'We're a PERFECT MATCH, but he's ugly…'

Josh's hardest laugh EVER is at 3:08

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3:08 - Josh loses it

[ondreatorrence]

The camera guys laugh is HILARIOUS. I can't help but belly laugh with him when he laughs

[madisonroy]

Unless you’re just actively repulsed by how someone looks, I think it’s usually worth going on one date to see if there is any chemistry. A lot of the time people get more attractive the more you get to know them. Also saying yes to a date is not saying your going to marry a person or even continue on to dating. If at the end of the night you are still not at all interested in the guy then just say so. It’s not about going out with a guy to spare his feelings somehow or as a courtesy, but because the right person for you might not be what you expected at first.

(Also I’m not saying you are ever obligated to go out with someone, especially if you know it won’t go anywhere, just that if you’re looking for a partner and eventually marriage you’re going to have to take chances on people)

[gReyes]

"I would suggest that you move back in with YOUR parents" 😂

[bethf]

Message 1: I would at least see who this guy is. Such a strong match is cause for intrigue. You may have nothing to like about this person, you might actually be good friends, or may end up falling in love after all. You never know for sure, and that's what the date is for. Just because you took a test doesn't mean you'll have all the answers. And like someone else said, going on one date is not a marriage.

Message 2: There is so much more going on than the apartment. They def need to have a talk, a good one. A long one, vulnerable, open, understanding. They need to hear each other. This will be good practice for the marriage.

[rebekahmcneely]

My sister and brother-in-law lived with his parents for nearly 2 years after they were married. It didn't bother them, in fact they were grateful because they desperately needed somewhere to stay and there weren't a lot of options in the area.

[Natalee]

I have been watching your channel for 10 years, and I have never heard Josh laugh so hard as at 3:08 🤣

[waynevanderberg]

Shame Sarah is the only normal one there😂. Great episode you guys💪

[rioforce]

Girl in the second message has watched too many sitcoms and believes too much in the anti-parent “American dream”. If the guy can learn skills enough at home so that he contributes when you’re married, that’s great. If somehow this myth of still being a baby if you actually like your parents is a bad thing then she has the unresolved parental issues. The multi generational family has been crushed by years of tv and social conditioning. FRIENDS is not real life and believe me, this dude will 100% learn skills faster than ever when married.

Having “guy must live in apartment with another guy for a year” as a dealbreaker makes you the weird one here. The power dynamic is strange because, like Jordan said, he clearly doesn’t feel like he can explain to you his reasoning without you calling the whole thing off.

Poor guy needs to find his voice and you need to be clear with him what skills he should learn before marriage (make it a challenge, men love games). Maybe a year isn’t long enough for this engagement.

[EmilynWood]

The first story sounded like something out of a dystopian novel with that survey thing.

[emilyrosenfeldt]

I can’t believe I agreed with Jordan on both of these!!!

[johannacoates]

The apple cider vinegar hanging out in the background is the most Blimey Cow thing I’ve seen LOL

[LastEarBender]

Q1 - don't ever do a sympathy date - only go if you are willing and able to go with an open mind and heart
Q2 - I really do think it's best for people to have lived on their own in the world and have had that responsibility prior to marriage, but given that particular circumstance, I really don't think it should be that forced

[arielholmberg]

To the girl who has the fiancé who is living with his parents. Please be graceful and kind with your fiancé. This move might be really hard for him, especially if he never has lived on his own!

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We did one of those match making quizzes in high school and it told you all your matches, boys and girls. And not a single student in the entire school answered more than 50% of the questions the same as me

[elizabethmary]

The experience is not worth more than the money spent lol. I thought the same thing regarding not my fiance,
but myself.
I now am paying $1, 500 in rent as it was the only apartment I could find. I have a high paying job, but I am still unable to save any money and I am using so much more credit than I used to. 100% regret it.
if I stayed with my parents I would have probably been able to save a good portion of a down payment for a house.
But nope, I needed to feel independent. Not worth it. These days and with this crap economy, we need to put aside feelings and just do what is smartest to do. My fiance tried to warn me about this too, and I was stubborn and did what I wanted. So…to the person who wrote the question…wouldn’t you rather your fiance save money for your future together rather than throw thousands of dollars down the drain???

[JosieAreSee]

#1 don’t go. He deserves better than someone who will reject him based only on his appearance.

#2 I get you wanting him to experience life on his own, but he’s right about the waste of money. Living with “mommy and daddy” is a reality for way too many people. I’m at home because both my parents are disabled. I’m independent and have had my own apartment. I don’t “need” to live at home. It just makes sense financially.

[Emily-pmmf]

Ok, first messyge, I'm actually going to say give the guy a chance. I used to be on the side that if I'm not interested in a guy then I wouldn't go on a date with him. I've since learned that attraction can grow over time and you don't need to know how you feel about someone on the first date. You might surprise yourself. There are definitely reasons to say no to a date, but this doesn't sound like the case here. If nothing else, it could be a good learning opportunity.

Second messyge, I get where the writer is coming from. She wants to know her man isn't relying on his parents to take care of him. But to put it in another perspective, in most of the world and historically, people don't leave their parents' house until they marry (sometimes not even then). Living "on your own" is a modern concept and normal in very few countries. So I agree with the man that it shouldn't be necessary before marriage.

[travischapman]

Boo to pity dates. A “no” for a first date when she is not interested is preferred.

[paigeferguson]

Come on! We gotta go back to 3 Messyges! Please!!!

[TheGeekApprentice]

Oh my gosh! That was my messyge! I was washing dishes listening and thinking "hey, I went through something similar several months ago" only to realize it was MY MESSYGE! AH! That's insane. :D (Also, holy crap, why did I make it so freaking long and crazy sounding???? I'm a terrible writer lol)

Update though: It all worked out beautifully! We had a crazy good heart to heart, got both sides cleared up, he did decide to move out (I did not push him) and for several reasons...it ended up being extremely good! :D

Thanks for answering lol! I totally understood where y'all were coming from.