Is He's Using You? THIS Might Be Why #shorts

[hollygodaire]

I think many women are lonely and isolated. They don't have community or family this makes them vulnerable.

[AnitaDiaz_JazzSinger]

My tolerance level is very low for these types of uncaring relationships. I will not tolerate mistreatment or disrespect. So if this means I will be single the rest of my life, so be it!

[martymasden]

Great advice this evening, thanks Jonathan, I'm sure the other ladies are listening. Much Appreciated, Marty Kozee Masden 👍✌

[gracetomczak]

Agree wholeheartedly, thank you 🙏🌼
I'm done with dating apps. 🙄

[rosemarybrewington]

Hooray Jonathon, we don't need men to validate us. I are self-confident and content. Hugs to you Jonathon 🐻❤️

[cindyhoyt]

Amen to stopping the swipe, I'll get out and do as suggested, thank you 😊

[lanapalij]

My thoughts exactly! And that’s my next step.

[lc]

Met my last ex spouse in real life. He was on dating apps though. Ended up being a narcissist. 13 years wasted. Gov away, come back dynamic. Divorced and back in the dating pool. There is no guarantee because you meet someone in real life that they will be healthy normal loving ppl. Lesson learned. It doesn't matter where you meet. Just take your time and make sure they are healthy mentally and emotionally.

[kimberlyfadim]

🏖🏖🏖Serenity Prayer for Recovery from online dating addiction/dependence "God...grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change...the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference."

[tiagomendes]

As a man, I can say that I hear my friends talk about women like objects... a bit like he said, because of swipe dating.... im deeply sorry for that, just please dnt take all men as monsters... some have feeling and it feels dumb great when a female comes to us and helps us on a hard time... guys dnt do that as much for some reason and 90% of women see us as beasts... ty

[cathy_clarinet]

I don’t do the swiping apps, but I have a couple younger gfs, and when they talk about dating that’s what they do and it’s always a mess. A big sloppy mess

[StonecoastBC]

I love this advice! Enough of the swipe dating🌸

[musclegurl]

I appreciate you Jonathan, thank you for sharing your messages. 💐👍

[merncat]

I've always been creeped out by the whole dating app concept because there's no connection it's strictly about looks and people are objectified

[realc]

Big up yourself big man. Yaye yaye👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[debbie]

100 percent true...i could tell you horror stories but i know as a dating coach you have heard it all❤

[finesseg]

They will ghost you after they meet someone else because the have so many options

[nooranlove]

That’s what I did I deleted them all .. it’s ridiculous and sad at the same time.. what a world we in it makes my heart sad 😞 I am happy by my own I guess till Jesus come

[kamfan]

Same can be said of women not valuing / reducing men to "objects" in the exact same way.

[joel-pyfc]

Women who put out on the first date don’t get respect. Why would I respect a woman who doesn’t even respect herself? Yet they keep calling back expecting a relationship.