Unpopular opinion but I don’t believe in giving a teen PRIVACY unless they using the bathroom

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[kaayleelynnn]

I don’t think what she is doing is wrong. Kids these days do inappropriate things and talk to adults online. As long as she has a healthy set of boundaries in place with her children, this is not wrong.

[teahgarcia]

as a teenager with a mother who acts like this, i will just lie to her and not tell her a single thing about my life. i’ve never felt even remotely comfortable talking to her about my friends and stuff. this is exactly how you make your kid hate you. a much better approach would be to make you kid feel like they can tell you things instead of squeezing it out of them.

[Ace-vzjg]

Crazy how you finna get no privacy neither in the retirement home 💀

[jay_____ber]

Kids do need privacy. If you’re worried about your child online sit them down and inform them about the dangers of talking to strangers online. Tell them the red flags and what they should look out for. Hell even direct them to videos about grooming. Give them guidance not a reason to lie to you. Smh

[Blitz_Noodler]

At a certain age, around being a teenager, if you do this, your child will never have trust in you again. Your invading their independence. Obviously if they have done something harmful, step in, but you shouldn't strip them of their privacy. That will alienate them and make them hate you and make them struggle with boundaries in the future.

[islandgirl]

Absolutely NOT. Everyone deserves privacy. If you've taken the time to raise them so they're not scared of telling you things, you don't have to invade their privacy.

Everyone's families are different, I know that. But breaching privacy as the standard is so disrespectful. You won't get respect or transparency as a result of that.

[anonanon]

Everyone deserves privacy. Be a proper leader, and you won't have to worry about your body, kids..

[whosKatie]

I disagree because as they grow they won't want to tell you anything, They'll become MASTERS at lying and hiding things from you. They won't trust you. And they won't understand completely either, even if you explain it over, and over again "It's because I care about you", " it's because of love you", They won't always understand kids deserve love, affection, and care not being treated like Prisoners.

[talasiamurrell]

I had privacy as a child and my auntie-mommy didn’t spoil me rotten with attention or was overly affectionate. I had a phone, tablet and laptop with passwords. I wasn’t obligated to give the passwords. I was able to forge my aunts signatures and ask her money for trips and food. My curfew literally didn’t exist as long I was with someone I trusted and had my phone (I would call if I was going to be later then 9:30 because I knew she would worry). I was also able to curse but I didn’t curse out my aunt out of respect. She sounds hands off but when I got hurt I always ran to her, she stopped anything and everything to help me i.e when I scraped my face open by falling or when I felt ugly in the clothes I was wearing. One of my older sisters was raised with no privacy and was doted because my mother favored her. Literally was a street runner and prolific liar. I am not saying this will happen but literally this blindsided my mother. She believed a child should stay in a child’s place and disliked my aunts approach in raising me.

[VVVV___VVVV]

This is how you teach your kids to lie good and hide good. They’ll have VMs on their phones and computers. Or hidden apps that can only be accessed in an specific way. Check on your kids but don’t helicopter them for too long

[minimountainm]

she right, but also raise them well enough so that they have nothing to hide from you

[krazytreRTM]

In today's day and age, there's way too many things that people can get into, people they can talk to, etc. Social media has made way too much of an impact in people's lives.

My nephew is young, and I don't have to worry about his teen years for quite some time, but I would definitely check to see what they're doing, what they're trying to download, etc.

I watched a video of a mom who had a daughter, and they basically had an agreement that if the daughter was to have a phone, the mother would go through it whenever she felt the need to. That's the kind of communication and understanding that some should strive for.

I'm not gonna say that kids don't *deserve* privacy, but they do need to be guided. A parent/guardian should have a helping hand and a watchful eye to make sure that they're going in the right direction, and making good choices.

[tigre]

It's not that they don't DESERVE privacy. That makes it sound to the child, that they are not worthy of privacy. It's more about, Kids are not fully equipped to protect themselves from today's predators. Because they are inexperienced with life.

[christina]

My parents were like this. I'm 34 and STILL lying to them about almost everything even though we live on opposite coasts. I moved FAR away as soon as I could too. Your kids will likely love you but dislike you and not trust you when they grow up.

[Trippy]

Kids do need privacy but they also need guidance

[junsan]

I understand this statement but as a closeted gay kid in a religious state (yes the whole state) online was the way I was able to find a community for myself and try to better understand who I was so .... But I totally get your point too

[annabana]

they need privacy but also structure so they can know what’s right and what’s wrong, blankly as a lot of people may think it’s not the deep, the more you push a child away from something the more they want it especially as adolescence.
she is right but also wrong 😌

[thatsigher]

damn wild that this is gonna be the same attitude your kids give you after they put you in the nursing home ❤

[Ser_Jorah]

If a kid hasnt given you reason to suspect something they do deserve some level of privacy or respect. You can deny it all you want but it just makes you sound like a bad parent whose kids will just grow up to resent you.

[majicmarshallow]

True because it's easy for a stranger to trick kids especially on the internet .I have a talk with my kids all the time and I make them watch the news .I always who what when and where and I don't let my kids play inside people house or spend the night