What is Grief? (Tonkins Model)

Показать описание

This is one explanation of what Grief is. The term 'grief' is often complicated, and hard to understand.

How do we experience grief?
What does grief mean?
Is the way I am grieving normal?

Рекомендации по теме

Комментарии

As a student counsellor this is an excellent model. Brilliant, genius.

LordJasonKing

Nearly 5000 views and NO comments? Good grief! Just remember that the person you grieve for loved you more than you will ever know. Therefore, they would not want you to be sad. I know it’s damn hard, but that’s only because you care so, so very much. x .

willpower

Thank You very much it was short and to the point.I appreciate that and I can relate to what your saying

carolalmeida

My husband died 2 weeks ago. I feel this...the grief is so raw now.

megan

Shock and disbelief- Refusal to accept or accept a loss. astonishment. Accepting the situation intellectually but denying it emotionally.

Awareness development. The reality of the loss begins to seep into consciousness. There may be anger directed at the nursing, medical and other staff.

restitution return phase. Adapting to the new life without the deceased. There is a new rise of hope and a renewal of vigor and energy that is directed towards building the new life. A solution to the loss. Trying to deal with the painful emptiness. Inability to love new objects or people in place of the lost ones. Thinking and talking about the memories of the loss.

idealization Creating images of a lost object or a lost person as lacking negative characteristics. Repressing any negative or hostile emotion towards the loss. Reminder about the loss - evokes less feelings of sorrow.

outcome. The behaviors are influenced by various factors: The importance of loss as a source of support and the degree of dependence on relationships. Ambivalence towards the loss The number and nature of other relationships and other coping with grief.

Kudravets-Diana

I lost my only child to suicide just two months ago. He was 34 years old. The pain is awful. When I lost my mom six years ago the pain was awful too. but losing a child I believe is the worst kind of pain to go threw. I just feel so sad, tired and can cry at any moment. Day or night. :(

derwen

Grief is the price you pay for loving someone who mattered to you.

sandyjonsson

My boyfriend past away last Wednesday 😭😭😭

wengweng

No offense to anybody, but I find this theory/model/whatever-it-is to be useless.

lucievhb

What is Grief? (Tonkins Model)

What is Grief? (Tonkins Model)

Growing around grief - Lois Tonkin's model of grief | Sue Ryder's Grief Guide

Exploring Tonkin's Model of Grief and the criticisms of grief theories.

Growing Around Grief | Winston's Wish

BBC on Grief (Trimmed)

What Nobody Tells You About Grief and Loss - Dr Julie #shorts

Light Languages to support with Grief and Overwhelm and Tonkins Model of Grief

The Invisible Suitcase: understanding grief and how to manage it | Child Bereavement UK

The Tonkin theory of grief #podcast #parentingadvice

When does grief stop?

How Grief and Loss Can Feel Like a Ball in a Box

A Journey - Growing Around Grief animation by Sands

Growing Around Grief #Shorts | Winston's Wish

Dealing with Grief

Meaning Reconstruction: Models and Theories of Grief

Day 23. Grief Doesn’t Follow The Rules #grief #brother #loss #ifeelyou #family #feelings #emotions

Dr Kent Tonkin: Loss, Grief and Bereavement Policy in the Workplace

Growing around grief

Continuing bonds- A theory of grief.

Kids give advice on how to cope with grief | #UniteInMemory | Marie Curie

2024 Grief Talks Conference Promo (Dr. Kent Tonkin)

Julia Samuel on the Dual Process Model of Grief

What is grief - Vision

Grief: 'Fried Egg' Model