Questions I hate being asked as a transgender #mtf

These questions annoy me a lot. So I’d like to share to those who might be interested in talking with a transgender person and wanna know how to approach that without being offensive.

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[tyhjkl]

I want to be more femme, and these questions are things I'm not excited about if it happens to me..

[MrPAULONEAL]

Some don't even disclose the fact that they are trans.

[ramaslambert]

Some questions have to be asked if your are with that special someone but at random no. He or she should know because what we are turned on by is what makes us sexual creatures. Random people shouldn't ask these things and I find it perverted.

[RonniePTexan]

This is another video where you say these things. In the other video you mention that these questions come on the various dating apps that you are on. You could save everyone, both you and the guys, a lot of time and headache if you just did a couple of things.

1. In your dating profile say "I have had SRS surgery" or "I have not had SRS surgery". This would stop 99% of the questions about your surgeries and your...parts.
2. Put in your dating profile "I am _not_ a top! So don't even ask!" This will stop all of the questions about top or bottom etc.
3. Add to your profile things like "I'm shy/conservative/old fashioned when it comes to sex. Please don't assume that we will be having sex or even talking about sex on our first or even second date"
4. Be more up front about what you want, don't want, and things that you have as relationship goals. Any woman (trans or otherwise) who says things like "I'm marriage minded" or "I'm looking for long term relationships only" or "I'm _not_ interested in hookups/one-night-stands" will get a different sort of treatment. Different guys will be reaching out to you because they will know already that you aren't the "hookup" type. The guys that are only looking for hookups won't even message you to begin with.

Hopefully you'll think these things over and implement some or all if them so you avoid being offended so often, and you won't be wasting your's or anyone else's time.

Have a good day.

[marcovunderink]

Hello jamiie its normely to do different vings insite ore lifse

[robertdrevyanko]

I'm sorry that so many people are so incredibly confused and inconsiderate when they try to get to know you. If I were to ask you anything it would be do you like American country music like the song by garth brooks it's called The Dance or songs buy Brad pasly like the song called THEN or do you like kerioki or dancing? I like slow dancing because I'm not very good at fast Dancing and what kind of food is your favorite for me I like Italian food and Asian foods for the most part or do you like watching movies this is the kind of conversation I would have with a pretty young woman like you or any one I met ♥ Respectfully yours Robert

[Laidback]

I wouldn't ask you anything in the bedroom. Just being honest. 😏

[DarDarBinks]

I've been asked by a lot of people if I'm going to start dating men. What makes them think that I, a trans woman, like men? Not all of us are straight, bi, or pan. I myself am a lesbian and thus only date other women. I've never had any attraction to guys.

[ramaslambert]

Sorry I jumped the gun on that one but nobody should know what surgery or anything about you unless you are close.