Am I Sinful If I Don't Forgive Them? - Nouman Ali Khan (Urdu Q&A 16 - Pakistan)

In seeking guidance on the matter of forgiveness, our dear Aunty and dedicated student inquired with Ustadh Noman Ali Khan during the Akhri Moujza (Divine Speech Urdu) program in Pakistan. Her questions revolved around the extent of forgiveness and whether it is warranted for an untrustworthy individual. Additionally, there was a concern about being sinful by not extending forgiveness in such cases.

Are we obligated to forgive someone even if they don't 'deserve' it? Will Allah SWT punish us if we don't do so? What does the Quran or examples from the Sunnah say about this?

Ustadh Nouman shares his insights and thoughts on this complex issue.

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[MuslimahTiktok]

Forgiveness, does not mean we go back to how we were. Most people want you to forget what they did.

[sammyann]

This has given me so much peace….There are people who repeatedly hurt you & then try to act normal as if it’s their right to choose when they can hurt some one & then come back & start acting all normal.

[Najaf_Mughal]

Every time I listen to you, my eyes get wet. I am not able to come to America and meet you, nor do I have enough money, but I have a great desire to meet you and talk to you face to face. You are like a kind teacher to me. May Allah give you long blessed life. Amen ❤

[Sunflowersarepretty]

Ustadh's urdu is better than most urdu speakers living in Pakistan. He's actually making an effort while most don't even do that. ❤ And love his explanations whether they're in urdu or English

[piqueny]

Going through domestic abuse livin at the parents home constantly told my prays fasting good deeds are worthless if I don’t speak to my abusive siblings and there spouses
There terms of “forgivenesses” means being a docile door mat again and allowing them to treat me unjustly and with oppression

And to keep family honor by suffering in silence

[simify]

I couldn't stop my tears after watching this. I had this question since many years something similar story that aunty narrated happened with me and maybe many women around the world.
Jazakallah khair for sharing this.
May Allah guide us all in this journey

[cheacuba]

So important to know this and to not feel guilty about not being able to forgive someone who hurt you more than once…
even family and even if you really want it!

[abdurrafaywali]

"to YAHIN poch rahin hon apse" was just soooo cute ALLAH Ta'la ap ki mushkilaat asaaaan kare !

[izzy.i]

I’m pleased with what he said bcoz some people are pure evil that they don’t deserve forgiveness.

[khazeemmalik]

This is one of the best interactions. To all the moms out there ♥️

[istiakahmedsunny]

I'm requesting you guys. please pray for me. I'm so sick. Only Allah can heal me. If others pray for me, may Allah have mercy on me and heal me miraculously. Please say ameen for me.

[ayya]

"Forgiving and surrender are two different things."
"Memaafkan dan menyerah adalah dua hal yang berbeda."

May Allah always protect us physically, mentally, and spiritually 🤲 Aamiin

[utubebeena]

Allah says to forgive is better, but He also said we can seek our right of retribution in Surah an-Nahl.

Forgive but don't forget what they have done., draw a line but keep the silah where family is concerned.

[MuslimGirl]

Muaf krna aur hathiyar dalna do alag alag chije hoti h...well said 5:23

[abdallahfarooq]

Brilliant that you put English subtitles thank you

[green]

Assalamualaikum, sir I want to meet you iny life because your way to explain hadith and Quran is excellent. I have never seen in my life. Allah apko nek kaam me kamyabi de. Aameen

[lostnlistless]

May Allah bless you Sir Nouman, my iman was low and then i watched a few of your speeches and vids and i feel better. Thank you

[soniazakir]

Soo amazing answer so so amazing answer and from this answer so many people are gonna learn, JazakAllah Ustad ❤

[AyeshaKhan-mxyv]

Mostly needed answer jazakallah khair ❤

[mussaftab]

I admire your knowledge and pray for your life, health and your parents AMEEN