the reason why I have no friends

I'm thirsty for friends, but...

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[thenakedsingularity]

I have no friends too. I realized that I could either choose to have fake friends or be alone. I chose to be alone.

[jianxiong]

A truly strong person is often alone because he/she doesn't need validation from anyone else.

[kornfreak]

I have no friends either and I spend every day of my life alone. Most of my family members have all passed away and I just don't have any desire to get out and socialize. Same with dating, I never had any kind of good luck when it came to relationships so I finally gave up and have gone at it alone for years now. So I definitely know what it's like to be an introvert. One valuable lesson I have had to learn the hard way is that people will always and forever let you down. In the end the only person you can ever truly depend on is yourself. I feel that's all the more reason why it's good to be alone. That said, there's nothing wrong with living life on your own terms and going at it alone. Keep doing what you do. Your content is great!

[riggs]

My father used to tell me, “In your life you will have hundreds of acquaintances, but you’ll be able to count your true friends on one hand.”

[tomkite]

The more I watch and learn about you the more I'm convinced we are cut from the same soul fabric. It's really incredible. Souls like you are what I'm searching for. Peace and love from Pennsylvania USA.

[VerdantVanille]

Thank you all so much for your amazing comments. I’m very touched and read every single one of them. I’m doing my best to answer them all.
I love you, Tribe 🤍

[smokejaguar]

I live in a Scottish city and I have one true friend but many acquaintances. The more I learn about people, the more I love dogs.
Something that resonates deeply with me is a quote "it is no measure of good health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society" ~ Jiddu Krishnamurti

[amyw]

“My struggles to control and manage myself, they play a huge role in how much energy I have available for relationships” - That statement right there really sums it up for me. I can really relate to this.

[damianreid]

Friendly people don't always turn out to be friends and being alone is not always the same as being lonely. We're all a little bit different and some of us just need our solitude.

[Flowergirl]

My heart chakra is disturbed too. The green of Germany is bringing me healing and balance, and deep breaths to this space in my body. The other day I just let myself be hurt right there in that place without thinking about why or how. It helps to witness the pain with honor, giving it space. Sending you lots of love from my heart to yours 🌿🤍🌿🌿🌿

[sophiesoulsister]

A wise older woman once told me "It's none of MY business what you think of me"
Keep being wonderful you!!❤

[Mel-jhsz]

I cut all of my friends out of my life about a decade ago when I got ill. I went into complete isolation and locked myself away from the rest of the world. Like you I started to feel so alone around other people and I was so tired of being hurt by others. I'm a huge giver, and I just found that everyone I met never reciprocated. Getting ill time and time again I just pulled back and decided to be alone for a while. I wasn't expecting this phase to last a full decade but here I am. I completely resonate with what you are going through. I adore animals, and nature but I've never been a huge fan of people. I just want to send you some love all the way from Australia and let you know that you're not alone, and there are others like you going through the exact same thing. Maybe we are all part of the same soul tribe. 😊❤

[juliaperry]

I love your frankness, vulnerability and willingness to share with other introverts. Thank you❤

[HFTLH]

I've been a loner for years and haven't had a real friend for about 20 years now. I was bullied and picked on a lot in school, been let down many times by people, and I used to think I was an introvert. But then when I finally found a place for a while where people respected me and were kind, I realized that I love people and I love socializing, it's just that I have so much fear of people because of stuff that I went through when I was young. I still feel like I don't fit in with most people, and I still haven't found a close friend. But I don't consider myself a true introvert anymore. If I spend time around people who are positive and respectful, I feel full of energy and like it recharges my batteries. I only feel drained by negative people who don't treat me right. I'm really sorry for the difficult experiences you had...I know it makes us stronger people, but it's so painful in the process. I hope someday you find that good and loyal friend that we all long for.

[bettinak.]

I couldn't live in isolation, but I'm starting to realise that friendships are so hard. In my case I care a lot about my loved ones, including my friends, but they just don't ask how I am, how I'm doing etc and I'm starting to feel tired being the one who's always asking these questions. They are good people, but everyone is just in there own little bubble being busy with everyday life. I'm so disappointed that everyone I know wants just superficial relationships...

[hvacstudent]

I needed this.. It's lonely indeed.. a man at 36 without a single person I can relate to.. I have people around of course, and those who care about me.. but it's somehow comforting knowing I'm not alone in my feelings.. even if you are a long way off and unlikely to ever meet, I will think of this encounter in my evening meditation.. thanks for not being afraid to share your self.. I'll use it as inspiration along my journey to grow and keep moving forward even when I want to stop..

[giovannifitzgerald]

Most relationships now days are based on materialism and vanity finding something real is next to I also wanted to thank you again for being born into this realm and sharing your experience with the world 😊🙏

[javiertorres]

I have social anxiety. I have also a small number of friends.
But when I’m alone, I’m at peace.
You are an inspiration. Thank you.

[manojmaitydm]

Finding a true friend is very rare these days. Everyone is mean

[cathypreddie]

I am so happy I found your channel. It gives me great comfort as an introvert who loves time alone, nature and animals. I love your home and your choices. You are not alone! Much love ❤️