Women Are Tired Of Being Masculine

There's a new trend where women are calling themselves "soft girls," indicating that they are tired of being girl bosses and simply want to stay at home and become more feminine. Who could have predicted this?

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[sharmanmurphree-roberts]

Who ARE these crazy women who think that if you're a stay-at-home mom that means you get to focus on self-care and "try less"? I was a stay-at-home mom of 4, who homeschooled them all the way through high school. I did NOT have a soft, cushy life full of facials and Pilates! I had a very full life of caring for my family, but it was rare that anything was really about just me. I'm very glad that's the life I chose, but there was nothing easy about it. I don't know where women are getting this idea that women who actually take care of their homes and families themselves have it easy and get to be pampered all the time.

[froggiman]

There is a BIG difference between:
I want to be a wife and mother who raises my children while my husband supports us, and

I want to lie around leisurely and love myself.
These women are not asking to go back like it used to be. They are asking to do NOTHING while society supports them.

I can't be the only one who recognizes this!

[epicflounder]

I've always been a a tomboy and socially awkward, But I wanted to be a stay at home mom. The one thing more frustrating than being single in my thirties is people assuming I'm a feminist and this is what I want. It's not and it never was.

[KatelynnMN]

I think it's really important for young women to realize that self-discipline is a huge part of being a stay at home wife/mother. I'm 32 and a mother of 6. I stay home and homeschool our children and my husband works full time. It has been this way most of our marriage but it has taken me awhile to realize how much work goes into being a loving mother/wife. You enforce the structure of your home and are mostly responsible for instilling good daily habits in your children as they will naturally imitate the way you carry yourself on a daily basis. It is truly such a joy but very hard work if you desire to instruct and encourage your children in the way they should go. The Lord gives wisdom to those who ask and the one who seeks him diligently will find encouragement to be steadfast. As a young woman it is easy to be discouraged and lose sight of the purpose of it all, there isn't always an immediate reward for the seemingly mundane tasks of daily life, but God sees all that we do and will reward us richly if we continue to strive for the eternal crown and encourage that others do the same.

[ellam]

As a stay at home mom of two, a toddler and a baby, I have to say that this sounds very much like what people "think" motherhood is like. Most people think staying at home with the kids is very leisurely and full of self care. In actuality, this is the hardest thing I have ever done but also the most fulfilling. I wouldn't change my life for anything, in fact I even want more kids. After giving birth to my second child, my husband had a few weeks of paternity leave and by the end of it he readily admitted that I have the harder job and he is very happy to be the one making the money.

[JMK]

Anything that is trend will eventually go away and to be replaced with another one. Women need to stay true to who we are. If you’re naturally a girl boss, be a girl boss. If you’re a soft girl, be one. Be yourself and be natural. Don’t run with the trend because you will end up losing yourself or get tired of being someone that is not truly who you are.

[JoFa]

There is a big difference between thinking you can be feminine and live a life of leisure and being a feminine traditional wife who contributes to a relationship.

[Srcybe]

My mother and MIL HATE the fact that I'm a SAHM. They are Silent Gen. My MIL can't stand that I don't go to work, come home, take care of the house, three kids, and husband because that's what she did. Now I do ALOT. Housework, repairs, appointments, yardwork, sports, make sure the money goes where it's supposed to, and much more. My husband only really needs to focus on his job. They genuinely think that I'm lazy because I have zero desire to have a career. I love taking care of my boys, husband, and home. I have a side hustle so that I have my own spending money. They're so bitter and it really hurts. When my boys no longer need me (one isn't in school yet) at the home I will get a part time job but further than that my priority will be them, the house, and my husband. I can't wait for being a SAHM is no longer looked down at or mocked.

[coreythomas]

I’m a 31-year-old mom of two. There is nothing “leisurely” about my life and I wouldn’t trade it for the most intense girl-bossing lifestyle ever.

[antoniotrivelloni]

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a career. There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be a full-time homebody. There IS something wrong with demeaning others who make their choice

[Lawrence_Talbot]

There is nothing wrong with a woman who wants an education or to work. There is nothing wrong with a woman who wants to take care of herself and be in shape. I prefer all these things. But I also want a woman who wants to be a wife and mother, not someone who’s just looking for a sugar daddy while they sleep in all day

[nihari_pops]

its so cirnge because most of our mothers lived an old school life and now everyone finds it ground breaking that just having a family is "actually possible 🤯"

[elyssacorbaley]

Thank you so much for saying it out loud!! I don’t like the girl boss culture, but I also hate it when women say they just want to stay home, do self care, and relax for life. 😭
Being a stay at home wife and mother is hard work too, and it should be! To do it justice, you need to take care of your husband, children if there are any, the rest of your family, home, and community. Do whatever you can to grow and give back, no matter what you do with your life! 😊

[ajaxflaskaarbra]

Its amazing that we humans have gotten to the point ware just sticking to your nature is "the new thing"

[swimbossdaily]

It's sad that male and female roles were reversed in the first place. Finally people are starting to realize the crap world we live in.

[Shelley]

While I agree with this shift, the soft girl era may have the same core problem as girl boss: selfishness. Life is not about living the perfect life you dream of - we’re created to be builders! And women are wired to enjoy building a home (which is incredibly hard work…ask any awesome homemaker). That doesn’t mean you can’t choose to build something different! But in the end, whatever you choose to build (whether that’s a career or a home), don’t let selfishness be the center. ♥️

[jessicabaugh]

As a 40 week pregnant stay at home mom of a toddler, I can promise you, nothing about this life is “soft” or “leisurely.” It is a grind and you’d better believe I’m “hustling” day in and day out. The only difference between women like me and many women who live the girl boss life is that I do what I do for my husband and daughters, not for a promotion or a raise. My promotion will come years down the road when my daughters make me a grandma, and my pay comes in the form of watching my two year old play with and love on her daddy and feeling my baby move inside my womb. God’s design for a woman falls right in between the “soft girl” and “girl boss” tropes where I lean into my feminine by working hard from sun up to sundown to give a beautiful and meaningful life to my family, and in return I receive the same thing. And it’s 100% worth it ♥️

[heidineyra]

As my mom always said - there are seasons for your life and embrace them. She homeschooled 3 kids till we were in our teens. Went back to work part time. Went full time when I was 15 and I was the baby of the family. She’s had a flourishing career in the county since and is still working. That’s not even going over her career before she had kids! It’s okay to have seasons!

[_PannieCake_]

My mom hates that i want to be a house wife at my age, since she thinks that everyone should work until they can retire or cant work anymore.
I asked her one question that made her question that notion: "Are you happy?"
Her only happiest moments that she recalls was when she could just be a mom.

[MichelleMcCurdy-zx]

The entire reason I pursued nursing was because in my mind it’s easier to be a mom and a nurse than to be a mom and a doctor. Whenever I gave that answer, I was surprised by how many people looked at me funny because “why on earth would you take that into consideration?” and “you can be a doctor and a mom too!”. I know, but no call hours, an incredibly variable schedule, and being able to leave work at work seems a lot easier to me. People get defensive, like I’m attacking them when they discover I prioritize planning for a family in the future, but I have no idea why? What could be more important than my future family? Nothing.