Khutso and Litsoanelo crumble – Married At First Sight Mzansi | Ep 10 | S1 | Mzansi Magic

Having dealt with several issues, including co-parenting dynamics with exes, silent treatment, percieved disrespect and more, Khutso and Litsoanelo unpacked their differences in an intense couples’ therapy session.
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[kagisosebate]

People are always hard people women like Dee because she's outspoken and knows how to say what wants and doesn't want. She's often misunderstood as someone who is "pushy" or a "bully". People like Khutso who are seen as "calmer" always look like the victim, people dont realise that sometimes a seemingly " calm" person can struggle to express themselves or manage conflict effectively, and end up withdrawing .... hence silent treatment, which leads to the more expressive person being more frustrated, escalating in their emotions purely because they just want some form of communication.
"Calmer" people arent always as "innocent" as we make them out to be....

[catherinekhabomdhluli]

The emotional intelligence in Khutso👌 this man can say a very deep statement in simpler terms without offending anyone

[malehlohonolo]

This girl could give a master class in gaslighting yho😮 hai shem she can gaslight! Run khutso

[NtombentleLengs]

Eighter way, these 2 are not a match and they need to free each other😞

[mrs_Be]

I feel like both of them need to work on their relationship. Me and my husband were exactly like Khutso and Dee. Difference was that I was the more calmer person and he was the expressive one.

When he spoke about his feelings there was no filter(and sometimes in public) and sometimes if not most times it would hurt me. And on the other side I never expressed myself in any kind of way. I didn't want to cause I was sort of protecting myself. I could only express how i felt about him to other people except him. Which ended up resulting in silent treatment and one partner getting frustrated.

Dee needs to work on her choice of words and the right way of delivering those words. Khutso needs to work on expressing himself and being vulnerable with his wife. If they can fix that their relationship will work.

Here we are, 5 years in marriage and sticking to those principles truly worked for us.

[desiree]

Dee lacks self awareness and is not accountable…

[christinan]

The way I was rooting for these 2 in the beginning...

[khulilegule]

The first red flag I saw from D was when she said she is a bully and controlling and that’s how she is ngatsi weeeeh lo she needs to still work on herself.

[amyt]

i feel like Dee is falling deeply in love with khutso and she is scared thats why her emotions are all over the place she doesn't know how to handle it

[Sino_Tee]

I saw a comment that says Dee lacks self-awareness, and that's so true. I like her but ai moghel has an element of immaturity. She really does not hear Khutso at all. She takes what he says, how he feels, and makes it about herself. She is inconsiderate towards his feelings, only aware of her own feelings. She shouldn't be married to anyone enje.

[thapelokemaatla_]

Dee doesn't deserve a man like Khutso, she need to work on herself first before considering marriage. She's a lot

[micht]

This woman's heart is not conditioned for marriage. She will hurt him

[KaneloSlender-yqyu]

Pride is one thing that can break the relationship.. if you can't say sorry or can't have empathy when your person is crying. Do what you'd expect him to do if it was you hurting. And then act upon not repeating the mistake which was what made your partner cry.. or angry whatever

[AsemahleMpinda]

They must fix it, what they thought. Dee must change qha yena

[nompumelelomdluli]

Khutso has tapped out. Dee still needs to work on her awareness and conflict management.

[thabomphuthi]

man these right here if varsity level Im learning You can be mad at your partner but never check out. You've got to give her an assurance that your mad but still here. Easier said than done, but now that i know I have a choice to work on it when it does happen. Or choose an easy way, distance myself (we know the outcome)

[chloendebele]

Dee said she's a bully from the beginning of the show

[YongamaLove]

Why ARE you always blindsided 😮😮😮😮Hay ntombi, it's always something to complain about. GIVE THIS GUY A BREAK

[alettamonnaruri]

Its like people misunderstood Dee, she has genuine feelings for Khutso but he is not putting any effort to make it work. People see a red flag from Dee but for me Khutso doesn't show any remorse even when Dee is trying to show him her concern. I see a narcissistic person. For the question of threesome, he should have said she is not interested in any of the girls. People wake up, Khutso is a heartache. He is using his calm response to manipulate people.

[lebohangmokhachane]

She guilt trip Khutso most of the time... and start to behave like an abused child...no no no... they need to separate before its too late...n there's nothing wrong with let go....