[ENG] Jonghyun speaks of his depression on the Four Things Show

[smolbaekbuns]

This has just made me sad because he wasn't just talking about depression, that was clearly him asking for help...

[rinaakat]

"People will only regret and care if you're dead" so before someone you love dies, please give that person your care and love

[dawnespejo]

I can feel the pain in his voice during the interview. He keeps on hugging his teddy bear. He really needs love and understanding.

[nobodyesdr]

"Funny when you're dead how people start listening"

[chloegranich-smith]

one day I'm gonna find a way to go back in time to try and save him

[sagunmurmu]

People say " the greatest loss in life is death ", but I say " the greatest loss in life is dying inside while we're living"

[linlin]

He was the most humble person on earth. He deserved so much better. My heart aches everyday to know he’s left this world. It hurts to see how much he was suffering alone and we didn’t realize it. I really hope you’ve found peace oppa. Be happy now... ok? It’s been four months and I still cry everyday. I miss you. Be happy now, ok? Rest well with god and take a break from all this bitterness and hate. Smile down on us 💕

[alexbulgo]

2017 was a very difficult year for me. By December I was feeling unwell. On the evening of 17th December until early morning of 18th December I stayed awake all night, thinking of ways to end my life. I do not listen to K-pop, I had never heard of Jonghyun until the 18th December 2017. When I heard the news of his passing, I realised that two people who had never met, on opposite sides of the globe thought about ending their lives that day. One fell into the abyss, one fell back onto land. When I saw the news it felt unreal. He was so young, so beautiful inside and out and seemingly had so much to live for. More than me. Yet he died and I choose life that day. Watching this video breaks my heart. I know the fire that slowly consumes him inside. I know the fear and I know that sometimes you cannot conquer the demons inside. I wish I could have reached out to him. It broke my heart then and it still does today.

[dhirahzulkefly]

what he said is true. if i tried to open up first, will people try to accept. ?

[TheWillowtear]

This was when he was preparing his debut and some idiots were like: "Crying is a new promotion now"

[jacqulynmiller]

This is why we listen when things like this first come to light. I immediately knew in January of 2015 when this was posted of how sad he was. It's what made me want to root for him more. Something in the pit of my soul said this man won't be around forever and you should cherish him as a performer while you can. I would comment small things on twitter before his death like "I hope you're having a good day and please be happy!" of course, i'm just a fan who paid closer attention then anyone else I knew, but I still wish I could've done more. Seeing his day through social media, hearing his radio show, all of that just really helped me mentally and made my days a little easier and more full. I truly miss those times as they were simpler, but i'm glad he is now resting peacefully. I just want to be sure that people do not act as if no one realized how upset he was until after his death because it was so painfully obvious.

[lithiumstar]

the hardest part is watching him share and open up and the fucking music playing in the bg is so loud and like almost disrespectful like they could have approached this so differently. he was such a genuine soul and this took so much courage. just wish they had taken this scene more seriously too..

[apparaokandregula]

What makes me sadder is the fact that he was clearly asking for help and no one...NO ONE...reached out to him...why are we like this?? WHY?? once the person is no more we cry for them and when the person is alive and struggling and asking for help ...we do nothing....

Haters said he cried for attention..LIKE SERIOUSLY?!? FOR ATTENTION?? he tried so hard to live on and even asked for help...

I don't know what to say anymore...this is soul crushing ...
I hope my angel is doing well in away from this cruel world. We love u Jonghyun.U will be remembered forever my love. RIP

[ruthiebeacham]

No matter how much time passes, , I still cry, when my oldest passed in 2023 it hit hard. I pray for his mother because I know what she is dealing with. It's no the method they left the fact their are here we play in heart, soul and Spirit

[hiilikepizza]

I miss you Jonghyun. So much, that it hurts so much...

[laiabot]

Jjong crying and rocking himself back and forth (which is a self-soothing mechanism) is just heart shattering, I wish I could’ve given this man the biggest hug in the world I am so sad I didn’t get to meet him to tell him how beautiful his mind and heart was and to encourage him to keep fighting through his hardships no matter how tough it gets, I believed in him, I wish he believed in himself too, I’ve been at that point where I wanted to end my own life as well and I fought like hell to get past it all. He needed someone that fateful night, I wish I could’ve been there. I wish someone was there. My chest hurts…my heart hurts. I miss him so much. I can’t believe he’s gone still. It hurts so much. Nothing can change this outcome it’s been 4 years…long live Kim Jonghyun, I love you so much bae we miss you here… :(

[juliaw]

I've been avoiding this video worried of what might happen.... I was finally able to watch it... I wish I hadn't

[nancyjackson]

Jonghyun with the teddy bear . I miss him

[nonfields]

"One can save millions of people, but millions can't save one"
I miss you jonghyun 😭 I hope that you are happy and I can't help but cry, cuz I'm going through it. I hope you rest in peace, it's been almost 3 years, idk, I just missed you a lot today. Thank you and I'm sorry 😭❤

[ramisamaliat]

I cannot stand this sad situation any more. I just broke into tears. I wish he would come back.