Is Life UNFAIR for Short Men?

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Mindset is everything when it comes to self-image. A short guy can think the world is against him and blame his height, but doing that will only result in a losing world view. Focus on what you can control and comment your thoughts below! I'd love to engage with you guys on this #shorts video.
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[eanderson]

I’ve been pretty angry about my height for years... 22 years old and 5’5. I’ve always had these depressing nights where watch height videos and read articles/studies for hours. I just can’t be happy with my height, no way to get any respect

[akifrahman]

I'm brown and 5'3 and 1/2...yes the 1/2 really counts!.. .. And
I really needed this thank you!

[JG-yrtk]

Hey, I'm having a dark time in life. And this advice has helped me stay out of the red line in life. I feel like shit and it's Christmas and this video motivated me to get up and try my best. 5'3 as well. ❤

[subhodeepsinha]

Being just 5'0" and a boy, (especially in country like India, where even the Gods are portrayed taller than goddesses)is suffering!
Thanks Adam, keep up the good work!

[nixonkhandare]

0:52 Why can't we just accept the fact that heightism exist instead of trying to be more funny, commanding and compensating with other things no I am not getting rejected because of my personality Just accept you don't have any control over it

[danielg]

5'5 here. I refuse to have to work harder just so someone MIGHT decide to ignore my height and date me. That's so self patronizing.

[MaisieDaisyUpsadaisy]

When you are small, the majority of girls will instantly reject you because you do not meet their minimum height threshold. The only way you can compete with tall guys is by becoming elite in all the other aspects to do with your physical attraction.

[zkr]

I’m very happy for you, you’re very brave I’m 34 and have never been happy about it, I’m trying my best to get out of this mindset, watching this video at least made my day better. Thank you.

[makdhar]

I am 5’1 and 25, never had a girlfriend or kissed anyone yet, everyday i think of ending my life because of this, dont have the confidence to do anything anymore.

[pinacolada]

My whole life women around me said they want to date a tall guy. I used to think the same bit not anymore. IDC if my fam disapproves me getting married with a short guy. My life and my choice

[Andy-hthg]

As a short guy if a women brings up my height and low key insults me I low key insult them back most of the time they end up liking me ....so weird.

[theskyizblueday]

So they all said no? Blackpill isn’t a some political ideology. It’s the reality we live in

[ThaMobstarr]

Fellow 5'3" guy here. I really appreciate your uplifting content, Adam! I don't know exactly how I did it, but I learned to focus less and less on my height and more on other things. It also helped to get myself in situations which are highly uncomfortable, i.e. asking girls out. It didn't really work out with me yet in regards to women, but my experience has shown me that there are in fact women who like short guys and who like me. It's not like I have shaken off my insecurity completely, but it has gotten waaaay better than in my days, when I spent time on /r/short and those other depressing subreddits.

Also, maybe a bit unrelated, but I have been watching a lot of videos of the youtube channel "Special books by special kids". It's a channel made by a teacher for special-needs kids. He rides across the US and interviews people with disability. Now I am not saying that being short is a disability, but just watching those interviews with all kinds of peoples shows me that I actually have a lot to be thankful for. And your outer appearance is just a part of you. It's an important part, but it does not define your worth.

I feel like a common problem for us short guys is not that we are short. It's that we don't feel good enough and valuable and relate that to something that we have literally no control over. So we can feel safe in seemingly knowing that we can't do anything anyway. It's actually way harder to take a closer look and see what my internal issues are. I am working a lot on discovering my self-worth and looking at my self-image the last few weeks.

[nocturnalwolf]

Im so mad at the world for being unfair to me 😢 this has gotten worse and worse

[TopG]

This is when a hero becomes a villain. I used to be a good guy, good to everyone. But since everybody started becoming taller and started bullying me and giving up on me (even the closest to me laughed at me)because of my height, I just smiled to them and had the motivation to improve myself drastically. But with the motivation came with it the anger and feeling of vengeance.

[bruh-xbuy]

I’ve started working out, I’m in very good shape, I’ve bettered myself and worked on charisma, I still get bullied about being short and everybody treats me like I’m 12, I’ve just given up at this point.

[stewartlittle]

5'3 damn. I feel bad for complaining when im 5'7

[DaveThaBossDTB]

I was never conscious of me being short affecting me. You start to realize it when people start treating you differently for weird reasons.

Luckily, all of us can get muscular pretty damn fast. I can more or less eat whatever I want (as long as it is not too unhealthy) and still look good.

Just start working out or playing soorts gents. This is the way.

[FFi-movf]

5'7 but i feel just okay, sometimes sad.

[FreshTooDef]

Just for saying that most short guys get friend zoned..