goodbye not knowing what the future held. Him going to Korea was ok, Afghanistan was painful!! I just had to carry on with life, raising our daughter and never watched the news. I would turn the channel when the news came on the radio in the car. Leaving is always easier than them leaving. I would lay in bed and cry, sometimes scream into my pillow once our daughter was out of the house. We used to make boxes to send, decorate them and such. We could do Facebook messenger and things like that. We had broken movie nights, Christmas, birthdays and holidays over apps. It’s a LOT of work. It’s a lot of hurt, love, many feelings. You will do fine sweet one❤️ Watching this was tough. Took me right back to the last time my hubby left. It makes the reunions worth it though. And as you said, this is all temporary….

[kimarnette]

Hi from Colorado. I'm sorry that you're feeling sad about being separated from your person. Growth is painful! Just consider that when you are reunited you will know that your relationship is meant to be. This time apart will show you if he is your forever person. 💔

[coleengoodell]

You really are wise beyond your years. So many of us run away from difficult feelings, rather than allow ourselves to feel them and stay in them for as long as needed. Buried emotions are just buried alive, they can and do come back to life. Going through any major life change is a challenge. I know you'll find your land legs. We are all cheering for you. Stay safe and God bless. You are loved. 💜💚

[countryqueen]

Ty so much for sharing your ups AND your downs. (Also please thank your boyfriend for allowing us into his life as well) It is definitely good to honor your feelings and fully let them out and process then. At 44 im trying hard to do this. I am used to stuffing my hurts and such and it truly takes a toll on u when u do that. Ive read alot of the comments from our chosen family and your return comments and theres so many good points. Its absalutely true that everything happens for a reason and that what is meant to be will be..nothing will stop that..not even distance. I am so incredibly greatful i stumbled upon one of your videos awhile back. You and this chosen family have been so amazing for me. I have had a rough couple years with my physical health which has taken a massive toll on my mental health. My depression has been very bad. It almost never fails.. when im feeling really low i almost always come across a new video of yours. Seeing u struggle too is huge. It makes me feel not alone which i feel often. And then to see all the positive comments and support just makes it double amazing and helps me so much. We see and hear so many bad things with humanity..its so refreshing to see the best of it still existing..especially within this chosen family.. ( i so love that u call it chose. Family..sadly i learnes the painful way that blood does not always mean family i i have a chosen family in my own in my personal life and thats what ive called them for some time. Im greatful and honored to also be a part of this one) sometimes its easy to forget that we are all human beings and that life isnt all good or all bad for any of us and that we all face the bad times and its ok to not always feel happy. Ty for sharing all your human feelings and emotions. Its so true that going through the hard times makes the good times that much better ! Ty so very much for bringing us along on your journey and for creating this beautiful family. The love u and your bf have for each other is very apparent. I can literally feel it when i watch you both interact. I am sorry you are going through this rough patch but i truly believe u guys will both end up better and stronger in the long run. I hope u guys can be together (closer distance wise) very soon. Sometimes we need a break (time alone and apart etc.) to have time to work on ourselves and to get the best out of our relationships..this is true of any kind of relationship. Plus you end up appreciating the time so much more when u r together. My heart broke for u after u dropped him off. I really do believe that in most cases absence really does make the heart grow fonder. I'm so glad that you both have the maturity, foundation, love and most of all trust with each other to navigate the distance. Always remember your never alone we are all here for u every step of the way. Your truely beautiful inside and out. Your the first person I've ever followed that i truly feel like i know. Sorry for the long post. This video touched me deeply. Hugs and luv your way, 💜kim

[Terminatorfan-]

This is a great video. These types of videos are always appreciated. Thank you very much. I'm not trying to sound negative, but I had to give up one for many reasons. The one main reason was because I was told by her, with lack of better words, it all depends on you and you better not disappoint me because I'm going to have to give up everything and everyone I've ever loved, known, grew up with to be there with you. First off, no one's asking anybody to give up anything. I really thought about it and asked advice and everyone said that it is a recipe for disaster. There's going to be a lot of resentfulness and anger if you two get together and it doesn't work out. I was told that she was putting me in a very bad position and that if anything went wrong, it's always going to be my fault and she's always going to throw it in my face that she had to give up everything. I had to make the hard decision, but for the better of both of us, I had to work on cutting it off emotionally and somewhat physically even though it was long distance. It wasn't easy, but I had to rip the Band-Aid off sooner than later.

[susannesamuelsson]

When my husband went away abroad to work it was hard too! We had a small child so I wasn't lonely but I missed him so! He called home every single evening and this was way before computers and mobile phones times. When he came home I was in heaven but when he had to go again I got so sad! I guess it's not the exact same as a long distance relationship but the feelings involved are identical if you love and miss someone. The only thing I know is that love is the most important and the strongest bond between two people and that love doesn't know any boundaries or distances! Do what you have to do for the person you love ❤️! Love and courage with a warm hug Vikki! Susanne and Trollet.

[irmadeleon]

Move back to NYC. Visit your family often. That is the solution. It's ok to change your mind or just give it time. When I was 19 was gonna go to college 45 mins away from my bf. I couldn't do it but I should have cause I never went back to college. Mentally I just couldn't do it. 3 yrs later and a baby it was over. I was a young.

[crisy]

I feel you. Sometimes you just got to feel what your feeling and it come to an end, just like what you said. Stay strong. We love you.

[RS]

Awww my love, this was tough to watch. Also, I agree.. being left feels more painful than leaving and doing things (cos I think there's the element of excitement when you get up and do new things).
I even hate it whenever my guy leaves my flat. as it feels ...empty like there's a void. also, he recently told me they might send him abroad for work to supervise a new branch of the company. and it hit me a bit, but we decided to stick to making the best memories till we can. and deal with how to go on about it, as we approach the date... (still, it kinda sucks as im madly into him)

[TreasureLovely]

Im currently in an LDR and they really freakin suck. But they're not impossible to navigate and achieving your desired success in them is more than doable. I'm rooting for you guys. You can do it! 💖 (*sending hugs from AZ*)

[roxanneanna]

I was in a LDR for years, unfortunately he passed away. The last time I saw him we fought an made him take me home, sadly I'll never see him again. Keep your head up cause your stronger then you know. Nothing compares to knowing that I'll never, ever lay eyes on him again. Keep the faith beautiful and know he's always with you. Near or far you'll hold him close to your heart. We love you Vikki.💙🙏💙🙏💙

[candycox]

Hi Vicki I trust that you will find strength and hope knowing that your chosen family is there with you. cheers

[cicitran]

I wasn't feeling well lately and there your video appears in front of me again. Watching this video and you're soooo emotional talking about long distance relationship. I've experienced once along time ago and realized it wasn't easy and not for me....you're definitely way stronger than i am. I'm sure you will get through this and he'll always be close to you whenever you need him Vikki....true love will conquer....FAITH 😊💚💙💜💛

[deidrelorenz]

Hi. Vikki.I 💘💜 i feel so bad for you because i know long distance relationships aren't easy. Your relationship is strong & loving & im sure

[melssapeck]

So much ♥️and hugs to you to help cheer you Vikki

[aurora]

long distance relationships are hard. i've been there. i think after transitioning, it's probably even harder.

[andreabryant]

I believe it will work out somehow!! this too shall pass!!❤❤❤ we love your honesty!!✌✌it will work out vicki!!! we got your back❤ vicki!! babe❤❤❤

[debraanderson]

Viki, from the 3 videos of yours I have watched I don't know if you had facial reconstructive surgery. You still look like (a) masculine female. My cousin's two daughters are very masculine looking, both born female, they just take after their father. Both married with children, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Was your voice deeper before you started transitioning, I ask because you still sound like a male. People often call me sir on the phone, I've never had a girly voice but it's gotten deeper as I've aged plus I'm a smoker. Best to you.

[bonniemiriani]

Oh vikki I’m so sorry for your heart and his.take care of you 😍