Real Talk: College Girls and Casual Sex

More and more young women prefer casual hookups rather than getting into anything serious while they're in college. When you're focused on your career or your studies, who's got the time to worry about keeping a boyfriend? Check out the hosts' lively discussion on college girls and casual sex.

[Krissbang]

I love Tamera! She is the voice that many of us girls share but the media tries to hush, hide, and banish it.

[maiyeolpark]

hahaha "i'm trying to focus on my math class in college" lmao.

[Actbabee]

I don't think I could have casual sex but if someone else wants to, to each their own, just stay safe!!

[kayboy]

Point is, people have sexual desires.
Sex relieves tension and stress.
College is stressful. 
Men have casual sex in college, for whatever reason.
Women aren't encouraging- but simply saying it's "okay" for women to have casual sex as well. 
Men (and sadly some women) think that other women should not have casual sex, because it's disrespecting their bodies.


The double standards are too much. 

[hanhgiadao]

"It's a good time to be a hoe" 😂

[NnoyeChinwuba]

tamera is legit my favourite. she's the voice of 'innocence' I guess. she reminds me a lot of myself

[brittanyxo]

Call me old fashioned, but I dont understand how women and men can get intimate without having an emotional connection. "Hooking up" just because seems like a very cold thing to me.

[Mehrunissah]

I will never understand how people can treat sex so casually, as if you can tell when a partner has an incurable disease or not. Seriously, we all desire sex, but I'd like to believe we can abstain from it without risking our physical health by sleeping around.

[LivinLifeWitYanna]

Jeannie looks really good with that hair 😍😍😍

[miztammik]

casual sex is cold, if you arent connecting and your mind isnt exploding then youre missing out but each to their own . i personally wouldnt waste my time and energy with someone that doesnt see your worth.

[Flinabin]

I thought college was made to learn and build your professional future not to sleep around carelessly, what kind of past and reputation will this type of behaviour leave you with ? Working out is good to relieve stress...

[MiaCarter]

And if I marry a man who's been around like that during college I don't want him to bring any of his baggage, exes, bad spirits, diseases he caught be accident, etc with him.

[ifunanya]

Tamera is not innocent. She is the voice of reason! and those that are loud and wild with dirty minds don't get that and will never get it. Tamera, do you girl!

[mishmasrea]

In college, I had made out with guys I didn't like, guys I liked, and especially guys I liked who didn't like me back. I would feel horrible because most of the time guys pretended like it didn't happen. The worst is when you make out with a guy but they get a girlfriend shortly after. I never pursued casual sex because I KNEW I was going to feel bad if the guys didn't like me back or respected me. I guess the idea is to have sex with someone you don't like but how is that possible? You need to like the person who at least find them attractive to get turned on. Also, if everyone is having casual sex then isn't there a higher chance of running into your hook up buddy around campus? Or worse, your hook-up buddy is your friend's hook-up buddy as well. One time I made out with a guy I was interested in and he turned me down. It turned out he was dating a friend of mine in secret who eventually he cheated on with another girl. I knew a girl who had casual sex but end up crying when either the guy started telling everyone in their social circle or when her current hook-up didn't acknowledge her at a party. I'm glad I didn't have casual sex. I wouldn't want to be running to my hook ups at parties or bars. Ain't nobody got time for that. 

[imon]

"It's a good time to be a hoe" sums up the show for me....Some times it's not always the best time to "keep it real". All of them got money, so they can say what they want.

[GoldCandy]

I do not agree! I can't picture myself sleeping around with this one and that one. And I don't want a guy that's slept around. I don't want the title/label "hoe" at any point in my life. That's not hot at all 🙅

[kinndah]

Loni looks gorgeous with that lipstick! Especially with her smile. Adrienne's make up look is so beautiful on her, and tamera and jeannie with that hair....absolutely glamorously PER-FECT! Ladies lookin all kiiinnddzzz o lovely today!

[RedaGirl]

Ah man, that's why we NEED full episodes...I'd love to see the rest of this 1! Can't wait till Fall '14!

[gisellefendi]

The shaming in the comment section is stupid. Why are we shaming people who have casual sex? If you don't agree with it then don't do it. Its as simple as that. As long as these people who have casual sex use protection then let them do it. Its not that hard to mind your own business people!

[AjPoliMusic]

Loni is very smart and intellectual! Balancing an engineering major and a minor in music is not easy what so ever! Kudos to you Ms. Loni!