5 Clues to Spot a 'Christian' Narcissist

Have you ever felt deceived by someone, realizing the person you thought they were isn't who they truly are? It can leave you feeling like you're losing your sanity. That's why in this video, I'll help you sharpen your discernment by teaching you 5 key clues to spot a 'Christian' narcissist. Don't let these wolves in sheep's clothing fool you any longer.

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[Kris_Reece]

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[sergeisergei]

I was a narcissist. I had no Idea that I was. By God's grace he saved my soul, but its taken many years for me to realize by Gods mercy that I was a narcissist. It's been a horrific revelation. Yet God in his great love and gentleness has changed me over the years and continue to lead me out of this hallow, lonely shallow place and making me finally into a person who can care for others by his Holy Spirit and not need to have all focus on myself. May The Lord in his grace deliver all narcissists from such a cruel heart and very dark place in Jesus name amen.

[josepeinarbriansson]

“Trying to emotionally connect with a narcissist is like trying to water a plastic plant”…..that’s a mic drop moment. Amen.

[Logan_Bishop_YT]

For those who confuse confidence and arrogance, here's a fun way to remember the difference: Confidence is when you are sure of yourself. Arrogance is when you are full of yourself.

[thesoulfoodpodcast]

Rule number 1 when dealing with a narcissist is to NEVER call them out, it’s a waste of time and you will be berated and gaslighted for it. The Bible in Proverbs 9:7 puts it this way; “Anyone who rebukes a mocker will get an insult in return. Anyone who corrects the wicked will get hurt.” (‭NLT‬‬). A ‘Christian’ narcissist is nothing more than a wicked person masking to be one of God’s people, it’s nothing but smoke and mirrors. Rather than have a sit down with them, put all your energy into your secret exit strategy and leave and don’t look back!

[nightowl]

" The devil knows scripture". This is a gem.

[sbyrum]

My vulnerable narcissist ex-husband of 25 years told me during our separation that he was praying to see if God wanted him to restore our marriage- while he was living with another woman. I was like- are you kidding me? I cannot fathom the thought process. He would text me in the morning- Praying for you today. While she was sleeping under the same roof as him. Uh uh- go on with your crazy self.

[altrey]

Literally JUST broke off our engagement. I think for me the absolute worst part of being with a Christian Narcissist is how they use Gods word to manipulate you in to suppressing our desire to leave the toxic relationship and second would be the gaslighting.

[Micah-.]

There is a difference between being a born again Christian and simply claiming to be a Christian. Huge.

[marywenzel]

I read something that stuck with me: “Sitting in church every week doesn’t make you a Christian any more than sitting in the garage makes you a car.” By their fruits ye shall know them. There will be legions os people sitting in the pews or in pulpits that will NOT be in the Kingdom of heaven.

[zonehearing]

It has been a shock dealing with a non narcissistic individual she doesn’t rage out, doesn’t take an innocent comment as an attack, doesn’t lie to me, doesn’t make false accusations, doesn’t trash me to the outside world, doesn’t scoff at me, doesn’t diminish my accomplishments, doesn’t ignore me, doesn’t deny reality despite evidence to the contrary, doesn’t mock my children, doesn’t project what they have done onto me, doesn’t spoil special occasions, is pleasant to my relatives, doesn’t have me falsely arrested. It’s been a very pleasant shock!

[FamilyHistoriandude]

They have the nerve to call you manipulative and toxic if they dont like the way you react to the pain they cause you. They assume the worst about you and refuse to forgive you. They project their character flaws onto you.

[Laineycares]

I fell into the worst depression of my life recently due to my son raking me over the coals for the third time. Vicious, hateful, condemning, hurtful to the core accusations. Thanks to you, I truly can see that he is a text book Narcissist in every way. He, like his father considers no one but themselves all of the the time. He absolutely has to be the center of attention, has to be right about everything, he has to come first at all time. Thanks to you, I no longer blame myself for his behavior and have pressed into the Lord more and have given myself permission the let him go for now. I continue to pray for him asking God to heal his mind and his heart. He's done all he can to try to turn the rest of the family against me. Thank you for showing the patterns, traits and common behavior patterns that this personality disorder does.

[helenwashington]

Amen I found out that these wolves in sheep clothing religious narcissist love preaching the gospel as long as the gospel is not confronting and exposing anything about them .

[christismith]

“Your needs are a nuisance” to a narcissist … great realization 👍

[michelleinchristalone]

When I thought my husband was, I realized that I did many of these things as well. It was then that I could repent and begin to show a greater Gospel love to my husband. I didn’t so much have the “arrogance of accomplishments” or “expecting service from others” but there were aspects. It was difficult to realize sins in myself that I was blind to but God was gracious to open my eyes to it. God continues to patiently and lovingly discipline and sanctify us, healing our marriage and deepening our relationship with Him. It’s a heart issue with a Gospel remedy! Actually, I suppose we all have selfish characteristics and will battle sin until we go to be with the Lord. It’s why we need Christ and to remember His Gospel every day.

[zippyg]

I almost didn't click on this because it's absolutely impossible to be a Christian and a narcissist. Narcissists NEVER put Jesus on the throne of their lives because they are god and everyone exists to serve them. My first time listening to you. You nailed it. The church is the narcissist's playground.

[Janet-uiiw]

Everything you share about yourself on a deep level will be remembered to the point of memorization by the narcissists and filed in their brains under "future ammunition".

[dawnkravagna]

Thanks for confirming that it’s ok to debate a Christian with God’s word. A friend told me not to, but I responded that I prefer to rely on God’s power and wisdom and not my own.

[bethechurchministry]

Sadly many pastors are narcissistic now a days!!! It’s been hard finding true elders anymore 😢