I'm Gay

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[becca]

I’m just gonna say it. It’s insanely selfish to marry a woman knowing that you are gay beforehand. Her feelings and her life matter too, and now she has to suffer unnecessarily because he used and lied to her.

[karen]

The idea of "the dillema" Is GREAT, can't wait to ser what is coming.

[crazyshelly]

I feel so sorry for his wife when he finally comes out because if she genuinely loves her husband and cherished thier marriage she will be devastated.

[wouldntyouliketoknow]

I was married to someone who is gay, who didn't tell anyone. We were together 7 years. As the years went by things got worse. He was not allowing himself to be himself, which put a lot of misery on him. I was always rejected for wanting intimacy to the point where I lost all confidence and self-esteem. We both were living in misery. At the end of our marriage, he was sneaking out and hooking up with men. He claimed he loved me, I had claimed I loved him, but it ends up being a different kind of love. You cannot change who you are, & both parties are owed the truth and freedom to be who they are. After I filed for divorce, you can tell we are both happier and now have the freedom to be ourselves.

[RaheemD]

Everyone is saying he needs to come out to his wife when he's ready, meanwhile I'm thinking he should divorce her regardless of whether he tells her he's gay because he's wasting her time and playing with her emotions. He can be in the closet and single until he's ready, she didn't ask to be on this journey with him. In addition, if his community because he is gay, he hasn't lost anything, he's gained self respect within himself for cutting people that don't really love him for him. I admit, this is easier said than done because that could be an entire support system. I would advise he tackle that when he's a lot more confident in himself and has a plan for supporting himself.

[lemueljr]

I grew up Mormon and I know several people who've had to deal with this dilemma. The answer is ALWAYS "yes" in the end no matter how hard the choice is to come out.

[alexbr]

And this is why we need a more educated and open-minded society to avoid situations like this.

[Poppinswevtie]

I feel like people are babying him and the fact that everyone is forgetting about how she feels is beyond. Even sexuality aside, I’ll always feel bad for the person who’s on the other end of a one sided romance especially if the other person knows they didn’t love them romantically.

[TheArtesianWells]

I love that both the “Yes” option and the “No” option indicated he needed to come out. I agree with the decision to wait and set up a firm foundation not only for himself but also for his wife. Coming out is one of the most challenging things I have ever had to do and is not a simple process. I’m glad he chose to wait and equip himself and his wife with the tools to handle this by going to counseling. Love and support to all involved.

[jannety]

I will be devastated if my husband lied to me about his sexuality. be yourself and don't lie. don't use me to hide your sexuality.

[danidesip]

Had someone placed on a psych hold because her husband came out to her. Poor thing just cried and cried all day. Never ate, never watched TV, nothing. I felt so bad for her. Despite the fact that it devastated her, she is better off knowing the truth. I hope that she is doing better now

[ryleigh]

The girl that was saying he doesn’t owe anyone anything…he made the choice to marry her knowing he was gay and she was not what he truly wanted. It’s not fair to her at all. He needs to be honest and deal with what he did to her. I wish he felt safe to come out before getting married and was able to be happy without destroying someone else in the process.

[PokéSSJ]

I completely agree with Chris at the end, yes he should come out but mentally emotionally and even financially prepare yourself for what comes with it.

[archiviste]

I feel bad for them both. The fact that his internalized homophobia has led to him entering a marriage with someone close to him who he doesn’t love romantically is very unfortunate for both parties. I feel very bad for his wife, but I do understand why he’d feel so trapped in his circumstances. Either way, I hope they both do better. His wife deserves better and so does he. I hope she can find someone who truly does love her and he can find a supportive community.

[juniethegoon]

It’s been a few months now… I hope he is safe and loved, and I hope his wife is okay.

[jjohnson]

To MARRY someone just because you thought it would change your sexuality is absolutely insane. Divorce is such a stressful process, emotionally and financially. What he did was selfish, and whatever may result is due to the consequences of his actions. With that being said, I truly do hope that he and his wife receives the best possible outcome from this.

[selenayates]

No matter what he does, he’s gonna hurt his wife. He needs to tell her the truth now. It’s not fair to her or him. Neither one will be truly happy until the truth comes out.

[BubblyBrie]

It’s so refreshing to know that there are still people in this world capable of showing empathy and human compassion regardless of their own personal convictions.

[geopixels]

I love the diversity of the cast here. You selected people of all varying backgrounds to help provide insight to different facets of life. For many people, people don’t think that LGBTQ sexuality and devout religion don’t clash but in many cases, it does. Jubilee selected people who both came from a religious background to speak to that aspect of his life and LGBT individuals fo speak for that aspect. And everyone was so respectful and concerned.

However, I really do think the longer he waits the more pain he’s going to inflict on his wife. So it’s definitely not something he can take his time on.

[fatmata]

Sadly, nobody is considering the wife's feelings in this and I can't imagine the betrayal that she's going to feel knowing he had never been in love with her. His relationship with her is based on a series of lies from the moment he married her. This all could have been avoided.