Why Handsome Men Are Intimidating

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[darkking]

Damn I must be attractive as hell then

[SpiritusFrumenti]

I am the hottest man alive. No girl has approached me in 40 years

[quathetruth]

This happened to me recently in Target. He actually stopped me and said “You are so beautiful” I smiled and said thank you. But I kept walking because he had no follow up. So I said aww he was probably nervous so I circled the isle like I forgot something and gave eye contact. He then approached me. Been talking since.

[miab.]

He’s absolutely right. Women will notice by peripheral eye and not even make eye contact. But their minds are saying dayuuuum he is handsome af. Been in groups of women to witness this. They will not approach nor shoot a smile with eye contact which is all they need to do to signal that man that they are interested and if he is he’ll make the move. Perhaps👀

[David-pfhr]

Them: “what’s your super power?”

Me: “I make people so uncomfortable with my beauty I become invisible”

[ntuthukozwane]

Some girls act tougher on you when you are handsome because they believe you are a player. It is the weirdest thing ever, to be told you are a player when you don't think you are one.

[TheInfiniteMindOf]

I was discussing this yesterday. Women would openly speak to the people in front of me in line at the store, but when it's my turn, they turn super dry like they're trying to downplay my presence. It's Hella rude. I used to feel bad about it until a beautiful lady explained the nature of women 2 me. If you are really handsome as a man, very attractive women will give you strong eye contact and vibes 2 let you know they're interested, because they think you are on the same level as them to a degree. It's the ones who are not as confident that downplay your qualities so that you don't feel superior or so they don't feel inferior. But if you break the ice or kiss up 2 them a lil bit, they soften up too. I prefer confident women with a balanced self esteem. No need to put me down so that we can be on the same level.

[jdsloley]

I've learned that a simple uninvested smile and "hello" bypasses all of this. Used to get called arrogant when in reality I was super shy tryna hold it together. Both sexes do this to each other for various reasons that add up to us not wanting to look stupid. We all know it's rough out here. I promise you eye contact, a smile and a basic "hello" will melt the ice. It doesn't mean you're going to be calling that person's phone later. It just creates a more comfortable environment for ppl to communicate, including body language. Even if they turn you down or you turn away someone else, if there was a smile and a hello involved everyone will feel ok about it, probly even be motivated to try again(with someone else lol)

[jaydog]

Guys also do this to females who are extremely attractive out of fear of rejection, but also because we don't want to be seen as creeps.

[toni]

I personally believe the reason they do that is to not give validation and gas you up

[MsLotusBlooms]

So true. We're taught not to be very expressive around attractive men. It makes us appear desperate.

[priscillakagaga]

That's exactly what I do.. the more handsome, attractive the more I'll pretend not to notice. Yes its intimidating.

[JaeAR]

Actual gem that took me till my 30s to realize. The confident women will approach you, but there usually not the ones your attracted to. Attractive woman mostly only give you a sign when there intoxicated because there actually more prone to being insecure than average girls when sober.

[damolaakeula]

You can’t have this mindset bro. If she walk past you, she ain’t interested bro.😂 Not every women is going to find you attractive even if your good looking. Being good looking can sometimes be subjective. Just keep being you and right people will come into your life.💯

[Bgreen-nnly]

When you are attractive and humble people will approach you….. but if you are attractive and give off an arrogant vibe…. Most people just dodge the bullet….. lol

[husslerzambition]

Type of dude to get rejected by a woman and tell himself it was because he's too handsome. Crazy

[jackwilson]

Give an approachable impression, make yourself look more open. That's what I tend to do, and it works. Men and women have an easier time to talk to me.

[raees]

It's the same like when we as guys were 12 y/o and we were scared to even look at our crush up close😂 But we learn to overcome it

[Rose-nwmg]

Yes, that’s very true. We come off cold or look away when we find a man attractive. It’s intimidating for us too. 🤭